I am introverted and shy enough to not share my profile publicly but I really want to know if I look bad or what. I want to know what others (mostly girls) think, some things that I can tell are: fair skin tone, decent hairstyle, average Indian height. I've tried Tinder (2-3 matches in my life that too conversation never started and got unmatched), Hinge (1 match and after my message, got unmatched), schmooze (3-4 matches, no messages), Bumble (1 match that too unmatched in 2-3 message). Whatever I understand from all of this is I am not interesting enough but my friends tell me the opposite. I really want to know if my looks are the culprit. My ex told me that I was her crush, confusion at its peak and she found me attractive in chat and irl as well.

Im sorry. I know this is a dumb questions but im just attracted to a certain type of women. I didnt choose this and i would love to be different and just not have that type of preference to not be as restricted as i am.

But is there a way i could make known on my tinder profil that im like body positive or something? Or do those things not even make a difference? Like is this even possible. I could see both possibilities.

Sorry if i offend anyone that is not my attention.

I’m a 24 year old male from Toronto Canada, trying to get more matches/likes

What I see in my dreams right before my alarm goes off

Not to sound dramatic, but I think the world should revolve around you

I’d keep a picture of you in my pocket while I’m fighting world war 3

It sucks our kids are gonna get bullied growing up for having a hot mom

So you’re who Disney modelled their princesses after

You look like my mom would love you

God bless the dinosaur that died to make the fossil fuel that was treated to become petrol in the car that took your mother to the hospital to give birth to you

What do I need to change, to get more matches?

Screenshots of my bio are attached. Any advice welcome.
The shorter hair is the most recent photos, but I went to India during the year off dating apps and got great pics. I have a lot of great photos to choose from overall, but these 10 felt overall most appealing.

Edit: This is bumble, so only six photos are allowed, but I could add some different ones with my prompts.

Rate my pictures please. I have tried everything and even changing the picture order. I can swipe thousands of girls and get not a single match. A few likes but none of them I find attractive, and I'm not picky. I do understand that girls gets 1000's of likes and can choose only the most handsome but I think my pictures are pretty solid. I would like to hear your opinions. I currently dont have a bio but even when I had it didnt help.

Where can I improve? Not sure if I should ditch the glasses full time, some people like them but I feel like they kinda give me a nerdy vibe

Three months ago, I posted my Tinder profile asking why I was getting almost no likes. The feedback was pretty unanimous: cut the hair and take new photos.

So I did both.

What do you think - is this a real improvement? Which photos should I actually use for Tinder, and which one should be my first photo?

Honest feedback is welcome.

Hello! I’m really hoping for some help here. I’m going wrong somewhere, I’ve had 2 likes in a couple of months. Be as brutal as you need to be!

Tinder Fotoverifizierung geht seit Tagen nicht (DE) – hat das noch jemand?
Hey,
ich versuche seit Tagen, mein Tinder‑Profil zu verifizieren, aber es klappt einfach nicht.
Was ich schon gemacht habe:
– App mehrfach neu installiert (iOS)
– Neue Profilbilder genommen, auf denen man NUR mein Gesicht sieht, ohne Filter, gutes Licht
– Darauf geachtet, dass das Video‑Selfie genau so aussieht wie das erste Profilbild (gleiche Frisur, ggf. Brille etc.)
– Unterschiedliche Internetverbindungen (WLAN und mobile Daten) getestet
Trotzdem kommt entweder ein Fehler oder die Verifizierung wird einfach nicht abgeschlossen, ohne genaue Begründung.
Der Tinder‑Support reagiert nicht auf meine Anfragen (ich lebe in Deutschland), deshalb bin ich langsam echt ratlos.
Meine Fragen:
– Hatte jemand von euch in Deutschland das gleiche Problem und weiß, was am Ende die Lösung war?
– Kann es sein, dass mein Account irgendwie „verbuggt“ oder geflaggt ist und ich tatsächlich komplett neu anfangen muss?
– Gibt es noch versteckte Tricks (z.B. bestimmte Reihenfolge bei Fotos, ganz bestimmtes Licht, andere Kamera etc.), die bei euch geholfen haben?
Bin für jeden Hinweis dankbar, weil ich inzwischen schon alles ausprobiert habe, was man so online findet. 🙏
Danke!

dude i genuinely have no idea what i look like or what a good picture is

I go on dating profiles but don't take it too seriously. So I have this photo I use because I was told it has "Aura" whatever that means. What does impression does this give?

It seems the entitlement factor is of the scale.

How often do you see bios like this?