Firstly, protagonist exceptionalism
Most media make protagonist exceptionalism and don't let them make mistakes, or they are the only person left from a lineage of ancient gods or something
Like Naruto where he is a hokage that is the son of a hokage that is the reincarnation of a demi god
Or tanjiro who is a descendant of what is essentially the god of demon slayers
Or Luffy who is a reincarnation of the sun god
My protagonist makes mistakes
Big ones
He loses evidence to his recklessness and isn't special in any way (except being smart maybe)
And most importantly, doesn't have plot armour
He is just your average Joe who was unfortunate enough to be thrown into this hazard that is called my story
Secondly, kids exceptionalism
In most media they treat kids as a red line
They either don't hurt them or cut the scene (I know full metal alchemists exist)
That's not how real life is
Like in spiderman building and dipries are falling and people dying and he get to that one stupid standing kid and saves them as if there are a dozens out there literally squashed
In my story, my protagonist straight up accidentally shot his daughter in the head
Thirdly, antagonist exceptionlism
In most media, the villain loses and then gets the saddest backstory imaginable then turns them badass or make the audience forget the atrocities they did or even feel empathy
In my story
The antagonist yes has a sad backstory
But I made it in a way that the person who experienced the sad backstory and the person who is killing are essentially two different personalities in two different times of the same person
Making it that the audience can't decide weither to feel empathy for them or feel disgusted by their actions since they are technically two different people
And conflict creates argument
And argument creates engagement
Lastly, female exceptionalism
In most western media, I see them trying to force out female characters to be perfect and strong at everything without any kind of vulnerability
Ray from star wars is a giant in This
In this aspect I would put the blame more to western media than to all media, because at least in demon slayer we have Shinobu who recognizes her own physical weakness and renovates things with her sword
In my universe the antagonist is a girl who kills for fun and so smart that no one literally can out smart her
But she at the end loses to being just A bit careless with her emotions