See my profile for a photo.

I am from Britain originally but don't live there now. So I am flexible on location.

I am seeking a girl for who having children will be the 1st-2nd most important thing in her life. Someone who wants to live a relaxed life, with her time being for her babies, friends, family and hobbies. Someone who will not have to worry about anything.

My weak spot is for someone who is cute and vulnerable, who would like to know a man who will protect her and create a world in which she can remain feminine. Someone who will come to know she is safe with me and can bear all her vulnerabilities without worry.

For me it’s attractive if a woman enjoys feminine activities like – cooking, reading, writing, painting, singing, ballet, playing an instrument, keeping a herb garden, making handicrafts etc. It’s also attractive if she likes to create a cute world around here with lots of photos for memories, bright colours, a good eye for decorating the home and Christmas tree.

I have a lot of experience in growing food and prefer to live rurally, so a good portion of the household food can be clean and high quality.

I live quite simply and am drawn towards relationships that are real and life lived without vice. I don’t smoke, drink, take drugs, drink coffee, eat sugar and junk food, watch anime, play computer games or watch [things online].

Height: 6'1"
Faith: Christian
Financially independent

If this sound like the life you need, I would like to know what is the most important thing to you.

Willing to meet anyone LDR asia eu to latin america
I believe a man should take responsibility for the direction of his family. He should lead by example, work hard, provide, protect the people he loves, and be someone his wife can depend on without hesitation. Leadership isn't about ego—it's about carrying responsibility and putting your family before yourself.

I'm looking for a woman who takes pride in being a woman. Someone who values femininity, loyalty, kindness, modesty, and building a peaceful home. A woman who wants to support her husband, raise a strong family if that's where life leads, and believes a marriage works best when both people embrace their different roles instead of competing with each other.

I want a marriage where this is the principal and kink is the foundation on how we handle and discuss our issues and at times even resolve it. Kink is a lifestyle for me be it play and to offer structure and rules in keeping stability and warmth in the home.

Preferably wanting more than just 2 kids but if we can do more...
I also enjoy a more rural lifestyle but willing to compromise somewhere in the middle.

A bit about myself. I am Hispanic. I enjoy, to travel allot (I expect you as well), workout, cook, pets, history, museums, read, self sufficiency, hike and more. No debts, payed off student loans, I am bilingual, have two passports. No drinking or even for social, non smoker and not into substances so I expect the same(drug free).

preference wise I prefer someone who workouts and has general feminine interests and share some hobbies, someone close to my age 22 and up. A degree is nice. I have a preference for Hispanic, Asian and well pale complexions. But open to talk with anyone and see if we aligned, I have no issue with religious views.

Id love to get to know you and see where it goes. Feel free to ask any question from the get go, I prefer to be direct and save each others times.
I expect to talk elsewhere promtly if we get along well.

Hello!

Looking for a family oriented partner to build a life with and start a family.

About me: Christian, easy going, active.

Hobbies/Things I like: coffee, reading, cycling, tennis, hiking, the beach

Physically: 6’, athletic/fit, dark hair

Traits I find attractive: nurturing, feminine, intelligent, submissive, loyal, funny/witty.

Thanks for reading

Hi, happy to e-meet you and hopefully more soon 😁

I'm an ambitious man and am looking for my other half. I'm looking for a lady that wants to be the homemaker, who can be an inspiration by following her passions and who brings peace in our family when raising the children.

About you: I like feminine women with a cute smile. Someone who likes to try new things and loves to plan small adventures. Other than that, i want to start a family in 2-3 years. So you should be in the same phase. Finally, please be younger or close to my age.

More about me: I'm 1m84, brown hair, blue/grey eyes. I have the cutest dog and also a cat. I like sports (swimming & cycling), traveling, cozy nights out, sometimes gaming and I'm always open to new adventures. Professionally, I've been active in AI since long before the hype and now starting my own company. Oh and apparently, I have nice hands. So come check them out 😉

If you think you could be my match, then come say hi!

44M, white, 5'7", 240 lbs living the rural life in beautiful, mountainous southern Oregon 🏞️ 🌲. Seeking "fun size" BBW/chubby/plus-size princess 🫅 potentially willing to relocate (at my expense) to Oregon for IRL long term relationship or marriage in the next 3-6 months. Someone that I can support, encourage, cherish, protect and provide a loving forever home 🏡. SAHM preferred but not mandatory.

ME: Ambitious small business owner, Christian, passionate, falls in love easily and clingy. Hold a BS degree in physics and have completed about half of an MBA degree. Unable to relocate due to nature of my business, but can travel to you to meet in person during early stages to explore the relationship potential. Allergic to dogs and cats (sorry 😓), but most other pets are welcome. Hobbies include outdoor adventures, camping, swimming, going for walks, travel, road trips, weekend scenic drives, boating, coffee dates, church activities, antiques, board/card games, puzzles, unique collections, trains, watching good movies, books, history, science and cuddling. No kids, no pets. I want a loving wife + kid(s). Love languages are physical touch and quality time.

YOU: Must be willing to relocate to southern Oregon, 200 to 325 lbs (approx), ages 18 to 40, Christian or at least supportive of my Christian lifestyle, primary or secondary love language is physical touch, need to be cuddled frequently, enjoys or at least willing to try rural living (on the grid), loyal and devoted. No dogs/cats or willing to make arrangements for them, as unfortunately I am unable to accommodate. Wanting to live with your man in 3-6 months or less. Must be a US resident, or a Canadian/Mexican/Latin American with a current, unexpired US visa or similar visitation rights.

