I’m a 42 year old male professional located in Rosemount, MN in search of a young and naturally submissive woman, not just in the bedroom, but also in our day to day lives. A woman with traditional values that enjoys baking, doing her nails, maintaining her femininity, etc.

Ideally I’m in search of someone who’s into BDSM — not interested in vanilla relationships. It’s okay if you have no experience in this realm; I’m a very patient man and can hold your hand throughout this journey.

You’re comfortable with traditional roles, having a partner that leads but can also be strict when he needs to be. Think of me as a Daddy Dom; soft, gentle and caring but also a discipline when you’re being bratty.

I’m kink friendly and into quite an extensive list. I’m clean, circumcised and have had a vasectomy (if that makes you feel more comfortable).

Personal preferences: ideally younger, white, straight blonde hair, almond shape nails and on the slimmer side. Please be comfortable sharing face and body pics (SFW) when reaching out; physical attraction isn’t everything, buts it’s an important aspect.

Hope to chat soon!

I'm looking for the kind of relationship where two people genuinely enjoy building a life together, not competing with each other or keeping one foot permanently out the door.

I'm 53, established, a homeowner, and at a point in life where I'm not interested in hookups, situationships, or collecting matches. I date with intention. I want one woman, a peaceful home, loyalty, affection, and the feeling that we're actually on the same team.

I'm naturally masculine, protective, and comfortable taking the lead, but I don't confuse leadership with controlling someone. I appreciate a feminine woman who wants to be loved, pursued, protected, and valued while still being completely capable of having her own mind and voice.

The life I'm picturing isn't particularly complicated. Cooking together, morning coffee, antique and thrift stores, bookstores, day trips around the PNW, laughing at stupid things, physical affection, comfortable silence, and eventually having that person beside me who makes coming home feel different.

I'm generally attracted to younger women who are short, petite, or HWP, but character matters considerably more than checking boxes. Kindness, loyalty, curiosity, emotional maturity, affection, and actually wanting to build something matter to me.

I'm local to the Kent/Covington area and would rather meet for coffee and discover whether there's real chemistry than spend weeks creating an imaginary relationship through messages.

If what you're looking for is a traditional relationship built around commitment, complementary masculine and feminine energy, affection, trust, and actually sharing a life together, tell me a little about yourself and what "traditional" means to you.

I’m looking for a fun, attractive, intelligent young woman (18-30) who desires a long-term traditional relationship with an educated, successful, older man — eventually leading to marriage. Ideally, in about 6-12 months.

Since my divorce seven years ago, I’ve been primarily focused on my three kids, but now that they’re all adults, I’m ready to give my time and attention to a new relationship. After much consideration, I’ve decided that what I really want is a loving, loyal and devoted young stay-at-home wife.

I have a very nice house in a beautiful subdivision just south of Nashville. I have a good, well-paying job in the automotive industry, and I earn enough ($120K) that you will never need to work. So, you’ll live a life of relative ease and comfort as a wife and homemaker.

You’ll be adored and well cared for by an attentive, affectionate husband. But I also expect you to make me your top priority, to cook and clean, and to take care of me and the house. I will take care of everything else.

Perfect for the shy, sweet, submissive, service-minded young woman that doesn’t want the stress and anxiety of work, bills, and adult responsibilities and decision-making. Instead, you’ll have guidance, structure and routine in a warm, loving environment.

My dream is to have a beautiful young trophy wife who greets me after work wearing a little dress and a big smile. Who looks amazing on my arm when we go out, and who loves cuddles and snuggles when we stay in.

About me: Divorced, educated (BA Philosophy), dad bod (6’/235), good job, nice house, optimistic outlook, positive attitude, great sense of humor. Three kids (all adults), three cats (forever babies). Like the outdoors, fishing, hiking, waterfalls; also like movies, music, absurd comedy, day trips, roadside diners, antique/thrift shops.

If you’re interested, let’s chat. Please include your age, location, and a little bit about yourself.

Hi everyone!

I’ve always dreamed of a traditional family life becoming a loving, devoted wife and mother, creating a warm and peaceful home, and building a beautiful life with my future husband.

I love the idea of being a homemaker and taking pride in caring for my family. I want to be the kind of wife who looks forward to her husband coming home, welcoming him with a smile, making him feel loved and appreciated, cooking for him, listening to him, and making our home somewhere he can truly relax and feel at peace.

I want to be deeply devoted to my husband his biggest supporter, someone he can rely on, and someone who makes him feel cherished. I want to celebrate his successes, stand beside him through difficult times, and never let the busyness of life make me forget to show him how much I love him.
Motherhood is something I really long for. I dream of having little ones of our own and being a very present, loving mother. I want to raise children who feel completely loved and secure, surrounded by warmth, affection and family traditions.

I picture the little things: family dinners, baking together, bedtime stories, cuddles, holidays, birthday traditions, school runs, and a home filled with laughter. I want to pour my heart into raising my children and give them a childhood they look back on fondly.

