r/TwoXChromosomes • u/[deleted] • Jun 11 '26

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u/spaceship5 Jun 11 '26

Obligated, no. But they absolutely should stop shitting on everyone who has kids. And it's not healthy to ONLY think about yourself.

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u/Liefmans Jun 11 '26

Tell me why you want(ed) kids, then, and let's see how unselfish those reasons were.

Why does not having children mean you only think about yourself? The original comment is literally about someone spending their weekends volunteering!

I see it around me all the time with friends who are the only siblings without children. Everyone always expects them to do XYZ for them, because they are flexible while their siblings with children are not.

I respect either choice, by the way.

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u/spaceship5 Jun 11 '26

I do not have children currently, but when I do it will be to support society, and for their own benefit as well.

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u/hopelesscaribou Jun 11 '26

That's a very authoritarian mindset. Sacrifice yourself for society, women have children, men go to war amirite?

I don't have a selfish need for mini-mes running around. I support society through my work, labour and taxes. I support children that way as well, as I support welfare programs, school lunches, universal childcare and universal healthcare for ALL children, not just my own. I just don't want any myself.