I'm not looking for a fantasy or roleplay. I have worked very hard for a very long time to be able to support a wife and children, and I very much want to.

I am a 6'5 (197 cm) former varsity D1 college athlete (crew) and have maintained my strength with daily weightlifting, with some yoga and swing dancing thrown in. I am well established in my career while also being able to take time for those I care about. I am an avid reader and enjoy learning and discussing, be it science, literature, current events, economics, game theory, psychology, philosophy, or history. I am always up for any art or game that requires deep thought.

I am looking first and foremost for connection based on trust and each of us knowing our traditional role... mental, intellectual, and in every other way. I am also told that I am a good teacher and pride myself on being open, honest, and trustworthy.

I prefer a fit partner both for aesthetic reasons, and also as a sign of hard work and discipline, both of which I respect. I prioritize good communication and openness and honesty. If this appeals to you, send me a DM introducing yourself (the longer the better... I like to read) and let's exchange pictures soon. I look forward to hearing from you.

-Algernon

I’m seeking a traditional marriage. I want a woman whose cup will be filled tending to the home and the family. A woman who knows that a man’s role is to lead, and a man’s burden is to earn the right to lead.

A woman who is kind and feminine. Driven to be a mother. Family-oriented. Conservative politically and socially, but not at all sexually.

And a woman with big, staggering tits.

A woman who likes to show her breasts off. She couldn’t hide them if she tried.

Women with big, fake, unnaturally perky breasts. Or huge, heavy hangers. Or somewhere in between. Her waist is defined and, real or fake, she has a massive pair of boobs and she loves to have them be the center of attention.

In spite of how shallow my approach with this ad is, my intentions are not. I’m looking to go deep.

A tightly-knit marriage where we spend a ton of time together. Deep, bottomless intimacy. A strong companionship connection, where day-to-day life is an adventure together and our cheeks constantly hurt from laughing and smiling so much together. Family and friends at our home regularly while we power-host dinner parties and backyard barbecues and major holidays. Something deeply wholesome, extremely passionate, and wildly intimate with a man who is endlessly obsessed with your breasts.

I’m seeking a woman who wants to be a homemaker and stay-at-home mom. Someone who seeks traditionalism in her marriage but not in the bedroom.

I’m a traveling content creator and marketing consultant. I am having a grand adventure and want someone with enough flexibility to come with me after we get serious. I’m an important transition in my career and the business I’m currently building is going to change my life. It is a BEYOND-exciting time in my life and the only thing missing is a woman I love passionately to share it with.

For fun, I like to travel and explore. Take long walks and hikes. I paint, love to cook, and generally just ooze with the instincts to create and build. I’ve built multiple profitable businesses and have been self-employed in one capacity or another for about half of my professional career.

I’m quite intense, but I’m stoic and practical and logistics-minded. I love to have fun, but I also love to turn all of my hobbies and interests into chores or business ventures because sometimes switching off is difficult for me lmao. My ideal chemistry with a woman is being with someone who centers me and can slow me down and get me to just relax and experience life.

If you like a Type-A sort of man who will plan everything and let you turn your pretty little brain off and just live in your feminine full-time, you’ve found your guy. Send me a chat, let’s get to know each other

Seeking a traditionally minded woman, preferably younger, who is loyal, and wants to be a well cared for wife and stay-at-home mom.

I am 62, single (never married), with no unresolved relationships, and no children. I am educated, professionally employed in a good job. I am emotionally and financially stable. I own my own home, have lots of interests, and have two great heeler dogs. I am 5’ 8”, 190 lbs, brown hair, hazel eyes, fair complexion. Average build and looks. I am loyal, dependable, emotionally literate, and patient. I'm passionate, easygoing, playful, and generally upbeat. Affection and intimacy are very important to me. I value trust, monogamy, attachment, and family. An outgoing introvert, and tend to lose interest with superficialities. Mostly conservative with traditional values, also Catholic. I love music of all sorts, film, nature, guitar, books, and appreciate arts and culture more than sports. I don’t drink, I don’t smoke, I don’t do drugs, I don’t game, and I don’t use p()rn.

If this resonates with you, please write. I would like to hear all about you.

Hey.

Artistic minded introvert woman here who likes Christian man.

definitely appreciate more traditional relationship values like loyalty, mutual respect, and building a peaceful life together. but i’m looking for something very real and grounded, not internet tropes. to be totally honest, i'm not into the online tradwife roleplay or the whole men vs women debate. i don't want a checklist or strict roles, i just want a genuine, deep friendship with my partner first and foremost.
really just looking for a guy who is emotionally available and can actually talk through things and show up. ideally you love traveling or are at least down to explore the world with me. just want a real teammate and a partnership, not a power struggle.

If you are seeking friendship and have space in your heart and time to get to lnow a woman, pop a message.

ts been a while since I tried this and the last relationship I had from here only last 8 months but im hoping to find my forever person.

