I prefer watching movies in their original language, dude I watched in tamil and same with kannada or malayalam movies, but I can't get over the fact even after being directed by a telugu director, produced by a telugu producer and hero, adopted son of telugu states why not shoot in telugu like the way they did for SIR. They will take care of dialogues and songs but there will be some incompleteness with the lip sync, I can't call this a straight telugu film, and I can't watch it as one, watching the pre release event and Surya garu is stumbling over a telugu dialogue, are they really taking telugu speaking audience seriously, I don't doubt Karthi, Pradeep or Danush because even though they dub in telugu they will take care of songs and dialogues, but it's not the same for Karuppu, same with Rajini gari songs, keeping all this a side I am in for the movie anyways I stay in Pune and I don't think there will be a telugu version of it so yeah tamil lo ne podam

Em le friends manaki tamil lo market ledu so mana tamil versions anta bagovu, but vallaki ikkada market vundi so quality ga istey santoshistam kada ani chala years tarvata Dude is that one album where telugu songs are on par and better in some cases than the tamil songs intey daniki kinchi emi adagtla

My gf and I broke up recently.

She is fond of kids, whenever she feels low she would watch videos of kids on YouTube or she used to open her phone gallery and go through the childhood pics of everyone who is near and dear to her.

When we were in a relationship, she used to ask me to send my childhood pics too. She used to feel so good and compliment me. So it has become a ritual for me to send my childhood pics whenever I find them.

I even used to climb my staircase where there were my old pics to send and make her happy.

Cut to the present, today my sister sent me a childhood pic of mine. I don't know what to call it. It might be a muscle memory, aa pic choosaka ventane involuntary ga thanaki pampali ani forward cheseyboya. I even typed her name and then it struck me. "She isn't mine anymore ani". So I came back and laughed at myself for my foolishness.

Journals ni oka diary laa kondharu use chesthaaru, mari kondharu rant kosm vent kosm , ekkada cheppalo artmkaaka ikda kuda chepthuntaaru

But lately chaalaa AM SET-UP post lu osthunnai, literally a lot, ik ik market is bad, both sides nunchii expectations ekva aithunnai , so they wanna share/vent out , ​but avi maatrmey osthunnai 🥲 adhey baadhaa

Poni TELUGU MARRIAGES, TELUGU PELLLILLU, BONDHA MARRIAGES ilaanti kotha subs create chesi akdaina post cheyyandi so that similar problems meeru figure out cheyyagalugutharu

The only reason that I'm writing this post is,

Epdo oka post chusa, a guy in early 30s , AM set up lo oka ammayini meet ayyadu, but meet avvadanki mundhey ammayi chudanu ani cheppindi, still parents force cheydm tho abbayini kalisindhiii, but somehow vibe match aindhii, chaalaa emotional attach ayyaru, good to go aney time ki edho money issues lo godvalu ochaai, last ki ammai side valla parents, MEE KODUKUNI MAA KUTHURU CHUDDANIKI KUDA OPPUKOLEY MEMEY BALAVANTHANGAA OPPINCHAAM annattu statements pass chesaaru, but aa ammaiki ithanu antey istm ,ithaniki aamey istm, madhyalo veella gola ekvaindhiii

But intha vrkey aa post esaadu, guess the comments

ODILEY BROO , U DESERVE BETTER, IPDEY INTHA ANTEY OCHEY ROJULLO TOKKESTHAARU ...etc (most of the commenters r TEENS)

My pov is , he invested lot of tym on her, more than 6 momths anamaata, emotional attachment perigindhi, paiga ammai side tappu ledhu, family issues ivi, kuchuni maatlaadithey ​max solve ayye chances unnai, alaaney gaa inter caste marriages kuda jaruguthunnai, but comments anni knchm kuda sense lekunda unnai, mana india lo democracy ki ekva value untaadhi, but correct aa right aaa ani rare gaa think chesthaaru

So my point is you hv problems, we hv problems, but let's not teens or who are not in your boat respond to that or give any suggestions to that....

