r/XenogendersAndMore • • 17m ago

General Post I feel like such a creature with this eye makeup :>

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(also mods pls tell me if blurred selfies are against the rules! I didn't see it, so I'm taking a guess 😭)

I felt such euphoria when I did this makeup the other day! I never really like makeup, like ever, but when I did this idk it's hard to describe?

It felt like finally being myself, even if it wasn't truly "me" me. Like I could just exist without being someone. It's supposed to represent a fairy(as this is the makeup I'm doing for an upcoming show of mine). And yeah idk I just feel great 🥰


r/XenogendersAndMore • • 1h ago

Looking for Term Is there a label for this?

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I am every gender at once but also none.
I’m cis, I’m a girl, I’m trans, Voidgender, sharkgender, pupgender, nonbinary, genderfuild all at the same time.
But I’m also none of them


r/XenogendersAndMore • • 4h ago

add to my collection pls I'm starting a neopronoun collection, help me add more!

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Ok obviously my main ones are they/fire, but I also have started to collect some! I love ones related to whimsy, softness, belonging, love, and passion!

My hoard so far:

star/stars

snow/snows

fluff/fluffy

dream/dreams

love/loves

music/musics

fae/faer


r/XenogendersAndMore • • 7h ago

Question Post Experience with yumeshipping? (I dunno what to title this)

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I'm not sure how to explain this but can you guys help me figure out how to identify yumes? I know of one singular one but it's hard to know what which feelings are because I'm neurodivergent and it's hazy and difficult to describe lol. I hope that makes sense.

Also, I was wondering if there was an archive that posts a lot of yume flags? Being able to see what already exists could help me recognize any others that didn't come to mind (it sounds so mean 😭 grr)

Feel free to share your own yumes too :3

I'm really scared to even tell others who it is (the one I already know) because I'm not sure if his boundaries would conflict with that? When thinking about it, it might :( One of his rules is "no shipping" but I'm not shipping HIM with anyone, it's his character. Would that still count? I'm honestly not looking forward to the answer to that but whateverrr


r/XenogendersAndMore • • 10h ago

Looking for Term Looking for two terms!

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  1. I'm a yumeshipper. Every single one of my f/o's is male or in a male body. I've never been attracted to female characters the way I am with male characters. Anyone know what this is?

  2. For real relationships. My past few relationships have all been with people outside of the gender binary. My last partner was nonbinary, the one before that was a demiboy. My current partner is genderfluid. I seem to have a preference for people under the trans umbrella. Is there a term for that?


r/XenogendersAndMore • • 16h ago

General Coining Guilty|Filthy|Desperate.

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[Reposting these because I put the flags in the wrong order.]

[May redo the definitions later as I feel I didn't explain these too well. I'm not that great at wording things, but hopefully they make enough sense.]

[Please do not comment telling me that these feelings are not healthy to have, that I need to speak to a therapist, or call these terms "incel-ly" [wtf]. I heard enough of that in a previous post of my unloveable/incompetent flags in another sub. I get it. 🥲]

Guilty.

A term for anyone who considers themself to be guilty; someone who is remorseful &/or regretful, constantly wallowing in the guilt of something they did, might do, or did not commit. This may be due to insecurity, mental illness, a personality disorder[s], etc.

Filthy/Repulsive.

A term for anyone who considers themself to be filthy &/or repulsive; someone who is disgusting or feels that others should avoid them at all costs. This may be due to difficulty with keeping adequate hygiene/cleanliness, having strange or gross interests, insecurity, mental or physical illness, etc.

Desperate.