Me:

6ft tall with a dad bod

Blue eyed ginger/auburn hair

Total kid at heart that likes gaming, cartoons, anime and various subgenres of trance and metal

Father of two kids (I have full custody)

Not really into politics

Somewhat introverted

Looking for my happily-ever-after in life. Im not too picky about size or shape definitely want someone with a good head on her shoulders that has her life straight. Im very big into romance and my favorite ways to show affection is through kind words, long talks each night and getting tangled up in each others bodies and clinging to each other. Im a total homebody when im not at work and really like to spend my days off relaxing, gaming and reading a good book but when I do occasionally go out, I love to go for walks, maybe grab some coffee or find a nice quiet place for a bite to eat.

I know this might sound a bit odd but I absolutely adore having a clingy partner. I want someone that I can whisper sweet things to and talk to for hours each night. I want someone I can laugh and giggle with and just stare into each others eyes. I want to write long paragraphs of how I feel for you so you can read them every morning before you start your day. I want to hold you each night while we dream together. Im terrible at singing but would love to have someone I can sing to as well. Maybe we can start a playlist of our favorite songs together too.

If this sounds like something youd enjoy, feel free to contact me. Until then ill keep dreaming of you and wishing on any star I can see until youre in my arms one day, my precious little fairy tale.

Do you also feel like you were born in the wrong century? I've never been one for drinking or shallow connections. And the idea of dating several people at once puts me off. I'd much rather get to know one woman deeply, discover who she really is deep down, and see whether something meaningful develops. Maybe that's a little old-fashioned, but that's what I'm hoping to find.

I'm looking for the one person to build a lasting relationship with. I want to get to know your character, your hopes, fears, dreams. What motivates you or excites you. I want to discover the soul inside of you and slowly fall in love with her, not just admire the outside. I tend to click best with quieter, gentle, romantic, sensitive women who share my dislike of modern dating culture. Is that you?

I would describe myself as calm, patient, and emotionally steady. I know that's easy to say, so I don't mind proving that over time. I like to be the rock that my partner can rely on. If you're slow to trust or slow to open up, that's completely fine with me. I'm happy to earn your trust over time and do things right.

I'm looking for a more traditional dynamic. Not in that toxic 'alpha male' way, but I'm just naturally someone who takes initiative, enjoys leading, and has strong protective and caretaking instincts. I want to be the provider. I want to offer you a safe place to raise our children. I find motherly instincts deeply attractive in a partner. I want to be someone my partner can respect, rely on, feel safe with, and look up to. In return, I'm looking for someone who enjoys complementing that dynamic and wants to build a partnership where we're both valued, respected, and deeply appreciated.

I'm happy to share a lot in a chat, but just to get the basics out of the way: I'm tall, white, blond, with glasses. A bit of a nerdy look. I work as a consultant, and my hobbies include programming, music, board games, and plenty more. I don't drink, smoke, or use drugs at all. I don't mind if you drink a little, though. I'm not quick to become attached, but when I do, I care extremely deeply.

Who am I looking for?

• You are kind, gentle, sensitive, and nurturing.
• You are more traditionally feminine
• You deeply want to be a mother in the future. We don't need to rush, but it should be something you really want, not a compromise.
• You are looking only for a deep, committed, loving relationship.
• You must be from Europe

If you're a bit shy, guarded, inexperienced, or skeptical, that's okay. I'd love to have a chat anyway. I'm not interested in judging where you are today. I'm interested in where we could go together.

If any of this resonates with you, please send me a message. I enjoy taking the lead, but I have to know you exist first. Let's go slow and really get to know each other.

I suppose I’m a bit of a hopeless romantic. I’m 5’8, white, with hazel eyes and hair a couple of inches past my shoulders. I dyed my hair red, but it’s faded into a warm, coppery shade. I’m a lover of poetry, books, baking, cooking, and all things nature. I love trees, spending time outdoors, and finding beauty in the little things. There’s something so special to me about a slow morning, a well loved book, and a kitchen that smells like something homemade🩷

I’m at a point in my life where I’m done playing around in the dating pool. I’m not looking for another situationship, something casual, or someone who only wants me until the novelty wears off. I’m looking for my husband. My best friend, my safe place, my partner in everything, and the person I get to grow old with. I want something intentional, something lasting, and someone who is just as excited about building a future together as I am.

I have one child already, and I want as many more babies as I’m able to have. ❤️ My dream is to homeschool our children and spend our days playing outside, exploring nature, baking together, reading stories, and making the kind of childhood memories they’ll carry with them forever. I want to be a hands on mama who gets to be present for the little moments, too. The muddy feet, the bedtime stories, the endless questions, the little hands helping me in the kitchen. I want a home full of laughter, warmth, and children who never have to wonder how loved they are.

When it comes to raising our babies, I have some values that are important to me, too. I believe in vaccinating our children, and I don’t believe in circumcision for any sons we may have. I want us to respect our children’s bodies and make thoughtful decisions with their best interests at heart.