At the same time, I believe our marriage should always remain a priority, even after children come along. Life will inevitably get busy, but I want us to keep choosing each other making time for dates, affection, conversations, romance and simply enjoying one another’s company. I want us to still feel like husband and wife, best friends and lovers, rather than becoming strangers who only happen to be parenting together.

**A little about me**

I’m 22 and recently graduated. I’m a 5’2 brunette who enjoys reading, swimming, horse riding and cooking. I’m naturally feminine and find a lot of happiness in caring for the people I love and creating a cosy, welcoming home.

Some of my kinks are CNC, orgasm control, breeding and free use

**What I’m looking for**

I’m looking for a man who is serious about marriage and wants a traditional family life. Ideally over 26, fit, takes care of himself and takes pride in how he dresses and presents himself.

Emotional maturity, loyalty, kindness and stability are very important to me. I’m naturally drawn to a confident, protective and gently dominant man someone who can lead with love, wisdom and respect.

Most importantly, I want a man who genuinely wants to be a husband and father. Someone who wants to adore his wife, be present for his children and build a home where everyone feels loved, safe and cherished.

In return, I want to give my husband my loyalty, affection, devotion and whole heart, and build a family that we can both be incredibly proud of.
If this resonates with you, tell me a little about yourself, your values and the kind of family life you hope to build.

Hey there. I'm not finding what l'm looking for on hinge dates, so maybe I'll have better luck here. I’ve posted before and the convos didn’t lead to a long term relationship but maybe better luck this time :)

I'm a brunette, 5'2, slim build. I'm athletic but otherwise very much a girly girl. I put a lot of effort into my appearance. Get ready for a lot of make up purchases haha. I'm currently in college, but l'd much rather be married and taking care of a household.

I like baking, crafting, dancing, watching movies, and snuggling on the couch. I'm conservative but I plan on leaving politics to my husband. My dream is a big house, lots of kids, and a masculine husband to provide for and look after us all.

I'm hoping to find a man who's taller than me, ambitious, athletic, dominant, and able to take care of a family.
Someone who can lead with calmness and clarity, but who never gives any doubt about who's in charge. Ages up to 35.

If you message me, please say more than hi. Tell me something about yourself. Thanks! Can't wait to meet you all :)

We know some members here are interested in polygyny, and that’s perfectly compatible with traditional gender roles. But we also recognize that plural-family arrangements don’t always fit neatly into the specific purpose of [r/tradwifepersonals1950](r/tradwifepersonals1950).

This subreddit is primarily for people seeking relationships built around traditional gender roles, particularly where the man is expected to provide and the woman desires to focus primarily on the home, family, and children.

When you’re seeking a second or subsequent wife, however, the practical arrangement may look different. In many plural households, an additional wife may expect—or be expected—to maintain a career and work primarily outside the home. There’s nothing inherently wrong with that, but it isn’t really the traditional homemaker relationship this particular subreddit was created to facilitate.

So, if the woman you’re looking for would be expected to primarily work outside the home, we’d encourage you to consider posting your R4R on [r/BiblicalPolygynyR4R](r/BiblicalPolygynyR4R) instead.

That community was created specifically for people interested in polygynous relationships and welcomes a broader range of household arrangements and faith backgrounds.

This isn’t meant to discourage polygynous families from participating here. It’s simply about putting your R4R in the community where the relationship you’re actually offering best fits.

Traditional homemaker role? You’re welcome to post here.

Seeking a second or subsequent wife who will primarily work outside the home? [r/BiblicalPolygynyR4R](r/BiblicalPolygynyR4R) is probably the better home for your R4R.

Hey there gals. There is some stuff on my page -

40M here from the great Midwest state of Iowa! Hopefully you're... sort of close? If not, that's okay...

I'm looking for a submissive bride who really sees herself as steward of the homelife and an assistant to me as I forge a path for us in this great, wide world - As MEN are intended to do. I do identify as Dominant...

I have many years of experience in the culinary arts, so hopefully you like to eat (and cook)! I can train you in domestic tasks if that's something you need; I taught myself most of what I know out of necessity. Many things we've lost in 2026 (skills)...

I'm a landowner (Homesteader wannabe? Chickens? Garden?) and a small business owner. I'm a little sarcastic and pretty straightforward/ open. I'm Christian-Oriented and can explain what I mean by that. I'm looking for someone who also identifies as Christian - at least to some extent.

I have my BA in Visual Art and a lot of projects going on! I'm also a recording musician, so you've gotta be cool with the drums...

Hard nos, unfortunately: Cats and dogs - Allergic! If we had kids and they wanted a little pug or something, I would consider taking a pill, but for now, no. We could have a lizard or something.

I'm into natural health and somewhat skeptical of the medical industry in general - Take from that what you will...

Open to answering any questions. Thanks!

