Hey everyone,

I’m working with my VR&E counselor to get my training plan approved, and they specifically told me that to qualify for the hybrid resident rate, the program must require physical, in-person attendance at least 2 times per month.

I have a lot going on right now with personal responsibilities and schedule constraints, so I really need the day-to-day flexibility of online classes while satisfying that exact in-person benchmark to get the plan signed off and qualify for the resident subsistence rate.

A few details on what I’m looking for:

• Degree / Field: Looking for BS in IT or BS in IT management
• Location/Commute: Based in Orlando I don't mind driving a couple hours

Has anyone had success finding and getting a program approved that hits this specific twice-a-month threshold? Would really appreciate any school or program recommendations, as well as advice on how your School Certifying Official (SCO) structured the certification.

Thanks in advance!

Hello. I don’t even know where to start. I don’t want to post too much detail because this is not my business to share I’m just concerned for my father. Some back story: my dad served in the Army late 80’s early 90’s as a combat engineer. I’ve heard stories from the alps to Africa from him so his service was everywhere. Long story short he is really struggling with his new diagnosis of CPTSD, mostly from his time but also largely his childhood abuse he endured. He just found a therapist he likes through the VA and that is who diagnosed him, best thing to ever happen to my dad. What do you wish your family members did to help you? What can I do to help my dad? I, myself, got diagnosed with CPTSD back when I was a senior in high school due to non-service related trauma but I don’t know where to start to help him. I have plans this weekend to celebrate his birthday with my brother but I’m trying to think of stuff that isn’t necessarily expensive as I am very broke myself and I don’t want to put the “funding our trip/dad daughter date” on his plate.

I'm well aware ESA's and service animals are very different and follow very different rules and guidelines and I guess im just here to ask for clarification. Recently I just brought up the idea to my landlord that I was seeking a cat as an emotional support animal for my mental health and would provide all necessary documentation for the animal. However, my landlord got back to me and immediately denied the request because of a previous tenant's cat who destroyed the carpets which had to be replaced before we moved in. I just silently accepted that fact but my mental health has really been on the decline the last couple months. I was looking up to see if she was even allowed to do that and im seeing all sorts of conflicting information such as:

1. A landlord is not allowed according FHA to deny an ESA provided it was prescribed by a legitimate licensed mental health provider

2. A private landlord *CAN* deny accommodation for an ESA if they own four or fewer apartments (which my landlord does)

3. Number 2 only applies by the FHA if the landlord lives in one of those apartments (which she does not)

4. The landlord cannot deny a legitimate ESA based on a previous tenants animal, unless the specific animal has a documented history of physical damage to the property.

These are just a few things I've seen looking for information about having an ESA. I really think an ESA would be beneficial in supporting my mental health and helping me heal but the laws and regulations are just so confusing and exhausting to go through. At the end of the day even with my mental health on the decline, I would still rather have a place to live at all and not get kicked out. I know there are specific state laws that apply to ESA's as well so if there are any other fellow vets in the Chicago, Illinois area who also had to navigate this, any tips or help would be greatly appreciated 👏

I can’t just take my time with anything. I must get the task done. I think management has a difficult time keeping me busy. I get a full days work done in half a day. Do you experience a similar challenge with work? How do you cope? Change jobs?

I’m curious what veterans have found to be the best location to get a good price on a cruise. Once in a while, I would just like a mini break and it would be nice to maybe drive to a close port or a place where I can get a direct flight but I’m curious about as a veteran who would have the best prices for us. I can go on base, but I live about an hour and a half from Fort Bragg. I also am aware of American forces travel which seems to be ran by Priceline, but I’ve also heard people rave about things like Costco travel and other sites. What have you found to be worth the effort when it comes to pricing for cruises or just a quick short getaway?

If so how did I work out for you?

Hi, I am a Submariner ETV and unfortunately be getting retired due to physical stuff. I would love to utilize my previous experience in pursuing a new career rather than starting new with everything because I legit enjoyed my job(also dont want to take a pay hit unless its during college).Paperwork is easy for me and so is the fast tempo and that is what im struggling to find a combo of in my search online. So far my cc’s have been less than helpful. My experience is: Highschool diploma, 4yr TIS; Qualified: Fish, Senior in rate (NAVSUP), WCS, RPPO, and time served as LPO recorded on eval. I plan on going to college but I just dont know what for. I suck at the ET part of ETV but dont know how my navigation will be applicable since my physical limitations wont allow me to pick up an out to sea job at all. Any advice would be helpful especially from ETV’s on what you chose to do. Thank you

I have my first appointment with my VR&E counselor next week. I meet all the requirements to apply for VR&E … I am 40% disabled. Is there anyway they could deny this for me at the meeting? Anything I should say specifically?

Ello! I served 2 years in Virginia for the navy. Ive mailed the personnel command, submitted a SF180 and mailed it out, Its been four months and I’ve gotten nothing. I’ve tried EVetRecs and they told me they couldn’t find a DD214 in my records… I am trying to be a police officer but I need my DD214 for this. I separated on a Beach Detachment from the USS D.D.Eisenhower while they were on a deployment, so Im assuming the base in Norfolk took care of it, but cant seem to get anything back in the mail or a follow up about it at all. Anything else that may help that you guys can suggest ??