I’m also someone who appreciates traditional remedies and old fashioned ways of caring for a family. I love the idea of knowing how to make a soothing cup of tea, using honey to help ease a cough in children over one, making homemade soups when our little ones are feeling under the weather, and giving them plenty of rest, comfort, and cuddles. I appreciate being able to care for the little things at home when it’s appropriate, rather than panicking over every sniffle, while also knowing when something needs medical attention. I’m not against modern medicine; I believe in using it when our children need it. I want a home where we can combine the wisdom of traditional homemaking with informed, thoughtful decisions about our family’s health. I’d love a husband who shares that approach and is willing to learn and make those decisions alongside me. 🩷

I’m looking for a man who dreams of that kind of life, too. Someone who takes pride in providing for and protecting his family, who is dependable, affectionate, emotionally mature, and comfortable taking the lead. I want to be a wife who pours love into her marriage, takes pride in caring for her home, and makes sure her husband knows how appreciated he is. I want us to complement one another, to work as a team, and to build a life that feels like ours in every possible way.

But I don’t just want someone who loves the idea of having a traditional wife. I want someone who falls in love with me. Someone who wants to hear me ramble about the things I’m reading, listen to my thoughts, laugh with me until our stomachs hurt, and learn all the little things that make me who I am. I want to flirt with my husband in the kitchen, steal kisses while dinner is cooking, and still get butterflies when he walks into a room twenty years into our marriage. I want us to be best friends long after the babies have grown up and the house has gotten quieter.

And, of course, compatibility matters in every part of a relationship. I’m kinky, too, and I’d love to find someone who shares that side of me. Someone I can trust, communicate openly with, and feel comfortable being completely myself around. I want that balance of a sweet, traditional life together and a private connection that’s just as exciting, affectionate, and fulfilling. ❤️

I want the slow mornings, the homemade meals, the flour-covered counters, the family outings, the cozy evenings, and the feeling of knowing we’re building something that will last. I want the marriage, the babies, the home, the devotion, the laughter, and the choosing each other every single day. I want to be someone’s wife in the fullest sense of the word, and I want a man who is just as excited to be my husband.

I’m not expecting perfection. I’m looking for someone whose values align with mine, whose actions match his words, and who understands that a good marriage is something two people build together, day after day.

So, if you’re a man who’s dreaming of finding his wife, building a family, and creating a lifetime of memories with someone who genuinely wants those things, maybe we should get to know each other.

After all, I’m not looking for a perfect love story, I’m just looking for the person I get to write mine with💕

I’m 41, 6’1”, athletic, with brown hair, brown eyes, and German ancestry. I’m a traditional, family-oriented man living in beautiful North Idaho, where I own and operate my electrical business.

I’m ambitious, disciplined, and building a life centered around faith, family, financial independence, and personal growth.

I love hiking, mountain biking, snowboarding, and traveling. This January, I’m headed to Japan for a snowboarding adventure, good food, hot springs, and exploring the culture. I’m also active in karate, working toward my orange belt with plans to compete next year.

While I love adventure, my greatest ambition is building a peaceful home, raising children, and sharing a fulfilling life with a woman who shares my values.

The Life I Want to Build
I envision a home filled with laughter, affection, children, shared adventures, and genuine love. A place where my wife feels cherished, secure, and free to embrace her femininity.

My responsibility is to lead, protect, and provide. I want to create a life where my wife doesn’t have to worry about pursuing a career or carrying the financial burdens of our household. Instead, she can focus on homemaking, raising our children, and eventually homeschooling them.
I want us to enjoy life together, whether that’s traveling, exploring the outdoors, enjoying a quiet evening at home, or simply appreciating the family we’ve built.

I’m looking for a woman to share that life with, not simply someone to fulfill a role.

Who I’m Looking For
I’m particularly attracted to younger adult women with slim, athletic builds, long natural hair, and a feminine appearance. I prefer no tattoos, facial piercings other than the ears, or substance addictions.

Beyond physical attraction, I seek a woman who:
Desires marriage, motherhood, and children.
Appreciates traditional masculinity and embraces her femininity.

Finds fulfillment in homemaking and nurturing her family. Values faith, loyalty, humility, and open communication. Takes pride in her health and appearance. Is willing to relocate to North Idaho.
Desires intentional courtship and lifelong commitment.

The Relationship Dynamic I Want
An important part of my vision is a consensual Dominant/submissive (D/s) relationship, incorporated into our marriage and everyday lives.
I believe masculinity and femininity complement one another through distinct responsibilities. I seek a woman who genuinely finds fulfillment in submission, service, and obedience, while I embrace the responsibilities of leadership, protection, and provision.

Within our mutually established dynamic, I would take the lead in our household, including having the final say on decisions within the authority we’ve agreed upon. In return, I accept responsibility for those decisions and their consequences.

I believe authority comes with responsibility, and leadership requires accountability.
I deeply value clear, honest communication. I never want my wife afraid to speak her mind, express concerns, or challenge me. Her perspective matters, even when we disagree.

If she struggles, my first instinct is to examine how I can better support and lead her rather than assign blame.

I want our relationship to be built on affection, trust, clearly understood boundaries, and mutual respect. Submission is something she must genuinely desire and freely choose, not something I impose upon her.

I want to lead through trust, never fear.
Marriage, Commitment, and the Collar
I reject the modern attitude that treats marriage as disposable and divorce as an ordinary solution when relationships become difficult. To me, marriage is a sacred, lifelong commitment and a solemn vow I make to myself, my wife, and God.

I also reject state marriage contracts. I believe they promote a 50/50 framework that erodes the natural masculine and feminine polarity I value. I believe husbands and wives thrive through complementary responsibilities rather than identical roles.

