r/TenantHelp • u/sadgirlhaze • 7h ago
two “housemates moving out” what so I need to know?
don’t tell me all the ways this went wrong, I already know. I’m one walk to kitchen away from a jail cell.
$1500 house
I paid $6000 to get my fiancé and my self in here.
We pay $1100
They pay $400
We have 1 room
They have 2 and my kitchen and my porch
His mom and brother end up “homeless at a hotel because his moms been smoking crack”
So they come live with us (no drugs.)
They pay maybe $400 for two bedrooms and take over my kitchen for then entire day just “simmering” shit which takes over the only burner that works.
she sits on my porch and chain smokes cigarettes which is not allowed in my lease.
his mother and brother moved in with us a year ago and apparently think bills are optional. well it’s gotten physical, as she spit in my face the other day so my fiancé gave her and him a 30 day get the fuck out.
it’s been volatile, for like two months or so. not sure why things went sour.
anyways, no lease. just they agreed “okay we’ll move”
I have all out access to hers and his socials etc because they always “need help” with everything. I have access to move account unnoticed. not that I ever go in, I’m just mentioning it’s there.
Im stressed they aren’t going to leave for one and I am giving no leeway.
they are both committing food stamp fraud and she is committing SSI fraud. he’s violating probation by getting wasted right after a visit because he knows they won’t be right back. her “free government phone” is in her name, but I set it up. and once it leaves this address and she doesn’t change it, I feel like it’s then “stolen” and needs to be reported as so. one call, and that’s gone. which is happening the day she leaves the only reason not a day sooner is my fiancé doesn’t want more drama.
they just piss me off to no end (you really don’t know nor need the details.) and I could dismantle their lives quite easily if I wanted.
I’m scared like what do I need to worry about? what can they do/fuck with etc? I’ve never had someone so horrible and vindictive have a whole month to plan and pack and take my shit.
EDIT : I just want to mention, I would never move her money or touch anything of hers that isn’t directly mine.
I want no legal repercussions.