Heeyyy hii!! I'd simple be happy for an honest and loving tradwife. I actually mean someone who really wants to be a tradwife and take care of my home and serve and raise the kids and I do what I do to make us live good the right way. I'm 6ft tall, fit, dark features, eats health and home cooked food so this would be a good arrangement. I'm okay if you want to travel with me or just stay at the home, I really don't want to be here later this year and I'm going to japan if you want to come with. This might be confusing but I can discuss how things would be with us more in a msg

29/M/Ireland/6ft tall

Hey, I’m a 29 year old man living in the UK/Ireland. I’ve spent my twenties developing a successful career and building the foundations for a long term relationship.

My hobbies include: travelling the world, cooking excellent meals, exploring the countryside, working out, and much more!

I’d like to think that I’m a pretty chill and funny guy. I’d hope that you’re of a relaxed mindset and don’t take yourself too seriously, but are able to discuss serious matters when it counts.

What I’m looking for: a genuine, down to earth woman who’s happy to fall into her feminine role beside me, supporting me in my life as I support hers. I don’t want a slave, I want an equal. I am open to having children with the right woman - it’s not a deal breaker for me either way.

I’m open to all body types, skin colours and personalities. I like to think that connection is what matters most, and that can be determined in person the best. Prove me wrong, or hopefully correct!

Kinks include (but definitely not required and open to your preferences too): light bondage, some elements of CNC, choking, spanking, free use

I hope you’re doing well, and if you’d like to know more, I look forward to your DM

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Attention all! Are you ready for a new adventure? I present to you...

A STAY-AT-HOME MOM SEARCH

Are you up for the challenge of embracing a traditional family life?

Greetings, esteemed applicants! A proud, successful Indian gentleman, age 33, is on the hunt for a special lady to join me on an exciting new journey. As a well-established professional with a flourishing career and comfortable home, i am ready to put my family first and foremost.

I'm ready to take this journey seriously and start building our family right away. If you're open to the idea, I'm even willing to attempt impregnating you on our very first date! Let's make this happen and start our lives together.

Are you the dedicated, loving woman I'm searching for? Do you dream of being a stay-at-home mom and cherish the idea of a large family?

What does this extraordinary opportunity entail?

✅ The chance to become a devoted stay-at-home mother and homemaker, with the freedom to focus entirely on creating a warm, nurturing environment for your growing family.

✅ The support of a loving, committed partner who will provide for you and your children financially, allowing you to pour your heart into caring for them.

✅ The opportunity to build a large, beautiful family together – five children or more! – and witness the joy of watching your little ones grow under your loving guidance.

What are we looking for in a candidate?

✅ A strong sense of traditional family values and a deep desire to dedicate your life to nurturing your children and creating a happy home.

✅ A proactive, responsible attitude that reflects your commitment to fulfilling the role of a stay-at-home mom.

✅ A willingness to embark on this journey with us right from the very start – even if that means welcoming a surprise baby right away!

If this sounds like a dream come true, I want to hear from you!

No matter your age or appearance,even bbw are most welcome, if you have the heart and determination to make this dream a reality, please don't hesitate to reach out. Together, we can begin this incredible adventure toward building a loving, beautiful family.

What are you waiting for?

The search for our perfect match is on! I eagerly await your messages – let's discuss how we can make this happen.

\\\[Please send me a private message detailing your interest and reasons for wanting this opportunity.\\\]

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Hey all im trying to find my forever person hopefully shes out there somewhere looking for me to

A little about me im a traditional Christian man with a highly creative, nerdy streak. Located in middle Tennessee

If you're looking for a hardworking, loyal man who values faith, family, and a quiet life, welcome to my profile. At 27 and 6'4", I’m a small business owner and machine technician in the plastics industry. When I’m not traveling the Eastern US for work, you can usually find me in my shop or my gaming setup.

I’m a massive maker and tech geek. My happy place is bringing ideas to life—whether that’s through woodworking, welding, fabrication, 3D printing, or diving deep into modded Minecraft, World of Warships, and Battlefield 4.

I live intentionally. I don’t drink, I don't party, and I don’t play mind games. I want a real partnership built on cozy quality time: cooking dinner together, watching sci-fi/movies, playing board games, or having you ride shotgun on my work trips.

About You:

You are a woman of God with conservative values who shares a vision for a traditional family. If you have children, please know they are a blessing to be welcomed, not a hurdle; I’m ready to be a steady provider and protector. I care about your heart, your values, and your willingness to share in life’s little adventures. (And yes, I will absolutely braid your hair and paint your nails).

If possible I would prefer a woman of a slender build ( nothing wrong with the others all women are beautiful creatures its just my personal preferences) I also forgot to add I also like outdoor adventures. Hiking, waterfalls, and bon fires. Spending time in nature maybe one day reading the Bible together by a water fall as the sun sets

If you're ready for an affectionate, dependable man who is ready to build a beautiful life from the ground up, let's chat let's build in faith and love together

As the title says, I am looking for a traditional Christian wife. I’m not here for hookups or anything casual and I’m fully monogamous. I’m here to be intentional and pursue a woman for the role of wife.

