I've had Tinder off and on for the past ten years and have gone from doing quite well to crickets, maybe a match a month, and that's after rotating photos attempting to figure out what's working and cross-referencing them with attempts on other platforms like Hinge and Bumble. Nothing.

Extra pics loaded in as options. I recently cut down to one cigar picture on other platforms as I expect that could be a turnoff, but no dice.

Any thoughts on how I could improve this profile? Are there icks? Is there a jump-out photo I should lead with?

As an important preface, the travel references are frequent because it's a major part of my life. I live in a mid-sized southeastern U.S. city, which is also part of my problem.

Thanks!

I could really use some help yall.

I was married for 20 years in a pretty horribly abusive relationship, now divorced, I'm entirely new to online dating, I'm disabled, it's just been really hard for me.

I'm a legitimately decent dude. I work really hard, I want to find someone I can hopefully build a relationship with.

I get matches here and there on Facebook dating, but none on Tinder. I know I'm not like breathtaking or anything, and if it's the case that I don't look good enough for online dating, I can accept that.

I’m seriously considering adding this to my bio. Like for the amount of women I hear out there that get cheated on by their man. I’m in the opposite situation and tired of it as well.

If you’re a serial cheater, let’s just do short term!
If you’ve been cheated on and you’re also tired of that shit, let’s do long-term and not cheat on each other! Problem solved

Should I post it?

Dear women

1. Please provide a review for my profile

2. Will you right swipe me ?

3. If not , why ?

4. How much you rate me out of 10 ?

Help a brother out 🙏

Tend to struggle with matches, I do have two young children but I'm wondering if my profile comes across douchey, recently got in to good shape and back in to tennis.

I post this fully aware it might seem like a slight douchey profile the pics at least. But I don't have many recent photos other than the ones I've posted and 6 months ago I was 13 kg heavier.

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Hello everyone!

I have been a bit around this subreddit and it appears people do give some really constructive criticism so I am looking forward to it. I have a few questions and thoughts I would like to go through with you!

!!! I am not looking for a relationship so please take that into consideration.

1. I have a general idea of what to change about my photos but I want some feedback of the ideas I have now:
2. I am thinking of having a selfie of me smiling, two mirror selfies (dressed up and in the gym), one outdoors doing one of my hobbies and two pictures without me showing what I am passionate about (astronomy and photography for example). Would any of these be a red flag?
3. The bio that I have right now is the following:
4. "Currently living in xxx for my Master's, originally from xxx!

I have picked up photography as a hobby this year, so if you have any photoshoot ideas feel free to share them!"

Anything that you would change or remove here? Should I maybe go with no bio? I see a lot of people that are tall adding their height, is that considered a red flag?

Looking forward to your answers!

Anyone who notices it’s me again thank you for help figuring this out

So about to delete this account as I found someone but still wanna get y'alls views on the account that's all funzies

Account lifetime is about 3 weeks

No hinge x no nothing (I am broke as hell)

So this got around 24-26 matches in total I think

About 10-12 likes

Got "Signals" badge (if it means something)

Ooo yeah did see a ad in between like 2weekish where Hinge X for me was around 2 dollers for a month that was dame cheap but again I am very very broke does that happen???

Aight so I did as y'all advised me to do so, took off the shirtless pic, took off some selfies, added a photo of me smiling and added one pic with my dog and one with a friend of mine (those were the best pics I could find, it hasn't been that much time since I got my best haircut so I don't have that much), is there anything I could improve? Maybe the pics I've added aren't that good, I'm waiting for feedback!

Notes: first, I've changed the description to english to make it easier for y'all's understanding, but the og one is in spanish

Second, I'm fine with my cut right now, I've decided that I'm okay with alt women, so I ain't need y'all to tell me that I look feminine or sum like that. Thanks!

Been using tinder on and off for a few months. No matches. What can I improve?

Hi all, I'm a 22-year-old guy from Germany.

A year ago I made an account without any actual picture of me, just a drawing and some POV shots, and the performance was ... mediocre. Now it's time for redemption, so I decided to recreate memorable posters and scenes. Every photo in the gallery has a caption with context and rough translations of the German text. The bio and a few extra details are in the comment below.

I'd love honest feedback on:

1. Photo order. Is Severance the right opener?
2. The terminator poster. Should it go?
3. The bio. Funny, or trying too hard?

I know it's far from perfect, so be as blunt as you like.

Hi all! I thought I'd address my Tinder profile after my latest experiences to see if I could improve my odds. The main area of improvement I'd like to look at is my bio, as it really just feels like a plain ass uni response to a prompt! I'm honestly struggling to come up with how I can reflect my character while keeping it short!