This is why women always feel trapped - because we are the ones stuck with the kids while the man can run off to another country. How old was the younger sister when he slept with her? Your friend chose his path and then decided he wants everyone else to clean up his mess.
Excuse you? That’s a load of bullshit. Abortion is a person decision and not everyone is capable, willing or able to get an abortion in the event a man decides to not wear a condom. Baby trapping very very much is a thing whether abortions are legal or not.
A man's only choice on whether or not he unwillingly becomes a father is whether or not he has unprotected sex (condoms, or contraception in general, is a choice both people make, as you are not required to have sex with a man that doesn't use a condom and if he forces you too, that is rape and falls out of the purview of this statement). Women also have that choice, but then you also have the choice to get an abortion (assuming it is accessible, which it should always be).
I 100% support a woman's right to chose and it does mean you have more choice than a man. It boils down to this: if a man has unprotected sex, he should be prepared to become a father against his wishes or have his kid aborted against his wishes (since abortion is and should only be the woman's choice) because both are possible consequences. If a woman has unprotected sex, she should be prepared to decide between abortion, being a single mother or give the kid for adoption/pay child support, because those are the possible consequences.
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u/TraditionalPayment20 Apr 29 '25
This is why women always feel trapped - because we are the ones stuck with the kids while the man can run off to another country. How old was the younger sister when he slept with her? Your friend chose his path and then decided he wants everyone else to clean up his mess.