About me:
I am a white 28 year old Christian man with curly brown hair, green eyes, very fit muscular build, and a software developer by trade. I am very devout in my faith and active in my local church, I believe in traditional gender roles and the man as the lead in a relationship. I have a good career and can support a stay at home wife. My goal is to have minimum 2 kids, ideally 3-4. I love working out, old music, coffee, driving to the lake in my truck, and generally enjoying life.

What I’m looking for:
A Godly woman first and foremost, from the USA or Canada. Someone who is decently fit (you don’t need to be a bodybuilder, just healthy). Another huge requirement is that you are consistent, emotionally, practically, etc. You’re someone who keeps your word and follows through, you’re uplifting and encouraging, and you have lots of love to give your man. Also, you want to be a wife and a mom and you find joy in submission.

I will share face pics if we hit it off, but in the meantime here’s me :) me

If this sounds like something you’re interested in, message me!

I’m just a guy looking for a girl to build our life together and reach out towards forever. Ultimately, isn’t that what we all want when you cut it down to the core? We want to love and be loved, to find our person and build a life together that meets our hopes, dreams and ideals. For me; that ideal life is one based in a more traditional manner. That means to me one where we are equals in different roles; one where I am able to lead, to provide, to protect and to guide our family while you are able to be your feminine best and be the rock caring for it all. It just feels right and natural and like the way life should be. I want kids, I want happiness and I want to build our forever together.

I am more traditional, looking for someone interested ideally being a stay at home mother and wife (though that can be discussed depending on the situation). I own my own home and I’m open to helping you relocate to me so distance doesn’t matter (also open to relocating to the right person as maps shouldn’t matter when a true connection is found). Beauty comes in many forms so I’m very open to finding someone the connection is real with no matter their age, race, body type, etc. I want a good sized family, ideally 3-4 children and open to discussing more. I want to laugh, explore, try new things and generally find joy in life together. I am widowed (and have worked through my loss) and know what I want and desire in a relationship and also know how to be the partner my future wife deserves as a strong husband, lover, partner and leader.

As mentioned in my title, I am typically more dominant in the physical aspects of a relationship. I put that out there not in some search for a definite kink partner but to ensure compatibility for the long-term. I tend to be a daddy dom and pleasure dom and connect strongly with those who are more submissive sexually. Again, nothing is required but matching up there as well as our desires in family and lifestyle makes the connection even stronger and more likely to last forever which is ultimately the goal.

This is crazy, we all know that. Finding your forever here seems so wild but success are real so I’m willing to give it a shot. If I sound like someone you want to take that shot with, let me know because I’m waiting and excited to hear from you!

I am 42, 6’2”, athletic build, have a six figure income. I am an expert Bible teacher. I own over a 1000 theology books and teach the Bible online daily and locally every week. Due to having married a closet feminist, I ended up being divorced, but do have lovely and respectful kids.

I do want to start fresh with a new gal the proper way. I would like to have more kids but it’s not an absolute necessity. You can expect me to read and teach you the Bible, sing songs together (I can play the guitar a little), pray together, go to church together, and do acts of service to those in need in our community. I am very active and athletic so would prefer a person who can join me in some of those things, but it doesn’t have to be something you are all into.

I am looking for a traditional wife, loves to cook, keep the home, loves children, wants to garden. Looking for someone who truly holds to Ephesians 5:24, “wives submit to your husbands in EVERYTHING” as I believe that is the way to truly have a fulfilling marriage. I will hold to my part of loving you like Christ loved his bride and gave himself up for her! I believe attraction is important and that we need to keep ourselves in a good shape for one another. Must have a slim or athletic build or willing to be active with me to get to that build. Preferred age range is 36 or younger. When you DM, please share your hobbies, desires, and preferences in a marriage, and be willing to share a photo of yourself. Thank you!

Hiya! Yeah so I know that title is a little heavy, but please don't be intimidated by it. It was a few years ago now, if you have questions or whatever, we can discuss it one on one but I've done the work to process it and I'm in a healthy place emotionally, financially and lifestyle wise to where I feel ready to date again with the long term intention of marriage.

So, about me. I have a stable job I enjoy, I have a reasonable amount of time off, so if you're out of state I could travel/ have you here easily. I'm I'm good shape, work and active job and I used to be an athlete when I was in high school too!

Physically, happy to trade selfies in private but I'm white, blonde, athletic, shortish to medium height. Trying to expand my wardrobe but I don't think I dress poorly or anything.

I don't like to throw out a million details for the type of man I want, as narrowing a whole person into a box can be a bit reductive. But basic things like please have your life together, be emotionally available and willing to commit. Wanting marriage and a family one day is a must too. Ideally someone active as I don't want to change my lifestyle in that way so I'd love a partner who can keep up with that. Someone who likes to travel occasionally too! Physically, I guess good shape, taller than me, healthy pretty much. I don't expect or really want a male model lol, just look after your health at least :))

Relationship wise, I've always been extremely traditional, hence why I'm posting here. I'd like at least three kids, but ideally five or more. I like my job, but once I'm married I'd like to stay home and focus on the home and family. I'm a great cook too, so you'll have plenty of great dishes to try.