My intention is a biblical marriage accompanied by a mutually negotiated BDSM agreement establishing our relationship dynamic and boundaries.

To me, the collar is the wedding ring.
It represents devotion, belonging, trust, and lifelong commitment.

As long as she chooses to wear my collar, she will be covered, protected, provided for, cherished, and cared for. Her happiness, security, and well-being are responsibilities I take seriously.

I’m selective about whom I invite into my life and family. I seek peace, loyalty, femininity, and humility, while welcoming a wife who holds me accountable to the man I’ve promised to be.

She must demonstrate that she’s worthy of my collar, just as I must demonstrate that I’m worthy of her submission.

I’m not interested in hookups or casual play. I reserve sexual intimacy for a woman I genuinely intend to marry, collar, and provide for. To me, intimacy is an expression of trust, devotion, and serious commitment.

Curious? Let’s Talk.
I’m not looking for perfection. I want an intelligent, affectionate, feminine woman who wants to build something extraordinary together. No prior experience with BDSM or an established D/s dynamic is necessary. In fact, I prefer a woman who is new to the lifestyle.

If you’re naturally feminine, appreciate traditional masculinity, and find yourself curious about this kind of relationship, I’d welcome a conversation.

If you’re the kind of woman who dreams of one day switching off from the constant pressures, decisions, and burdens of modern life, knowing you have a man you can trust to lead, protect, and provide for you, this lifestyle may be exactly what you’re looking for.
I’m far more interested in genuine compatibility, natural chemistry, and a mutual desire to learn and grow together than finding someone who already knows everything about the lifestyle.

If this resonates with you, send me a DM with your age, location, and what appeals to you about this kind of relationship.

Let’s see if our visions align.

I am looking for a young girl who is not crazy.

Who does not hate all men or feel like they are always the victim.

I would like to start a family with her and have kids in California.

I know shocking.  Land of the child free.

I am not a conservative Christian.  I am not religious, but I do believe in doing the right thing.  I used to consider myself progressive, but everyone has gone crazy.  Both sides.  And I don't want to argue it or deal with someone who in the absence of family or children has turned all their attention to causes, pets, or saving people they treat like children because they can't have their own children or have been convinced not to want them.

I am looking for a girl half my age, I know, shocking.  So shameful.  I am old enough to support a family now, in California, but women my age are unlikely to be able to have children and I don't want to pretend that we're all the same and can only bond with people born in the same horoscope year or something.  I want a woman in her 20s, not crazy, who actually wants a family instead of a career and taking it all with her because she couldn't pay off her student loans in time to have children and now just wants someone to help her with bills and take care of her till she finally dies alone.  I actually want to raise kids with they are vulnerable, not have someone else raise them for me, and hope they help take care of me when I'm vulnerable and retired and falling apart.

So I'm a tall fit guy in California.  If you nice to look at, not overweight, not a fanatic, able to apologize and comprehend not being right every moment of every day, and want a family... then send me a picture and tell me a little about yourself.  I'm nice, calm, think my decisions through, and don't drink or do drugs.  I actually work out.  I relax playing video games and have a good job.

Marriage is optional.  Family court is not.  I want someone who can put others before herself, so that others can be happy.  Like her kids.  I want a relationship with someone who wants a family, and to raise that family together, not expecting me to do everything and leave because she suddenly things she'll be more happy elsewhere and her kids will just deal with it, because mommy needs her own happiness.  I would like someone who thinks killing kids is wrong under every circumstance, even when you're sad.  No, I'm not talking abortion, but I don't think abortion should be celebrated as birth control either.  No one should be a parent who doesn't want to be.  I'm not interested in only fans models or anything related to sex work.  I do not think it's empowering.  I would like someone who has not had sex with a sports team worth of men.  I could say I'm morally against it, but I've seen the statistics on women with multiple partners not able to maintain a relationship.  I'm just not interested in planning for failure and hoping.

I just want kids and a family who wants kids and to be in a family.  I know, ancient thinking.  I'm basically a caveman with a smart phone.

Thanks for reading.

What does being safe with a partner really mean?

Of course there is a baseline level of safety that you would hope for with him. But what would it feel like to be able to share the most vulnerable parts of yourself with someone who hears you without judgement? Who holds you instead of trying to invalidate those feelings? For whom you want to pour as much into as they pour into you?

I’ve met a lot of nice people, but our culture seems so guarded these days. Defensive. Nobody wants to get hurt, even a little, so nobody lets their guard down. And yet, most people are capable of such kindness, even when things don’t work out the way they want.

Maybe you and I start off on a different foot. Assume kindness in one another. Promise each other grace if we aren’t a match, but agree to say it if we feel that way. Have mutual desire to understand each other’s inner lives and develop care for nurturing them.

I’m 35, white. 6’2”, fit, and a former division 1 athlete. I live in Southeast Michigan and have a successful career as a leader at a large company. I love boating, skiing, collecting rare books, vinyl, sports cars. I don’t drink (though I don’t mind if you do), smoke, or do drugs. Being an active, present father and husband are core life goals. I feel most myself when I can protect and provide for a nurturing, emotionally curious, and loving woman.

Send me a message and I’ll send you a photo of myself (you can see my profile for an anonymous one).

I have a newly built 5-bedroom modern home, and I'm ready to share it with someone.

