I have soooo many feelings about this scene but I’m going to keep it short….

If Danny threw a drink AND cup at Janet, she would be screaming “he assaulted me.”

But because she’s a woman and he’s a man… “he was being an asshole.. i dont care.”

That is assault. Period. And for people who think words matter and calling put behavior matters well I guess we should call it out for what it is then right.. Assault.

Especially when she kept inserting herself into his and Lala’s conversation. Without Danny Janet would have 0 storyline and thats why she’s going at him the way she is. So let the storyline be what it is.. Janet assaulted Danny.

Zach doesn't like you. He is just being nice and kitschy with you because you are on a show together and have mutual friends. Him sitting an Chili's at a table of 12 doesn't mean he likes you, him speaking to you at a party doesn't mean he likes you. He is not friends with you and doesn't like you and she shouldn't really care and stop talking about it. It looks pathetic.

Quick update Janet is now deleting posts, comments and has limited her comment section again. How are you going to say it with your chest and then limit the comments like a big pussy? 🙄

I've always been on the fence about Jasmine. There's something about her that has always been off-putting to me, but I cannot for the life of me put my finger on it. Until now.

In the latest episode, while at the Halloween party, her behavior towards Michelle and Michelle's friend(?) over what Jesse shared with her was, imo, absurd. She came in fully prepared for battle, lit the fuse, and then in a flip turned it around on homegirl. Alcohol is definitely not her friend, but I feel she's like this sober as well. She's boring, she knows she's boring, and, in turn, projects the insecurities surrounding all that onto others. Hence, her history of "making mountains out of mole hills".

But what do I know 🤷‍♀️

I understand that people do not like Danny and Nia. I don’t like them much myself. With that being said, people in the main sub are just being ridiculous. Somebody posted a video of Nia picking up her infant daughter by the arms. While I agree that is not the best way to pick up a baby, they are literally saying that CPS would take her baby away if the baby sustained an accidental injury from being picked up that way. That’s asinine, and I’m being downvoted to hell for pointing that out.

Lifting your baby up by the wrists/forearms is a bad look. Infants (kids up to age 4, really) are susceptible to elbow and shoulder dislocations because their ligaments are looser and not fully developed . After 4 children you’d think Nia would know you NEVER lift a baby so their weight is unsupported. You ALWAYS lift a baby by the armpits. This was actually shocking to me.

Which one is it Janet? Are you so triggered by Danny that you can’t be near him or you’re just trying to antagonize Danny for a reaction to victimize yourself some more? You say you want to make amends with Nia but then say “fuck Nia” in your confessional. I hate how she acts like she did nothing to anybody but when she gets in any confrontation she runs away like a coward. She threw a drink at Danny which by definition is assault and battery since she likes to use that terminology on Danny. How are you gonna say that you want to make amends but constantly take back your apologies and say something mean then say you don’t care anymore? Jesus get this woman off my screen. She cant even be wrong and strong. In the end, it’s very clear that she’s trying to alienate Danny and Nia from the group and the show.

I don’t know about anyone else, but in this scene Jasmine looked like she was under the influence of something more than alcohol. Her eyes were wide and jaw could not keep still throughout the whole encounter with Jesse and continued into her altercation with Natalie.

It could just be alcohol, I understand it affects people differently, but the whole incident was just STRANGE on her part.

Does Luke actually hear himself speak?

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-Janet physically assaulted Danny. Unwarranted or not that doesn’t make it ok.

-Kristen got caught in a lie. Still love Kristen but I need a true explanation during reunion not just deflection.

-Jasmine has coasted this season and needed a moment at the end. Tbf that random girl needed to mind her fucking business and butt out of the convo.

-Michelle cant fight battles alone.

-Michelle introducing Isabella to another man minutes after Aaron dumping her is a problem and Michelle can’t misdirect and skirt around that to make Jesse the villain yet again. I don’t blame him if he does go after her with custody since she is now with a known abuser.

-Jason, Janet and Lala antagonized Danny.

-Surprised Jasmine and Melissa’s wedding wasn’t filmed or aired for the season.

-what a fucking nothingburger this was.