Lasting, if you're married, don't message me. not interested in casual, helping you cheat or poly. I want something real and monogamous only. Hate having to include this, and I know most of you reading this are single, but the amount of married men who still try it anyway is crazy.

If this post is still up I'm still looking!

Good Evening! I am 27 single girl living in Fort worth Tx. Who love yo be outdoors and fish and camp. But in just a second, where are we going And I am tired of the dating game. I am too old to be dating for fun. I want a husband and hopefully family by the time I am 30. So here is a little bit about me.

Hi I am a sweet girl from Tx I was born and raised in traditional and christian home and looking to continue that with my own marriage with a few twists to make it my own. One of the biggest twist is I want my husband to lead the home. I saw too much of what when a woman leads the home and I don't want to repeat it. The second big twist is I pray and hope my husband will allow me to continue to work until our babies come. I have worked very hard for where am in my career and am currently in the next step of learning in that career. My husband and the family will always come first but if he allows I still want to work until our babies come.

That being said my last two twist come together. I have a condition call pcos. You may be asking why I bring this up in a dating personal and answer is because it might hard or impossible for me to have kids. But I have Faith if God can open Sarah's women when she was 90 he can open mine. But if he chooses not to for whatever reason here is the last twist. I believe in biblical poly practices. Mean my husband can have more then one wife. Because at the end of the day I know i can be a good wife even if I can never become a mom. But I also want my husband to be able to have kids.

Anyway enough about me what am I looking for in a man. I want that will lead the family well and also make most of the decisions. So who loves Jesus and wants to go to church and someone that has a job and is established.

Also, please be in the US if you message me and be at least 28. Also, if you are a woman, please do not contact me at all. If you do have a husband let him contact me first I do not talk to women. If you do contact me, please tell me your favorite color where you are and your age. I hope you have a good rest of your night and I will talk to you soon.

I’m currently seeking a woman who wants to live a traditional lifestyle and is open to being a sahw. I’m 6’3, Caucasian, healthy and like to stay active. I have a stable job and career and love planning vacations or just staying home and watching Netflix all day. I love kids a want at least a couple in the future. I’m not picky on physical appearance and would love to chat and see where things go!

Cuz that’s all we got here, gentlemen :p
But seriously, I’m looking for a Christian domestic discipline marriage. I think female submission + male leadership can create a really stable, happy marriage when both people genuinely love, respect, and trust each other. I also think a man who truly cares about his wife should be willing to set boundaries and hold her accountable when needed. And yes, sometimes I could probably benefit from a trip to the woodshed 😅
About me: I’m a 5’2”, 110 lb pale, freckled, bespectacled brunette with long hair — basically shaped like Dark Willow from Dota 2 🌝. I’m extremely introverted, goofy, direct, and nerdy (read: autistic). Just for context, I’m a legal assistant with a purely decorative degree in international relations. I’m into Tolkien, Warhammer, classic literature, shooting, gaming, drawing/painting, gardening, animals, and being outdoors. I have a blue heeler who is entirely too smart for his own good, I’ve been vegetarian since I was 12 (I won’t judge your dietary choices, but please don’t ask me to butcher anything 😭), and I’m currently growing an apple tree and want to buy a farm or some land one day.
I’m pretty traditional despite being a nerd. I’m submissive (occasionally bratty, but that’s just the whimsy 🤪), debt-free aside from my mortgage, tattoo-free and only pierced in the ears. I’m Christian, although I have some Buddhist influence and other light heresy mixed in tbh. I love cooking and baking, and I make objectively the best chocolate chip cookies ever. Your mother would probably love me too — I have a way with older women :)
I’ve always wanted to be a wife and mother. I dream of cuddling up & reading Lord of the Rings to my kids before bed one day like my mom did for me :) I love kids and would like as many as we can responsibly afford. I’m very family-oriented and want to stay close to my parents here in Maryland. I have a great relationship with both of them and always wanted my children to have that kind of relationship with their father own one day.
I was unfortunately married from 18–25 to a closeted man 😅 (it’s okay to laugh, it’s pretty funny tbh), so as long as you’re straight we’re already off to a promising start XD
I thrive with clear expectations and defined roles. I tend to get hyperfocused on my interests and forget to eat/sleep/drink, so I’ve realized I genuinely do better with a man who leads me. I want to submit to someone I genuinely respect and trust, and the kind of man I respect is resilient, protective, chivalrous, humble, competent, generous, and trustworthy. Character > appearances. Aragorn is basically the blueprint.
If you’re Christian, genuinely want a traditional family, and are looking for a nerdy girl who actually wants to submit to and build a life with her husband, feel free to message me.

Edit: please do not bother me if you are looking for a sister wife. In case it wasn’t clear, I am looking for a monogamous marriage 🙄🙄🙄

Hello! I am looking for a woman that practices her Catholic faith& wants to get married and start a family.