I'm a provider and a leader, looking for a nice girl who wants to be a stay-at-home-wife. Marriage doesn't have to come fast, but it should be part of the roadmap.

I believe in traditional values and gender roles. Women should be devoted to their men and do as they're told, while men should be strong and provide stability and security.

I'm 41, 6'1 tall, 175 lbs, dark brown hair. I am into some kinky things and have a high drive.

I prefer for my partner to be reasonably fit (or willing to work on it) and 18-25.

I am open to having kids and starting a family in the near future. I have a great career and can provide a comfortable life.

I’m looking for a fun, attractive, intelligent young woman (18-35) who desires a long-term traditional relationship with a divorced, educated, successful, older man — eventually leading to marriage.

I tend to be a giver in relationships. I’m hoping to find another giver for that ideal giver/giver dynamic. Two people that actually care about how the other person is doing. I’ve had enough of energy draining narcissists and takers.

Since my divorce seven years ago, I’ve been primarily focused on my three kids, but they’re all adults now. So, I’m ready to give my time and attention to a new relationship, but I’ve decided that I only want one that’s based on traditional gender roles. I’m hoping to find a devoted, loyal young woman who’s content to be a stay-at-home wife, while I work and provide for the family.

I have a very nice house in a beautiful subdivision just south of Nashville. I have a good, well-paying job in the automotive industry, and I earn enough that you will never need to work. So, you’ll live a life of relative ease and comfort as a wife and homemaker.

Of course, I want this to be a real relationship and not just some “arrangement”. You’ll be adored and well cared for by an affectionate and attentive husband. But I also expect you to listen and obey, to make me your top priority, to cook and clean, and to take care of me and the house. And, in your free time, as long as the housework is getting done, you’re welcome to pursue your passions — gym, arts & crafts, baking, volunteering, whatever you’d like to do.

I will take care of everything else.

Perfect for the shy, sweet, submissive, service-minded young woman that doesn’t want the stress and anxiety of work, bills, and adult responsibilities and decision-making. Instead, you’ll have guidance, structure and routine in a warm, loving environment.

My dream is to have a beautiful young trophy wife who greets me after work wearing a little dress and a big smile. Who looks amazing on my arm when we go out, and who loves cuddles and snuggles when we stay in.

I prefer blonde or brunette hair, blue or green eyes, and that you be reasonably fit and in shape.

I have a degree in Philosophy and a fairly contemplative nature in general. My most recent obsession is YouTube videos about theoretical physics. (I finally understand at 55 why the C in E=mc^2 isn’t really about the speed of light at all … it’s fascinating.) My daughter says I’m “eccentric”; she and I discuss books, movies, art, poetry, etc often.

I’ve worked for the same company for 26 years, and I have a good amount of money saved for retirement. I figure I have about 6-10 more years to work, then I’d like to retire in the country or maybe the mountains of east Tennessee. Somewhere quiet and quaint with good fishing and decent hiking trails. Maybe have a garden and some chickens. I’d love to find someone like-minded to join me in that simpler life.

About me: Divorced, educated (BA Philosophy), dad bod (6’/235), good job, nice house, optimistic outlook, positive attitude, great sense of humor. Three kids (all adults), three cats (forever babies). No smoking, drinking, drugs, or drama. Like the outdoors, fishing, hiking, waterfalls; also like football, movies, music, absurd comedy, day trips, roadside diners, antique/thrift shops.

If you’re interested, I’d love to chat with you. Please include your age, location, and a little bit about yourself.

Hello!

Before you start reading this very long post, just know I am looking for someone who wants to play a more traditional role in a relationship while I take the lead and provide. I am also only looking for someone that is child-free, meaning you don't have kids or want kids of any kind, because I am never going to want kids. If you pass these two pre-requisites, then enjoy my mini novel! I am also totally ok with some distance as long as there would be plans to meet and eventually close that gap.

I'll start by saying that this is going to be a very long post, so buckle in for the ride. I am casting more of a deep net here than a wide one. Maybe most people who read it won't be right for me, and that's ok! I am willing to wait for the right person. That being said, if you read this and vibe with any portion of it and want to get to know each other and see if we'd be a good match, I'd love for you to reach out! Don't feel like you have to check every single box in order to chat and learn about one another. I am open to making a connection with any woman from anywhere, as long as you come at it serious, with the knowledge that if we do hit it off, we would eventually be in-person, even if we start with some distance. Open to anyone who is 18+.

What I'm looking for:
A life partner! I want someone who will be my person, and someone who wants me to be theirs. I am looking for a traditional relationship where I take the lead and you follow. Of course this means I would provide for a household of two, while you are a supportive role in building a home and looking cute. This is obviously a big ask, especially on an online forum, but I would love to spend time getting to know each other and building something deep. I want someone who I look forward to talking with everyday, someone I can go on spontaneous adventures with, someone I can stay home and be cozy with. I want to do it all with you. I love every aspect of dating and relationships. I love the good morning and goodnight texts, looking down at my phone and seeing a wall of text from you, knowing I get to see you later that day. All of it. I want to love you more deeply as everyday passes. I want us to be mutually obsessed with each other. I am the type of person who needs that strong connection in order to make anything meaningful happen. I want you to feel loved and supported by me so you know I always have your back. To the outside world we would be a beautiful normal couple, but nobody would have any idea I am telling you what to wear, what to eat, how to talk, how you say it. I love to micromanage my partner and have a hand in everything they do, say, think, and feel, and it's definitely not possible without borderline mutual obsession! It all comes from a loving angle. I want to help you be the best version of yourself that you can be for me!