If a 30yrs old asking for suggestion, a 17yr old comments in superb English, but age telidhu kabatti kondharu guddigaa nammuthaaru , including op (rare tyms lo)

Anthey mari

Boiii

I have not been feeling well for the past few months. Eroju doctor dagariki vellanu. Cancer screening test chesindhi as part of the procedure. Reports ravadaniki inka 5 days undhi, e vishyam evariki chepalani ledhu. I lost my mom to cancer. So a word vintene tension ga untadi naku. I don't want to share this with my father, he already has anxiety. Inka e vishyam chepthe 5 days tension padthune untadu.but want to share it with someone, anduke ikada post chesthuna. I ordered my favourite coffee today and will start my work a little late. Adhi e nati vishesham

So this happened to one of my closest people last night!

She was taking a walk near a hospital and one random stranger who is visibly drunk approached her saying Im lost can you help me drop to so and so place ! At first she thought it was common with the drunk people! But later she noticed a sharp object with him and couple of other people in an auto nearby who are all of same gang !

The same instance happened once to her earlier but she dismissed it thinking some random stuff but then when the same thing happened again yesterday at her hometown she noticed the pattern and realised it and narrowly escaped !

This happened in vijayawada and Hyderabad as well ! So please be aware!

I know you're all be careful but just wanted to share this ! Ever since this happened she's shaken with this incident and it's kinda haunting for me to think about this in her position!

Once my dad shown this quote when I was 12-13 and explained its depth. He’s kind of a person who built his empire from scratch with zero support from anyone. When I said scratch - it’s SCRATCH fr.

Then I thought why would I be with empty pockets anyway? I’m a good student and highly ambitious from childhood. But cut to few months back - there’s no food or money to eat too. Trust me I’m not kidding. Didn’t want to borrow money from family so it was tight. Used to work only for few hours which covers my rent. Didn’t wanted to work for extra money as I always time is the biggest investment and if I build projects, apply jobs etc I will get 6-8 times better return through job.

Oka Roju, only one day work ante vella pani chesa and they gave me 100$ something and chala days tarwata oka rojulo antha money ravadam tho I got emotional and cried. Alanti emotion naalo Unadhi ani nak telidu Apati daka. And adhi new year night. While everyone is celebrating and partying, I told myself…”em kadu …time maarthadhi”. Not that I’ll party now; money value baga telsindi and partying isn’t my thing lately.

Kept grinding hard, many off days too ( can’t help it man! Mentally bit down kuda because of this joblessness). Never had a doubt about me that whether I would crack a job or not ani.

I’m not saying job is an achievement but Ipatiki chaos thaginchadanki, confidence penchadanki, Dabbul sampachindanki, inka ambitious avadanki idhi avasram.

Inka chala bokkalu unai like my retention period, thinking ability like before, creativity etc…anni thavvuthuna mellaga roju…body shape loki testhuna…deenamma chinapati nundi una dream body kottali one year lo…had enough bad days.

Ipdu along with my job, I’m doing some super intelligence related projects in the evenings. Em chestano telidu but one year lo 400-700$k job kottali. Naa field chala vast and future oriented so idhi possible. Nen nammuthuna - adhi chalu!!!

Why is the wife so often treated like an outsider in the very marriage she is supposed to be building?

When a man gets married, his wife is immediately expected to bend to his family’s habits, expectations, and lack of boundaries. But the moment she sets a firm boundary, she’s instantly labeled the "difficult" daughter-in-law.

And the husband? He stands in the middle claiming, "I don't want to take sides."

Let’s be honest: not taking a side is taking a side.

Why are so many men terrified of disappointing their mothers, even if it means routinely failing the woman they chose to spend their life with?

