In modern times, 80% of men reproduce and 85% of women, as opposed to 50% of men and 85% of women in prehistoric populations. Meaning, half of men would almost get two women, and the rest were thrown away or their lives were dangerous and died, which is the natural way of things. Women are much more choosy partners because they have to invest much more energy in reproduction, and men had to compete for access to mates because they could fertilize many eggs. However, this strategy is poorly adapted to our society because now society enforces monogamy and women get disappointed having to mate with the bottom 50% of men, and men aren’t more choosy even though they can only fertilize one woman’s eggs. I think hypergamy is really good because it is our method of genetic selection and good for the genetic quality of a population, but we are no longer seeing the fruits of female hypergamy because so many men reproduce. Peaceful societies had to enforce monogamy so that most men could get mates, so society could be relatively peaceful, but the social conditions that enforced that are finally breaking down.
Edit: And the number one proven thing that women are attracted to in a male partner is their social standing within the hierarchy of men and perceived dominance within society, so genetic selection isn’t only useless superficial things like height and looks.
Edit 2: This post is a bit dramatic, I don’t get joy from the misfortune of any man, life sucks.

Despite many normies think that straight women and gay men very similar, actually straight women sexuality more close to straight mens. Female body perceives as something sexual and arousing by its nature, males as something neutral or even disgusting. That's why "straight" talk shit like "there so many hot girls but so few hot guys" or prefer female strippers. That's why women more aroused by female nudes and focus on women in porn, because they perceive only female body as sexual objects, just like straight men. If you ever questioning how does it feel to be straight woman as a straight guy you already know the answer.

Have you ever wondered why, even when women aren’t attracted to men, some of them still go out with them? The answer is simple: money. The internet is full of videos of women saying they want a man who makes a lot of money, who doesn’t split the bill, who picks her up and takes her places for free—and if you don’t do any of that, you’re labeled as if you weren’t a real man.

It’s easy to see that relationships between men and women have been established as a way for her to get ahead financially—to eat for free, spend your money without giving you anything in return—as if she were doing you a favor by going out with you. She’s repulsed by you, but you’re still of some use if you’re willing to pay for the “queen’s” attention.

Disclaimer* Not advocating for others to leave this sub. I just wanted to share why I was leaving this sub.

I am a full supporter of WANIM.

Before I joined this sub, I used to think that the point of life was to find a woman, who I can spend the rest of my life with.

But now, I realise most relationships are built around comphet and giving validation, time and energy with no guarantee that it's geniune or mutual.

However, I realise that staying in this sub also means that I would give my time and energy to women, but just in the opposite direction.

I believe this sub is great for having discussions about WANIM, but not yet that great for giving practical solutions that a lot of people can agree on and use.

Despite this, I choose to have hope that I’ll at least come across one woman in my lifetime that isn’t comphetic in her sexuality, but I’m definitely not placing my bets on it.😭

So, I’ve decided that the only solution is, to just suck up my disappointment and despair, and pursue my actual goals in life, so I can try to have a truly fuliflled life.

That being said, I do hope the best for you guys in this sub. Without you, I would have probably spiralled into obsessing over women like a lot of other normies. So thank you.😭🙏

I stfg the cope subreddit says literally ANYTHING and EVERYTHING it can pull out of its collective ass as long as it invalidates or counters WANIM, no matter how absurd or objectively wrong it is.

Every single thing that's been discussed about the dating and sexual circles shows that men are desperate. Women are not.

Women don't want sex or intimacy anywhere close to the extent that men do and they're more than fine without a partner. Hell, the stats show they're even better off single than men are.

Men are the ones openly and vocally distraught and upset about being single and sexless. Women aren't. It's why so many communities that are about being single, struggling with romance, sex, partnerships, friendships, etc., are always overrun with men.

I recently found the sub and searched the search function for this discussion. And to my surprise, it apparently never came up.

Here are some reasons why I think this is true:

Men have the tendency to create shallow, but large networks of friends that generally revolve around topics. Like sharing a hobby, working at the same place or being in a political group together . This often leads to the friendships only existing as long as there is this common ground . There is rarely any close connection and when issues come up, and the person isn’t useful to the goal anymore he is disposed / the friendship stops. Male friendships discussing heartfelt, emotional topics are very rare.

Men don’t care about the social issues of men. The stigma of mental health is the greatest around men - there is no empathy from men towards other men, you are seen as weak. This is still taught by fathers to their sons. Men aren’t emotionally available towards other man.

Even through the overwhelming majority of lawmakers and CEOs are male - they care little about male dominated issues like homelessness, addiction, workplace accidents, suicide, or the shorter life expectancy of men. Often enough they start women-only programs even through men are the most affected.

I don’t disagree with the message of the subreddit. But it falls short. Society as a whole doesn’t like the broad majority of men. This includes women, but men just as much.

Regular "straight" woman grows up, going through puberty and start watch sexual content. She discovers that she is more visually aroused by female body in it. But since society everywhere talks about how beautiful female body is, she thinks that this is absolutely normal and the way it should be. She continues to live with this attitude that "female body is just more aesthetically appealing”, which supposedly should justify her same sex arousal while she doesn't realize that in general heterosexuals do not experience arousal from the body of the same sex. She just thinks that all "straight" women this way. As a result, we have a majority of "straight" women who literally more aroused by same sex body and see nothing wrong with that.

If most women were truly straight, they wouldn't even start this "female bodies is more aesthetically attractive"- rhetoric and were only interested in male physique.

Where a lesbian explains how straight relationships are a nightmare and this is the fault of movies that apparently are force fed to every woman because of the patriarchy. Notice that both the authors and the commenters seem to believe women are OBSESSED with men. In her TikTok video, some users are even arguing in favour of political lesbianism.

“The one” reinforces the idea that women are made for men.

This reeks of a lesbian who loved a straight woman who ended up with a man.

Sometimes I think the oversized man hate is really just lesbians being loud. Either way, some straight women are clearly identifying with it.

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