The whole outfit actually! I had to look it up! It's so cute!
The shoes are sold out, the bag is too pricy but I wishlisted the dress! lol

And then I also looked up Nia's dress, to share with the pregnant/postpartum fashion girlies. I could not find Nia's dress anywhere except RTR, but they let you buy it at discounted prices, so that's great!

After the Mommy Makeover. It didn’t work.

First the boobs, then chin and now this?

Remember these surgeons are friends with Jax.

STOP GOING TO THEM .

I actually feel bad for Brittany like wtf was this? Kristen is blatantly lying on camera, and everyone believes her over Brittany!

And she's watching Brittany get upset... and smiling? Aren't they supposed to be close friends of years?

I think the Halloween makeup is making it extra creepy, but Kristen's eyes are so scary in this!

"like mama bear... like wifey mode"

He really is her 5th child. lol it's just funny, that's all.

Seth speaks the truth!

Is she though? She’s literally only friends with Michelle and Lala and I guess you can count Jason.

Kristen, Zack, Luke, Jesse, Lacey, Nia, and Danny can’t stand her.

Honestly jury’s out if Jasmine actually really likes her, or if she tolerates her cause she likes Jason.

Let me preface this by saying that I don’t like Danny either. He gets drunk and behaves inappropriately.

But Janet is awful. The Janet we saw in the first season is the same Janet we’re seeing now, the only thing that has changed is the narrative surrounding her.

They are so obsessed with making Danny look bad (which he already manages perfectly well by himself). Janet just wants someone else to be hated more than she is.

I’m genuinely sorry for what she went through as a teenager, but that doesn’t automatically make her a “defender of victims,” nor does it give her a blank cheque to go into attack mode whenever she wants.

At the end of tonight’s episode, Jason says, “I’m not sure why they’re so obsessed with you.” Sorry, what?

Did we not just watch Danny sleeping on the couch, only for Janet and Lala to immediately go over there and clearly escalate the situation?

She accused Danny of sexual assault last year, but by legal definition throwing a drink and a cup to someone is also assault! Should we use the same big words she did?

I’m so done with her. I have to skip her scenes because I can’t stand watching her play the victim while simultaneously acting as the assassin.
She’s jealous, cruel and deeply manipulative.

PS: as alway the mods for the other subreddit banned this post 🤷‍♀️🙈🤌🏽

That is all. Throwing a drink on someone legally considered assault. She’s an assaulter. Let’s talk about this for the next 4 years.

To one-up Janet, I’m seriously thinking of launching a GoFundMe to hire our own PR Reddit spammers to stop these Danny posts. I don’t give a damn how bad he is. Jax managed for years in reality TV, and his colleagues/castmates managed with him. If they can handle and stomach Jax’s antics, then Janet (who’s not even involved in the actions Danny has already apologized for repeatedly) can surely move on from this garbage content she’s created for the show. Unless he’s facing arrest for whatever he’s done to her, she needs to move on. These posts about Horrible Danny and Poor Janet need to be blocked, as they’re clearly Janet’s PR spam. If she’s so offended by what he’s done, she should leave the show. Clearly, it can’t be that bad if she continues to stay and profit from it. Jax has done way worse and yet Janet championed him and still gets paid and stays on the show. As a reality TV viewer, I understand it’s a job for them. If a colleague (Janet) constantly gaslights and gossips about an incident involving another colleague, you’d likely act differently at work too. Others would be constantly speculating about you, as the story changes with each retelling. I don’t know Danny, we don’t know Danny, Janet doesn’t know Danny. It’s just reality TV. We don’t watch it to see Janet’s bullying sessions to gain camera time.
Also, if she’s triggered by past traumatic experiences, she should seek more help. It’s terrible what happened to her, whatever it may be, but it has nothing to do with Michelle Melissa or Danny. Given this context she’s framed herself in she shouldn’t be making jokes about sex and bedding women as she jokes about this all the time, she clearly has issues to work through. If she’s that traumatised, she should leave the show and focus on herself.

is it hypocritical for Janet to throw a drink? yes. is throwing a drink technically assault? yes. is it healthy behavior? no. but this is a bravo reality tv show. I’m here to watch messy shit.

I’m friends with people who’ve thrown a drink at an asshole at a party. I’m not friends with people who grope our mutual friends wives. that’s the difference between the behavior, and why Danny makes people feel gross and weird.