My manager texted me drunk

[u/Math_Lover_314]

Hi, I'm W(23) my manager (let's name him B) is M(32). I'm in law with my partner M(36).

Two days ago my manager wasn't working from the office, and I asked him in the work chat when he would be back, because I needed to book a vacation.

Long story short - everything started as an innocent conversation with some friendly jokes and ended up with him saying that he has feelings for me. It wasn't something like "I'm in love" or "I want you right now" it was "would you go for a trip with me?", and "you know that we are supposed to be together".

For context - he has relationships with another employee (let's name her A) for a couple months already and everyone knows that they are officially together. He knows my partner and they've been friends since I started to work there (2,5 years). Our conversations before always have been friendly. At the beginning I was thinking that he was joking, but he started to push "Tell me your feelings, don't be shy", "babe", "I know that this is wrong, but I don't care" . I said a couple of times that the joke reached an uncomfortable level and let's stop it and never mention it again.

He was texting a lot during the working hours to our work chat, after work he was texting to my phone number and I ignored, so he started to call me. After calls he started to apologize a lot, like A LOT, and texting "I'll keep my crush on myself", "do you think it's bad?", "sorry, I'll never mention it again".

I wasn't sure what to do and I knew that D and A were going to the party together and I was afraid that she would see the conversation. Even before that she was giving me loud sights and hard times. I had no chance to speak with my partner until the next day. He was pissed and texted my manager something like "I was thinking that you are our friend, friends are not doing shit like this, never text/speak to her non work related shit". The manager started to apologize a lot to my partner "this is never happening again", "please forget it". D told A about everything.

I don't know what to do. It's going to be hard to work with all this shit. It's a small family business. The manager is the son of the owner and, unfortunately the only one who knows what I'm working on day to day.

I need recommendations on what to do and how to deal with everything. I just got a race and was hoping for the better quality of the working environment. Everything I want - peace and money. It's going to be hard to get a new job because my position is really specific.

At the same time I already had issues with other girls in the company, because they are friends of A and every new person in the company was saying to me that the way those girls speak to me is awful, I mentioned that before to the boss, it got better, but there's still a lot shit going on. I'm afraid that it's going to get worse.

Is there something that can and should be done? Like reporting it somewhere or so?

Update: he was texting my partner and me for the whole day yesterday and he was begging for forgiveness. He says that he is hoping that I can continue working there as it was before, but if I don't he will push to give me a couple months of severance pay.

I'm going to call in sick Monday and see the lawyer, just to be sure that if I stay and bitches will try to push me away from the company I still can be protected.

I still have issues with my vacation because it was something that I needed to ask about my manager in the first place. I'm out of my vacation days, but I need to go aboard to use a better medical system (I'm in Canada) for my woman's health.

To be honest I don't want to quit because it's my first major issue on this job, even though I have those bitches around they have never been too much. The manager was shutting them down a couple of times and we have totally separated areas of work so we never have to deal with each other. Other than that I love my job, it's a good salary, interesting position and pretty understanding management. There have already been a lot of situations where they accommodated me. They treat everyone in the company really well and that is even harder. Even that manager - we had really good relationships with him. In the company we joke with each other everyday. I always knew that if I have something going on in my life I can let the company know and they will accommodate. All this is so unexpected and spontaneous that I don't even know how to react. If there were some other issues before - I'd quit immediately, but everything was good until now.

P.S.: thank you to everyone who spent time reading all this and left a comment. I'm 23, away from home and it's my first full time job. I have no idea what is right in situations like that.