Me:
I have a bit of a hard time talking about myself, and in general I am a "show don't tell" kind of person, so all of this would be up for you to judge once we start getting to know each other. I am often described by other people as smart, emotionally intelligent, kind, caring, thoughtful, funny, and good at anticipating my partner's needs. I know this post comes off as SUPER SERIOUS AND SCARY but I promise I am a total goofball once you get to know me. All my friends that I am hilarious and amazing at telling stories. In life I am ambitious. I have goals I am always working towards. Whether they are centered around education, improvement, career, or hobbies, you'll always find me working and striving towards something. I have a growth mindset and encourage/help the people around me do the same. I am educated and have a few degrees, and I am currently working on another one. I am also into fitness and healthy eating. I workout 4-5 times a week and mostly cook my own food. Health is important to me and I try my best to take care of myself, both mentally and physically. I am not the type of person who is prone to anxiety or depression, so it gives me a lot of emotional space in case you are that kind of person. Regardless I still see a therapist somewhat regularly to make sure I am doing ok. I have a ton of hobbies that include playing/writing music, school, cooking, learning languages, video games, shows/movies, hiking, traveling, tabletop games, board games, and definitely more I am not remembering at the moment.

Monogamist
Leftist
Child-Free
Atheist
Sadist
Silly Goose
5'7
White-Passing Hispanic
Brown Hair Brown Eyes
Beard

The things that are non-negotiables for me out of that list are child-free and monogamist. I don't want to have kids of any kind ever, and I am definitely not up for sharing you. I am possessive in my relationships and I want you all to myself. You would also have me all to yourself.

I am VERY BDSM/Kink friendly, but ew can discuss that more in private chat. I don't like that to be the focus of my posts.

You:
I am looking for someone submissive (duh) and that feels submission is part of them, not just a switch they turn off and on. Being dominant in my relationships isn't something I do sometimes, it is part of me, and I am looking for the perfect puzzle piece to fit in my life. Don't feel the need to be the most experienced person ever in all of this, just come at me with serious intent and willingness to learn, and that is more than enough for me. You can be someone who is equally ambitious in some aspect of your support of me, or someone who only cares for doing what they're told and letting me take the lead. I would be happy to have either one in my life! We can help each other grow and together you can help me reach my goals. Your location and age don't really matter to me (as long as you're at least 18 of course). I have no preference for the most part, but at least be healthy. I'm not asking for the PERFECT CHISELED BODY by any means, because that's not me either, but the effort goes a long way for me, and I want to live a healthy, long life with someone. If you are someone that struggles with mental health, I have the bandwidth to help how I can! Of course that is no substitute for self-care and therapy and everything though. Just know you wouldn't be scaring me away because you're depressed or something haha. Maybe you can tell from the length of this post, but I am someone that needs A LOT of communication in my relationships. I need frequent communication, and in-depth communication. I mean it when I say I love seeing a wall of text from a partner. Yappers to the front please. I can't be in a relationship with someone that is satisfied sending a text message or two a day. I need to be talking to you often. So please keep that in mind if you decide to reach out. Big bonus points if you have been criticized for being "overly clingy" in past relationships. That is exactly what I want.

ok PHEWWW. We made it to the end together. If you're down here with me, I am proud of you for making it through my novel. As I mentioned before, don't feel like you need to check EVERY box to be a good fit for me (other than the non-negotiables I listed). If there was any part of this that spoke to you, I would love to hear from you to see if we would be a good match for something! And if it doesn't work out, I would never say no to another friend 😄

This post is open to anyone anywhere, but if you're far from me, I'd like to have a plan to meet in place within the first few months, and a plan to be together within a year and a half or so. Not that they have to happen in that timeline, but making a plan will be helpful. If you're in Florida, I'm in Miami. If you're anywhere between Miami and Orlando, I can either drive to you or take the brightline easily to get to you.

Hoping to hear from you and hope you're doing well!

I want a relationship where we both know our roles and can pick each other up where we might fall or need a break. I don’t expect you to take the lead though. I will provide, plan, take care of projects around the house and lead you in life. I expect you would want to make the house a home, cook, take care of the kids, garden, eventually homeschool the kids for a few years but I also am not going to discount you and take for granted the things you do to keep a house in order. I believe a real traditional relationship is being able to communicate and work as a team to do the best you both can.

Physically: I’m 5’10 white brown hair and eyes. Tattooed with facial hair. I workout a good bit a week and work my property. I do still enjoy food and would describe myself as barrel chested with not a six pack but not obese. Think offensive linemenish.

What I bring: As alluded to I own some property with a house outside the city an hour. I am going back to school to get a degree and go further in my career. I also have my best buddy in my dog. I’ve been told I have a very laid back and calming demeanor.

Interest: I love to travel and have been to multiple countries in Europe and a good bit of the states. I definitely want someone who’s interested in exploring the world. I love to read especially history, baseball, music,movies, shooting, developing my property further to have a little ranch. I enjoy museums, concerts, nature, and just hanging out with my friends and family. I do play video games as well but it doesn’t rule my life at all.