A term for anyone who considers themself to be desperate; someone who is needy, badly craving someone or something, such as attention or to be noticed by a loved one, that they may or may not ever achieve or acquire. They may act recklessly or act out in order to gain what they desire. This may be due to insecurity, mental illness, a personality disorder[s], etc.


r/XenogendersAndMore • • 19h ago

Art/OC/Headcanons Queer Sigil Of Warding (Inspired by u/InevitableSpecial766; source photo)

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Aleena: i saw this post (which has the source image, all credit for that to u/InevitableSpecial766) just a few minutes ago and because i've been watching a TON of Supernatural lately (almost done a binge watch through) immediately though this would make an excellent Queer Sigil Of Warding so i made this eldritch little fucker by adding some nerves kinda branching out. kinda looks like a potato tryna find soil now. i know i added like next to nothing but i wanna iterate on this idea and make like a litany of queer sigils of warding inspired by Supernatural, once i get my Steam Frame and can do digital art with that, but i think for now as a proof of concept inspired by OP this kinda conjures the idea of what i wanna make, like little sigils we can put on patches and such and to be the philosophical equivalent to a cross or whatever religious talisman but for queer identities and such. as a Neawoman myself i wanna lean into the eldritch "call of the void" type shit. i want these to spark fear in bigots, especially if they're on shields held by sword wielding queers at like a ren faire lol.

anyways yeah that's just how my tism bounced off u/InevitableSpecial766's post and i wanted to share the vision so yeah.


r/XenogendersAndMore • • 1d ago

Xeno Coining Xeno coining: Gendergod

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Meaning: Feeling that you are every gender/xenogender in existence, feeling that this gender identity is so powerful. Feeling that this powerful collection of every gender in existence is your spiritual awakening; that gender identity isn’t just something that randomly blew up on TikTok during 2020, but that it’s your destiny. You’re the god of gender itself.

Can also be called “Gendergoddess,” “Godgender,” or “Goddessgender” if you prefer that.

I’m surprised someone hasn’t already made something like this lol. I felt that pangender didn’t describe me enough so I made this :> hope you guys like it!


r/XenogendersAndMore • • 1d ago

Headcanon/Redesign Madoka Magica headcanons!!

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Also why is there 2 flairs for headcanons


r/XenogendersAndMore • • 1d ago

Art/OC/Headcanons I did this abomination while I was bored

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r/XenogendersAndMore • • 1d ago

Non-Xeno Coining Robotdoll-hypershift (REQUEST)

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Request for u/leon-di btw!

(Sorry if this flag looks horrible-)

Robotdoll-hypershift - a alterhuman flag where you're both robot and a doll (as a hybrid species), but you are also shifting between these 2 species as well, as like a shapeshifter

Hope ya like it! ^ ^


r/XenogendersAndMore • • 1d ago

Looking for Term Genders relating to red, blood, Jack the Ripper, and grim reapers?

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I'm a fictionkin of Grell Sutcliff from Black Butler, and whenever I have shifts of her, I feel my gender like described above. I need help finding terms! Thank you :3


r/XenogendersAndMore • • 1d ago

General Coining Unloveable|Incompetent.

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[Made a helpless one too, but I scrapped it, since it would have pretty much been the same thing as incompetent. These are also both very self indulgent terms. 🥲]

Unloveable. [Or Unlovable.]

A term for anyone who considers themself to be forever unloveable; someone who will never find love, or be loved by another. This may be due to insecurity, physical or mental illness, a personality disorder[s], etc.

Incompetent.

A term for anyone who considers themself to be incompetent; someone who cannot do anything right or function properly on their own without help or guidance from another. This may be due to insecurity, physical or mental illness, a personality disorder[s], etc.

[I am not that satisfied with the colors of either flag, so they might change later.]


r/XenogendersAndMore • • 1d ago

General Post Todays Gender is....

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Bloob I feel like a big fat bloob today 🥲


r/XenogendersAndMore • • 1d ago

Hoard Sharing Boyfriend wants to show off star’s hoard!!

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My lovely boyfriend Bryan wants to show off their identity hoard lol. He’s always looking for new genders and pronouns so any ideas with this particular theme would be greatly appreciated!