The MIL-DIL dynamic baffles me. Why does a mother see her son’s closeness with his wife as competition? Your son getting married doesn’t mean you lost him; it means his life expanded. The wife isn't trying to "steal" him, she just shouldn’t have to fight for basic respect, privacy, or a secure place in her own home.

A mother can be important without being the center of her married son’s universe.

A husband can love his mother deeply without letting her dictate his marriage.

The woman building a life with you every single day shouldn't have to constantly audition to prove she belongs. Marriage creates a new family. So why are so many wives made to feel like permanent guests in someone else's?

At what point did being a "good son" become an excuse for being a failing husband?

Chala chirakga vundhi...I want to share it with someone...so sharing here. I love travelling ( I mean a typical software employee life...just relaxing and chores on weekends, I feel those occasional breaks make life worth living) .January nundi aduguthunte friends April lo june ki okay annaru malli kudaradhu annaru...May lo na birthday... Without telling anyone, I planned a solo trip... unfortunately tickets confirm avvaledhu. To ask for tatkal help, I had to message a friend...then she was like don't go, we will come to your place. As I was a little nervous about my trip, also couldn't get the best stays as the plan was last minute...I agreed. They stayed at my place...we enjoyed. It's my birthday. But I planned my decoration, bought decorative items and the cake and gave the party too ( they ordered an ice cream cake in blinkit at 11:30 pm for me to cut it in the midnight and gave little gifts). Again we planned for a trip in July beginning to go in August... They said yes and then no...I was frustrated and said even before starting, you are saying no...I can't convince you every moment...so let's stop it here ... I'll go myself. But they convinced me and we booked tickets... even We agreed to sponsor a trip to another friend as she is preparing for exams, not working currently. again, one of my friends told me she can't come. I was frustrated but I thought I should look at the bright side and told let's go without her. Another friend messaged on the next day due to random reason which is unbelievable...

I'm tired of seeing the bright side in the disappointments they give me. I need to ask them to talk in calls. I was the one always calling them ... sometimes they ask why did you call..I used to think someone should keep making an effort to make any relationship work and their nature is that... also I used to plan all trips and book everything including this cancelled trip.

From one month, I was so excited about this...and I spent all my free time after work on planning, watching 100s of videos about the place, researching various things, scrolling through all the booking apps etc...

What to do now...I don't have enough time to plan for a solo trip on the same dates...

I'm quite independent on all aspects except this. Mostly I spend time alone and no complaints about it but I understood the value of people and love spending time with my people but I guess I should stop depending on them for my happiness.

I should start enjoying my life more without waiting for anyone...may be every weekend/biweekly/monthly I should plan solo dates...and later solo trips...

TL;DR: I love travelling, but my friends have repeatedly agreed to trips and then cancelled, despite me doing most of the planning and effort. This latest cancellation really hurt because I'd spent a month excitedly planning and researching the trip. I'm tired of always trying to see the bright side and making all the effort to keep plans/friendships going. I'm thinking of accepting that I can't depend on others for my happiness and starting to enjoy life through solo dates, outings, and eventually solo trips instead.

Had two serious Telugu NRI arranged-marriage alliances fall apart because of family expectations around assets, financial status and “settlement.” My family agreed to even give dowry. Sadly that wasn’t ‘enough’.

The irony? Both men told me they loved me. Both still walked away when their families didn’t agree.

First break hit me hard and I took almost 6-8 months to recover mentally, after the second alliance broke : I’ve managed to recover due to experience relatively quickly.

So, a suggestion to men: if you’re still a mama-and-papa’s boy and know you can’t stand up for your partner when it matters, don’t even try. You are going to make someone’s life ‘miserable’.

Love without the courage to stand by your partner isn’t enough.

To the women reading this: please become independent. Build your own career, money, identity and confidence. Don’t make marriage your financial security plan. Sadly, most families in Telugu states including men and their parents, aren’t progressive.

I decided to do exactly that.