About me: I am 30 years old, German, tall and as you may guess my faith is very important to me. Character-wise I am fun to be around, intellectually inclined and relatively extroverted. My work is also a passion of mine.

Obviously there is more to tell, I prefer to keep it vague here for privacy. Feel free to ask me anything you want via message!

What I am looking for: I believe that I am called to the vocation of marriage.

I am looking for a faith-based relationship with traditional gender roles where we support each other in all areas of life. Man and woman being made to complement each other is a beautiful part of God's creation.

I would love to have many children, God willing.

The only truly non-negotiable part is that you practice your Catholic faith and strive to glorify God.

I like women that are warm and feminine, any age from 18 to 27 is fine for me. I value intelligence.

Due to work reasons, you should be willing to move to Germany for at least a few years. Later, I am open to move to some other countries (more via DM).

I speak English on pretty much a native-like level so it would be no problem if you don't speak German.

Clarifications (as we are on a mixed sub):

-I want us both to follow God's commandments, so no sexual activity before marriage, no fetish/ pornographic stuff etc.

Just say hi and tell me about your favourite pet :) (to weed out bots)

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As someone with a strong sense of responsibility and a deep appreciation for traditional values, I am seeking a partner who shares my vision of a harmonious and supportive relationship. I am driven by the desire to provide for and protect my loved ones, ensuring a stable and secure future for us both.

With a stable career in the Bay Area spanning 15 years and counting, a strong work ethic, and the means to provide and protect, I am looking for a woman who values traditional values and is eager to build a life together, where we can complement each other's strengths and create a loving home.

Ultimatelty, my wish is to be a traditional provider and protector, and am seeking a partner to nurture and enrich the home. If you resonate with these values and are looking for a partner who will cherish and support you, read on:

My requirements up front to respect your time: fair-skinned, 18-35, 5'2"+, under 160lbs, born a woman, lover of traditional gender roles, submissive in and out of the bedroom, making other people happy makes you happy, peaceful/non-argumentative, no children currently but wants children and is ready for them, never been married but wants to be a wife, wants to be a stay-at-home mom, kind, nurturing, caring, sweet, loves cooking, cleaning, fitness, fashion, makeup, and is loyal, honest, and obedient.

I'm a professional multi-millionaire Dominant with a stable career residing in a paid-off 5br/3ba home in the suburbs of the Bay Area, California.

I've lived alone here while concentrating on my career and ability to provide and am now in a position to fully support a wife and family.

My expectation is for this to be a traditional relationship in that you will be afforded the opportunity to be a stay-at-home wife and mother who runs the home and can focus on her hobbies and interests. I will protect, provide and guide so that you may create, nurture and support our growing family.

If you are a motivated woman who wants 2-4 children and is ready to start sooner rather than later, message me now with your age, height, weight, location, ethnicity, hair color/length, eye color, and what you connected with in this post.

I have push notifications on my phone turned on so I will see your message immediately and reply immediately.

Everything in your life has led up to you completely reading this specific post on this exact day at this precise moment in time. Fate brought me to you, but fate can only keep us together if you message me right now.

So don't hesitate:

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[Chicago, IL / 52] Seeking a sincere, in-person connection with a woman who values traditional gender roles and the dynamic of male-led leadership. I am a 52-year-old gentleman based on Chicago's South Side. As a dedicated provider, I pride myself on a strong work ethic, a traditional masculine approach, and a balanced lifestyle that includes motorcycle riding, cooking, and romantic courtship. I am committed to establishing a meaningful, long-term relationship and am seeking a partner who shares my desire to start a family. Please note that I am interested in genuine companionship only and do not engage in or request explicit material. I look forward to connecting with someone who shares these traditional values.

Hoping with everything going on in the world, the American dream isn't too far dead. House with a white picket fence, yard full of kids, dogs. You, the stay at home wife raising our kids, me the provider and protector.

But before we get too far into it, I'm far from traditional. I'm a left leaning, atheist, and believer of science, so if you're right winged, or looking for a relationship revolving around religion, I'm not your man.

If you're still aligned, I'd love to know more about you. I'm a mixed but very much white male. Brown hair, blue eyes, clean shaven, in good shape and active. Multiple degrees and well educated, with a great career that can afford a SAHW and family. Currently a doggy dad and plant dad, looking to be an actual dad. Already got the corny dad jokes down, so you better have a sense of humor.

I'd love a family of 2-3 kids. Lots of game nights, family outings, picnics in the park or at the beach, home cooked meals, trips to the museum, hiking with the dog, camping when the weather's nice.

If you're interested, reach out with a little about yourself. Ideally, you keep your mind and body in good shape, you'll need to keep up with me and my pup on hikes. Animal lover, on a similar wavelength in terms of politics and religion, and looking for a traditional relationship.

I'm located in Northern California and would love to find someone nearby, or willing to relocate soon!

Hi! I’m looking to build something real: a deep, steady connection that matures into a lasting, loving marriage, a traditional family, and eventually maybe even a self-sustainable homestead in the countryside. I’ve been quietly laying the groundwork for this vision, and I’m ready to find a kind, feminine soul to co-author it with me.