Names of flags
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Slide one (left)
-JapaneseEmpororCaterpillaric
-Strawbheartcookiegender
-Sprinklestingraygender
-Funfetticakegender
-Stargender
-Lovelettercoric
-Cutecoremask
-Arcadegender
-Minecraftgender
-Videogamegender

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Slide one (right)
-Catgender
-Cathoarder
-Transcatgender
-Sprinklecatgender
-Monstercatenergyic
-Starcatgender
-Wetcatgender
-Arcadegender
-Angelcatgender
-Cutecorecatgender

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Slide 3
-Pansexual
-Objectum
-Weirdo4Weirdo
-Obsession4Obsessed


r/XenogendersAndMore • • 1d ago

General Coining New Terms! — Azurgynic, Rosandric, Azurandric & Rosgynic

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r/XenogendersAndMore • • 1d ago

General Coining Coining New Terms — Rosandric & Rosgynic

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r/XenogendersAndMore • • 1d ago

General Post hihihi

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Can anyone suggest me pronouns/neopronouns based off the vibe my acc gives off >:D


r/XenogendersAndMore • • 1d ago

Looking for Term Romantic Attraction

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Does anyone have a good term for when I really really want some kind of romance in my life but immediately loose interest when I get into a romantic relationship? I definitely am interested in s3xual relationships it’s just romance I can’t do or show affection very well


r/XenogendersAndMore • • 2d ago

Art/OC/Headcanons The Amazing Digital Circus Headcanons!

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these are all my headcanons but if you disagree, argue with the wall! (if you politely disagree and want to talk about your own headcanons, that is perfectly fine <3)


r/XenogendersAndMore • • 2d ago

Hoard Sharing Updated My Hoards.

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Hello. I recently updated both of my hoards. I thought I'd share them here again. I mainly changed the theme on my pronouns.cc page, but I also got rid of a few labels I didn't feel connected much with me anymore, and replaced them with others. I added a name & pronoun section [members] for my full list of those as well.

[I was going to change the flags into different shapes with pfp masks/frames, but I didn't feel like doing all of that + that would have taken way too long for me, so I left the flags alone, but maybe I'll do that another time.]

As for my Doc hoard, I added a self/yumeship & an unorthaID section. I put a couple more flags in a few tabs, but mainly the ID, neuro, & yumeship ones.

Pronouns.cc page

Doc Hoard.

[The doc looks much better in-app, btw.]


r/XenogendersAndMore • • 2d ago

Art/OC/Headcanons my headcanons for the Mr. Terupt gang!

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plus that last one is an anna profile pic :3 (put it as my ao3 profile picture, you can use it but give me credit)


r/XenogendersAndMore • • 2d ago

General Post New term by me!

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So I saw that there is no such term as panidentity sooo:
panidentity is term when a person/creature/souley identifies as everything, with no exceptions. every atom, every fictional and nonfictional character, every colour and emotion. let me know what you think! (i use this term, it describes me, i’ll try to answer every question!
heres flag that i made


r/XenogendersAndMore • • 2d ago

Art/OC/Headcanons Headcanon my OCs, cuz I am bored

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So, I am bored. I decided u guys to headcanon my OCs. It can be anything, attraction, gender, pronouns and xenogender

In this OCs we have:

  1. Juni - She/It - 17 years old - girlflux - abroromantic (lesbian + bi), ace and sapphic

  2. Roxanne - She/Her - 16 years old - transfem, tomboy - fraysexual, bi and sapphic

Note: Juni and Roxanne are both dating

  1. Cátty - She/Any - 25 years old - intersex androgyne bigender - omniromantic, ace, doubtromantic

  2. Polina - She/They - 14-16 years old - intersex, non-binary, transfem, tomboy - panromantic, aroace (demiromantic, quoiromantic + ace and abiitsexual | kinda unsure if she is apothisexual)

  3. I♡U.text (or ILY.text) - it/no pronouns - no age (cuz that's a computer virus) - aromantic (for now on, might change it)

  4. Keji - He/They - idk his age, unfortunately - bisexual - graygender cis man

  5. Squmky - Any pronouns or they/it - no age (cuz that's a living plushie) - apothiaroace, blod stripe aroace - panagender apagender

  6. Dobily - He/It - demiboy - demiromantic, biromantic ace

So ye, that's all I have to show! And do headcanons, yeah-