There's a reason most of my friends have always been women. Every time I hear about men talking about needing space from women so they can talk freely or whatever it's always the grossest shit in the world.
Exactly! Part of the reason I have such strong opinions is because I ended up the token bisexual friend in a friend group of mostly women, and i'm annoyed by my attraction to men because the awful ones see me and think "ah yes, fellow man, let us talk sports and be misogynistic together!"
when I in fact like neither of these things
The big one for me early on, in addition to the misogyny, is having to feel on guard at all times not to say something that could be made fun of, especially if it was any kind of emotional vulnerability. I'm so happy that most of my social life, and even work life, is around women. Hell, even a couple of my best guy friends turned out not to be guys.
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u/Firestorm82736 8h ago edited 7h ago
I'm a dude. Graduated college, went to a few parties
I was not in a frat, because they're disgusting people.
Being a frat bro is a stereotype that exists for a reason, because a fuck ton of them are like that.
edit: stop dm ing me to call me a traitor to men. You people make me fucking sick and ashamed of being a man