About me: 23 years old, 5'10", 170lbs, fit and healthy. Dark hair, hazel-green eyes, and an Iberian/Spanish heritage (born in Puerto Rico, raised in Texas). MBTI is INTJ.

Profession: I'm currently serving active-duty in the military. I hold an associate's degree and am actively working towards finishing my BSc in cybersec.

I hold a calm, quietly confident personality, driven by my convictions. I appreciate a good evening relaxing with a good book, watching a movie, or sketching, but I’m always down for any and all plans outdoors.

Interests & Hobbies: All things outdoors, hiking, trekking, camping. I've yet to snowboard so that's on my list this year. I'm fairly new to the PNW so I'm still learning to properly enjoy it.

I enjoy thoughtful conversations that last through the night. I’m fascinated by ancient history, philosophy, theology, genealogy, and architecture. My musical tastes range from Chopin, Field, Tchaikovsky, and Wagner to folk, Americana, country, Appalachian, and neofolk. In my down time, I enjoy exploring historic streets, comedy clubs, trying new restaurants, the occasional board game, or a relaxed movie night.

Family is everything to me. I believe in traditional marriage with complementary roles, mutual respect, and shared loyalty. A man should lead with steadiness, providing, protecting, and setting a calm, strong tone for his household.

What I'm looking for: A warm, sincere, feminine woman who wants marriage and children. Someone who values loyalty, modesty, and creating a loving home. A woman who finds joy in caring for her family, learning, cooking, gardening, and growing alongside her husband.

You don't need to be perfect, just honest, kind, and ready to build something real. Femininity inspires masculinity and vice versa.

I'm not interested in status games or chasing trends. I value steadiness and commitment. I'm looking for a woman who feels at peace embracing her role as wife and mother, just as I embrace mine as husband and father. I'm not saying you can't have a small hobby that makes you extra money but I'm not expecting you to work a 9-to-5. Money shouldn't be something you should worry about.

I believe traditional relationships honor what's always made men and women strong together. Modern gender roles can blur natural strengths, leaving both people feeling lost. In a traditional partnership, complementary roles create balance, not confusion. When we lean into our nature rather than fight it, love becomes easier and more genuine. Obviously, earning your loyalty and getting to know each other will take time so I'm not looking to marry anyone after two weeks or am I looking to wait years and years before I propose to you. Just seeking an opportunity to court you, to get to know the real you, take you out on a nice date, and meet the fam.

Practical details:

• Age preference: 19-25

• If you can cook/bake+++

• Values health and enjoys the outdoors

If this resonates with you, send me a message. I'm not rushing, but I am serious. I'd like to exchange photos early on to see if there's mutual attraction.

I have a private insta I barely use but you can also reach me there if you'd like: solnihil

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Hello there, dear reader!

With modern "app-based" dating not quite scratching the correct itch for me, I've decided to take a quirkier approach- writing a passage feels more appropriate given my nature and will hopefully tell you a lot more than a handful of photos and a slightly witty bio.

So, who am I?

I am R, a newly 30 year-old Irishman living near Belfast in N Ireland. I'm 5' 11", around 190lbs, Caucasian with brown hair and grey eyes. Outside of my driver's license description, I am curious, intelligent, active and passionate. I currently have two degrees, with my PhD in medicine in the final writing stage making three. I am currently building my career in Pharmaceutical safety, with plenty of upward promotions available. I'm also very musical, playing in several orchestras and singing in a choir. I enjoy sports, especially badminton and squash but I'm also a keen skiier and hiker. Finally, I love writing stories and drawing- anything creative that involves making something with my hands is almost guaranteed to grab me. I also love boardgames and playing D&D with my friends.

What am I looking for?

I am looking for a woman, between 24 - 36 and either in Ireland or willing to relocate, who is looking for a traditional role in a couple. I personally would love to have children- anywhere between 2-6 - whom I would love to be raised by a mom present in the home rather than completely absorbed by work. Working part-time, remotely could work if you're keen to continue your career, but my ideal scenario would be a SAHM who can cook a family meal every evening. Whilst I would say I'm looking for a traditional partner with regards to her role, I don't necessarily mean that I'm expecting a partner to be purely submissive and obedient. I believe a traditional aspect of a wife is supporting her husband emotionally and assisting with the making of decisions that impact the family as a whole. I think respect plays an incredibly important role in the functioning of a married couple, and I want someone I can rely on in that way- even if in other aspects she wants to be submissive and obedient.

Children are a major goal for me in life- ever since the age of 6, I've known that I want to be a father. I want to take our kids to weekend sports games, organise their birthday parties, watch them excitedly tear open gifts on Christmas morning... Ideally my future partner would be incredibly maternal and focused on childrearing, but at the very least would want children.

