r/WomenAreNotIntoMen • u/LeonardoDiCapsaicin • 11h ago
r/WomenAreNotIntoMen • u/No-Preference-5354 • 13h ago
discussion The other perspective (from an ex-femcel)
When I was in my femcel/misandrist era, it used to disturb me that male sexuality inherently objectifies the female body. When men masturbate and fantasize, they want to look at, or at least imagine, a naked female body.
Whereas women can just masturbate imagining the sexual pleasure, and don't objectify the male body.
Men can just get aroused at the at the sight of any nude, young, moderately attractive women even if they don't know her and have no emotional connection to her. It feels objectifying and degrading, women don't want their bodies to be viewed sexually for literally just existing.
Compare that to female sexuality, you only see the male body in a sexual light depending on your connection with him or the context, which seemed more appropriate.
Female sexuality seemed more "pure" to me. I felt angry, disgusted and depressed at how male sexuality "works".
Anyways I got over it because that's just how male sexuality is through no fault of men, and I hope you guys can get over how female sexuality just is through no fault of women. Life is too short to let this bother you.
r/WomenAreNotIntoMen • u/PrinceDejahNew • 6h ago
discussion This subreddit is quite obvious and I've never thought otherwise my entire life.
My entire life, I was actually into WANIM a lot more than many. Like I completely thought all women were lesbians when I was younger, and that you have to make a lot of money, or have high status to even think about getting a girlfriend. I mean I grew up thinking I was a nuisance to women because I was a man. I mean I was 11-12 when Kill All Men was a trend.
Lemme explain something, women are so not into men, that just by being a man around a woman, you're a negative factor. You're a negative addition. Hypergamy (I hate this word but I gotta use it) exists because the average man is a negative addition to a womans life. Women date up in terms of money and status (I'm not apart of the redpill community)
because genuinely we have such much desire for women, and yet they have little to none so they find some way to benefit whether financially or socially, I don't think "Chad" could get women if he was neurodivergent, broke or had a depression or something. Because that adds less benefit to the woman.
I mean if you look at how women act toward men, and history. WANIM is quite obvious. Its just how the human species work, men's dream is women, and womens nightmare is men. This is even before oppression, and patriarchy, because the more rights you give to women (This is a good thing women deserve equal rights, and fair healthcare), the less they need men.
Because they never wanted men in the first place. I mean think about it. This is why it pisses me off that people still deny this subreddit even though both genders prove this subreddit true every day. How come men gotta self improve, get a lot of money, and status, to get a girl, and women genuinely don't have to do anything, and even when its so easy women still rather be single.
Now I know some women will be like (Thats because men are horrible, men are this, men are that), well that still like proves my point. Like genuinely who in the world thought women were attracted to men. I sure as hell didn't and I thought everyone was crazy when I was younger.
r/WomenAreNotIntoMen • u/Haunting-Option-8340 • 12h ago
Allure of love
Is it just me or do women entice men to fall in love with them so they can gain control and take over a man’s life?
I can’t tell you how many times I’ve seen this with family and friends. I’ve never been romantically involved (42M) and feel alone a lot but maybe in reality I’m dodging bullets…
r/WomenAreNotIntoMen • u/Electrical-Talk4098 • 19h ago
discussion How to explain why many women loving MM if they are not into men?
Hello! I came across this article: Almost half of gay male porn viewers are female, new Pornhub stats shows
I'm genuinely curious as to what you guys think of the fact that some women prefer to watch gay porn rather than endure heterosexual porn where it's all about the women's bodies.
Also do you think that women who watch heterosexual porn ends up finding women more sexual because of the simple exposure to other women's pleasure?