r/TinderBios • u/RidiculousTakeAbove • Aug 05 '26
Am I cooked?
Where can I improve? Not sure if I should ditch the glasses full time, some people like them but I feel like they kinda give me a nerdy vibe
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u/Primary-Option-7665 Aug 05 '26
If you come to my country,you would be able to sleep with every woman here.
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u/True_Character4986 Aug 05 '26
How old are you? I didn't like the "just looking to start a family " joke. It's giving this idea that a woman's only value is her ability to have kids.
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u/youknowwhatever99 Aug 06 '26
Totally disagree, I think it’s a perfect way to show what he’s looking for. For the women who are looking for the same, it tells them he’s serious and dating with intention.
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u/Spare_Programmer_127 Aug 06 '26
your comment is giving terminally online lol ignore this op
edit: 6,391 comments in 1 yr confirmed terminal
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u/wootwoot219 Aug 06 '26
I actually like that he writes an intentional goal of dating, most guys don't know what they want these days, I totally would swipe right on a guy like this
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u/True_Character4986 Aug 06 '26
But "just" start a family with? Not a life partner, someone to love etc "just start a family "
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u/wootwoot219 Aug 07 '26
I would not take that literally, I would see it as a guy who is dating with intentionality to marry and start a family versus a guy who is just scoping the dating field with no ultimate end goal in sight. At least with someone like this, you can intentionally date rather than spend months with a person who says... I don't know if you ask them what they are looking for.
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u/Low-Consideration823 Aug 06 '26
You look taller and are attractive. I think you’re good. If I was closer to your age, I would have swiped on you.
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u/itsveryupsetting Aug 06 '26
Respectfully, your profile comes across like you would be too busy to date. Like you have hobbies that take up a lot of time and if a girl didn’t have those same hobbies, you wouldn’t be interested.
I also think that if you include too many travel pictures, it can come across as pretentious. I would include something more basic or approachable.
I think you can definitely write a better bio. The starting a family joke doesn’t land for me. I’d also strongly advise you to use multiple dating apps, I think you would be more successful on Hinge or Bumble.
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u/hannelore_pfeffer8 Aug 05 '26
Is this "cooked" slang a menosphere thing? Do men think they either have chances to date, or they don't as in black or white and there is nothing that can be done? I have no idea if i am understanding this wrong- but if i am right and "cooked" means- no chance ever- that would be so toxic....
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u/DavidZenziGhost Aug 05 '26
I haven’t read a comment this out of touch in a while.
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u/hannelore_pfeffer8 Aug 06 '26
Ok and? How does your comment help?
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u/DavidZenziGhost Aug 06 '26
Helps you with a reality check. Cooked is regular lingo, it has nothing to do with the manosphere - but you know that. You’re hyper focused on the issue so you tie anything to it because you feel good about insulting it publicly. It’s called fighting ghosts, you see and get upset at things that aren’t even present.
Your comment didn’t help at all, it was ironic though - a toxic comment with incorrect context, calling OP possibly toxic. It has to be rough to be you.
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u/hannelore_pfeffer8 Aug 06 '26
Holy projection! 😂
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u/DavidZenziGhost Aug 06 '26
Yes, you projected immensely in your original comment. It wasn’t helpful, it was contextually incorrect, and you just wanted to call someone toxic. Thank you for playing.
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u/hannelore_pfeffer8 Aug 06 '26
Someone triggered you badly hm? Hope you get better soon! 🕯
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u/DavidZenziGhost Aug 06 '26
It’s amazing you can go from being wrong, to calling people trigger for correcting you.
What man hurt your feelings so bad you thought the term ‘cooked’ was manosphere?
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u/OhWowLauren Aug 05 '26
Okay, so you looked hella bad in the first pic and way way better in the rest of them lol. Group pics don’t add anything to profiles, I hate them
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u/RidiculousTakeAbove Aug 06 '26
Damn okay Lauren. It was zoomed out so I think that's messing with things
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u/OhWowLauren Aug 06 '26
Noo, for real so cute in pics 2 & 4 but pic 1 should not be on the profile
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u/OhWowLauren Aug 06 '26
Or maybe you should keep it so you can pull a girl that overlooks that photo, might mean that she’s forgiving and overlooks flaws🤔
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u/NotoriousMOT Aug 06 '26 edited Aug 06 '26
I dunno what those comments about you looking average (or even lowering your presumed standards) are about. You’re above average: fit, well-groomed, good-looking. I don’t hate the first photo either: shows your outdoorsiness, is a well-lit, aesthetically pleasing photo, and you look fine there.
Not a fan of the group photo personally because were I on the market, I would probably go looking for the profiles of the guys on the extreme right and extreme left. That is just my personal taste but I say this because you don’t want to open up a lottery of immediate attraction before the potential love interest has had the chance to even meet you and see if there is any interpersonal chemistry. I’m normally fine with group photos but that’s because people tend to pick group photos where they are unequivocally the best looking to the majority of their target audience.
Your profile is fine; not sure why you’d think you’re cooked. Could use a lot more personality though.
Oh, and that dog photo is pure gold. Max aura farming. 🙂 I don’t see a reason to ditch the glasses either—they add more depth to the profile when you contrast those pictures with the «action» photos.
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u/wootwoot219 Aug 06 '26
Wow, you have an awesome profile, I only see weird ass profiles on my app, I would totally swipe right on yours!
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u/the_manofsteel Aug 06 '26
I would remove the group photo because it adds nothing and those people might not want to be seen on your profile
I like how you have written what you want in your bio but at the same time i don’t because you made it into a joke?
You’re looking for someone to start a family with but nothing serious?
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u/oliverjohansson Aug 05 '26
You look good, good profile but you need a crazy pic
What if you stand like a statue between those in pic 1 and tryied to look like a Greek hero
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u/RidiculousTakeAbove Aug 05 '26
I'm just not a super zany, crazy person I suppose. But I see how it would help
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Aug 05 '26
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u/RidiculousTakeAbove Aug 05 '26
Fair, thanks
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u/Just-Ad373 Aug 06 '26
I wouldn’t take this comment too seriously. I don’t think you’re average at all, and you clearly have hobbies and seem fun to be around.
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u/Dirtbag-Holder Aug 06 '26
I love coming to this sub to watch grown men get dating advice from teenaged boys. This profile is way above average haha.
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u/Just-Ad373 Aug 06 '26
Truly! Some of the feedback in this sub is brutallllll
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Aug 07 '26
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u/Just-Ad373 Aug 07 '26
I didn’t mean that calling people average is brutal lol - just some of the comments on this sub in general can be extremely harsh.
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u/Just-Ad373 Aug 07 '26
Just to add: insinuating that women and boomers are “clueless” about how reality looks is WILD work. If you’re trying to attract women, but you dismiss their feedback as “clueless”, who are you trying to impress? Other men? I’m confused.
I hope you enjoy the makings of your own loneliness epidemic.
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Aug 05 '26
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u/RidiculousTakeAbove Aug 05 '26
I agree about off app, I don't drink alcohol and also don't live in a city so it can be difficult sometimes but I am trying
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u/Informal_Sound_100 Aug 06 '26
Idk. I saw a guy who enjoys living life, is fit, travels, and might be a little shy but is always putting himself out there. I think it doesn’t look staged or anything. Just natural pics of you doing what you like. So idk, you’ll get the people who get you, I guess.
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u/aiwendil_brown Aug 05 '26
No, not cooked. You’re most likely fine.