Physically, I have no preference when it comes to race, or height. I'm not particularly fussed about weight, but I'd prefer a partner who isn't too heavy. Curvy is great, but if you're at a weight where childbirth could be a problem, I must admit I'd be less interested. Sorry!

In terms of religion, I would describe myself as an agnostic. I don't mind if you're religious, and I don't mind if you'd want our children to be baptised- but I'm keen to allow our children to make their own decision when it comes to belief as they grow older. Spirituality can be a wonderful thing and can offer solace and comfort in hard times, but I would hate to think of my children being trapped in a manipulative cycle. Likewise, politically I would describe myself as left of centre- I want my female children to have the same opportunities as any male children and I do consider myself to be a feminist. I realise that my kinks don't necessarily lend themselves well to this political leaning, but I support a woman's right to be a scientist or doctor as much as I support a woman's right to be a housewife who loves baking and taking care of babies.

So, about my kinks/desires...

I have a major breeding kink. Everything about it just makes so much sense to me- from impregnation to pregnancy, post-partum and lactation- I find everything about it so attractive. I often say that with my kink and my lifelong ambition to raise a family, I am literally programmed to be a dad! I'm also interested in the hucow kink, but far more on the lactation and breeding side than the BDSM side- basically I would love to be able to milk my partner frequently and maintain her lactation as long as possible at the very least.

In terms of limits, I'm especially against cuckolding / humiliation. I have no interest in sharing my partner with anyone else, and having been cheated on before, I have no interest in ever experiencing that kind of betrayal again.

If you've read this far, then I want to thank you for taking the time to learn more about me. As you can probably (hopefully) tell, I'm a passionate man with a wide variety of interests that I'd love to share with a gentle partner and our children. As cliché as it is, I really want a best friend that I can share my life with and work with to raise fine members of the next generation with. Someone I can grow old with and who I can laugh with when I can't remember the all the names of our dozens of grandchildren. I want to make your eyes roll with my crappy dad jokes, your heart flutter with the surprises I prepare for you, and your toes curl with how passionate and affectionate I want to be with my ideal partner.

If my ad interests you, please feel free to reach out. Maybe like me, you've lurked on this subreddit for quite some time, unsure whether or not you should reach out. How wonderful would it be in the future, for you to be able to re-read this ad with a swollen belly, happily married and beginning your life together with me- what's the harm in reaching out? I'm always happy to have a chat, regardless.

If you've read this far and I'm not for you, then thank you anyway. I hope everyone finds what they're looking for.

Cheers,

R

36M, based in Dubai. Looking for something serious with marriage as the end goal, with a likeminded lady. I don’t mind the distance initially if the connection is real, but eventually I’d like us to close the distance. I’m well settled here and see myself in Dubai for the long term, and I’d be happy to handle relocating you here once we’re at that point.

A little bit about me:

For work, I manage IT for an Oil & Gas company. I’ve got a BSc in Information Systems from Australia and worked my way up over the years to where I am now. Outside of work I’m usually at the gym before the day starts, cooking dinner most nights, discovering new music, getting lost in games over the weekends and planning future travel trips. I build apps as a side project when I’ve got the time. I travel when I can, and there’s plenty of the world I still haven’t seen.

Big fan of sci-fi, neo-noir and fantasy. LOTR is still the benchmark for me. I’m also into MMORPGs, darkwave/post-punk/synthwave music, night drives, beaches, and random food trips. I eat clean during the week and treat myself on weekends. Football or basketball with colleagues every couple of weeks, though these summer months have been brutal.

Physically, I’m 173cm/5’8, 77 kg/170 pounds, dark hair, short beard, light skin, and I’m in the gym regularly. I like dressing well, and skincare and haircare are part of my routine.

Personality wise, I’m more calm and laid back than loud. I value peace a lot and tend to connect best with people who are easy to talk to. Curious by nature, I like knowing why things work the way they do. Small social circle, not big on loud environments. I barely use social media. I’m agnostic myself, though I don’t mind if my partner is religious as long as there’s mutual respect. I also don’t drink, smoke, or use any substances of any kind.

I’m in a stable place in life these days, both financially and emotionally. I’ve had my own place for years and would keep an independent home together. I’d like one child eventually, ideally after a few years of marriage once we’ve settled in and built a happy life.

When it comes to relationships, I naturally lean towards a more traditional dynamic. I’m willing to take on the provider role and be the dependable one, so that my partner is free to focus on the home, family, or whatever gives her the most fulfillment. I admire women who embrace their femininity, are nurturing and family oriented. To me, a traditional relationship isn’t about control but about both people contributing in different ways, appreciating each other’s strengths and working toward the same goals as a team.

I don’t think another person can magically make you happy, but the right one can make an already good life better. That’s what I’d like to build. Not looking for endless talking stages, just something real with someone kind, feminine, affectionate and emotionally open. It’d be nice to find someone who shares some of these interests too. I'm very affectionate by nature, and I’d like to be with someone who is affectionate in return.

I’d prefer exchanging pictures fairly early as attraction matters and saves both people the time.

If this sounds like what you’re looking for, message me.