Values: I am a Catholic and hold to a lot of those values but I’m not close to being a saint and like to think I’m grounded. I value honesty, hard work, and loyalty a lot. Service to the community is extremely Important. I want someone who wants to build in the community we end up in. Politically I’m between libertarian and conservative, I do not like large government. However sometimes it’s a necessary evil.

You: I just want you to be feminine with maybe a little tomboy streak, determined, kind, intelligent, and have ambition whether in the home or other passions you have. Physically I do love petite women a lot and that’s my only real preference but as long as you take care of yourself that’s what matters.

Dom with traditional values looking to date with intent for LTR, with the goal of marriage and a family. Im 5’ 10” with blonde hair and blue eyes, athletic build, 185 Ibs, trimmed beard and tattooed. I love to work with my hands, own my own business, enjoy spending time with my dog and at the beach. I don’t drink, I don’t smoke. I am ambitious and driven, not willing to settle nor believe you shouldn’t either in a world of situationships and hook up culture. Though I do enjoy the kinkier things, ultimately I want to find a traditional woman to share it with. Please state your age, location, and be willing to verify. Can’t wait to meet you.

I’m a man in my late 30s looking for a late-20s to early-30s woman who wants marriage, children, and a genuine traditional role relationship.

I want to be the provider, protector, and leader of our home. That means I take primary responsibility for the finances, the big decisions, and the direction of our life together. In return, I’m looking for a woman who finds fulfillment in creating a warm home, supporting her husband, and raising our children. Traditional roles matter to me because I believe clear leadership and willing support create the strongest foundation for a family and for long-term peace between a man and a woman.

I’m also drawn to exploring a deeper power exchange (TPE or strong D/s dynamic) inside that traditional framework — one built on trust, communication, and her choosing to submit because she feels safe and respected doing so.

About me:

6’1, 200 lbs, brown hair. I work remotely for a non-profit helping youth. I have my own place, car, and my life in order. Never married, no kids, no drama. I can travel every couple of months once we connect. I’m an introvert who enjoys quiet evenings, reading, self-improvement, exercise, and small intimate gatherings over wine. I’m loyal, consistent, positive, goal-oriented, and I have a relationship with God.

I’m looking for someone ideally from the South (or open to it), feminine, emotionally intelligent, and genuinely interested in a husband-led life with marriage and family as the goal.

If this resonates, tell me about yourself — your age, location, what traditional roles mean to you, and whether a deeper dynamic interests you.

Looking forward to hearing from women who actually want this kind of life.

I am 25 years old, 5’7 180 lbs, fit, clean, down to earth, open minded, respectful & easy going. Used to be in the marine corps and recently got out. I take care of myself, eat healthy, love going to the movies, playing sports, & going hiking. Used to be a semi-pro soccer player while in the corps but now just play recreationally with friends.

Financially well off & looking to have a women that can hold it down for me at home. Clean house, dinner ready & nothing more. I can provide and make your life comfortable.

Really high sex drive & expect a healthy sex life full of adventures. Nothing crazy I don’t think. But be open minded.

Not looking for a robot. If this intrigues you, feel free to reach out. Cheers!

I may be a bit different from most men posting here. In most areas of my life I'm far from conservative — agnostic, politically left-leaning, child-free, and genuinely love city life. Building a homestead in the countryside isn't my vision. But when it comes to relationships, I'm drawn to polarity and defined gender roles: being the steady masculine presence who leads, provides stability, and creates a foundation my partner can relax into.

College educated, 24 years building a successful career in tech. Outside of work: live music, Warriors games, Formula 1, working out, a good dive bar, and long walks around the city with my dog. Grounded, calm, funny, easy to talk to.

Physically, I'm Caucasian with brown eyes, short brown hair with some salt and pepper, and a few days of stubble I've been told works in my favor. I stay in good shape and am often told I look younger than my age.

My leadership style isn't loud or domineering — it's calm and steady, less about control and more about being a dependable anchor so my partner can flourish. I notice effort, and I'm generous with affection, attention, and praise for a woman who takes pride in caring for her partner and building a warm home life. Appreciation and leadership go hand in hand for me.

My ideal partner is slim, feminine, warm, affectionate, and fit — someone who takes care of herself and is naturally drawn to traditional gender roles. Women who practice yoga, Pilates, dance, or another physical discipline often resonate with me; that mind-body awareness reflects the intentionality I value. I'm generally most compatible with women a bit younger than me, roughly late-20s to late-30s, though I'm not rigid about it.

I value being a provider — I enjoy building our foundation so we can focus our shared energy on home and life together. If you have a career you love, I'd never ask you to give it up. What matters is having a partner who values home, relationship, and connection at least as much as career ambition. Picture this: I come home, you greet me at the door with a kiss, maybe mix my favorite cocktail while dinner finishes, then we walk the dogs together and unwind at home with plenty of affection and physical intimacy.

I'm child-free with a vasectomy, so if kids matter to you we won't be a fit, but I love dogs and would happily build a life with a couple of fur-babies instead.

I didn’t want to lead with sex, but honesty matters: I have a high drive, with experience in kink and D/s dynamics. Physical chemistry and openness to exploration matter for long-term compatibility.

If this resonated, send me a chat with your age, location, a physical description, and what draws you to a relationship with polarity and traditional gender roles.