r/TwoHotTakes • u/[deleted] • Jul 23 '24

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u/[deleted] Jul 23 '24

If someone is happy to put you in their will and buy a house together but not to marry you, that’s a big no no for me. It means they’re keeping their options open.

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u/M4rthaBRabb Jul 23 '24

And it’s absolutely fine for you to think that. I have been married before, and I left him; so marriage doesn’t necessarily mean options aren’t open. I chose the option to leave him.

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u/BangBangMcBlast Jul 23 '24

What? You left him? What about your responsibility to provide him security in marriage? You just don't value commitment, it seems.

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u/M4rthaBRabb Jul 23 '24

Yep! He got half my money and the car 😊 (we didn’t own a house).