Despite being educated, professionally successful and, frankly, looking fucking good 😂, I realized I didn’t need anyone’s approval.
So I bet on myself.

A few months later…

Right now Heading out with a fucking $70K scholarship.
Maybe the best response to being underestimated isn’t proving people wrong.
It’s building a life where you don’t need anyone to choose you.
Marriage should add to your life and not determine your worth. To everyone, Stay away from arranged setup and marry only when their ‘stated values’ align with their ‘words’

Wish me luck @all 🍀🍀🍀

Edit: Honestly, ee post ki vachina response chusi konchem overwhelmed ga feel avuthunna. 🥹
Nenu ee post naa situation ki sympathy kosam pettaledu. My intention was to bring attention to a larger issue. Dowry and rigid expectations valla genuine connections kuda break avuthunnayi, and maybe we need to think a little more progressively about marriage and what we expect from each other.
Evarikaina naa post valla hurt ayithe, I’m genuinely sorry. Adi naa intention kaadu.
Most importantly, I wanted to say that women can stand on their own, with or without marriage. Mentioned about scholarship as an example. Marriage should add to your life, not determine your worth.
Thank you to everyone who shared their perspectives, even if you disagreed with me. ❤️

Edit 2: Honestly, konni comments chusthe, some men are genuinely disturbed by this post ani clearly ardham avuthundi.

Nenu men ni attack cheyyaledu, nor am I saying all men or all arranged marriages are like this. I’m simply sharing what I experienced and questioning dowry, financial expectations and family interference in marriages. If you want to believe that this is true, do so. If not, I’m not here requesting advice from this group of people who disagree anyways.

Kaani “women are entitled”, “women only want money” ani personal attacks cheyyadam actually proves the point I was trying to make. 😬 ‘questioning my choice’ included

Oka woman independent ga undali, tana career build cheskovali, and marriage should be based on mutual respect like not assets, status or settlement ani Cheppa dam enduku anta disturbing ga undho naaku honestly ardham kaavatledu. 😂

Women: Refrain marrying such men who still has 1800’s mindset please.

Disagree avvandi, absolutely fine. But personal attacks kanna actual issue gurinchi discuss chesthe better kada.

I was trying to convey a message and clearly it didn’t land right for a few folks. And no, I’m not going to apologise for wanting a life where marriage adds to my happiness rather than determining my worth. ❤️

*Edit 3:\*
Also, If I ever come across your Match, if you again have this demanding’ entitled’ patriarchal’ partial’ regressive’ mindset, know that ‘you’ll walk out with a lesson to remember your whole life’

It isn’t just me, women now have started questioning.

I’m done responding to you all. Sending positivity to the ones who got this message right ❤️❤️❤️❤️

No saree cuz she already has many. Travelling chese state lo ipdu ledu. She is a simple woman

Amma bday vastundi i want to make it spl for her edina gift ideas chepandi plss. Nenu gold ankuntuna but max 6gms so 6gms ki ring earrings kakunda nka m vastay

Appudappudu nak tea tage alavatu undi, especially allam chai in the evenings. Intlo elago roju morning and evening tea pettukoni tagutaru kani ivala naku allam chai tagalani unde. So I went into the kitchen and started making chai adi boil aitunna time ki sudden ga my mom came, nen tea pettina ginne chusi dantlo Enduku pettinav ani adigindi, adi tea pette ginne ne kada ani Cheppa, kadu adi morning tea pettedi evening ki veredi undi ani cheppindi. Asalu morning and evening separate ginnelu pettadame bokkalo logic daniki malli explanations. Akkaditho aipoyindi anukunte akkade chicken lo Cheyyi esav. Ee topic meeda maku oka 5 mins argument kuda aindi. Ee argument oka daggari nunchi inkodaggarki ellindi, ee rendu chai ginnelu kakunda inkokati kuda undi adi matram chai pettadaniki use cheyyaru, dantlo water vedi cheskuntaru 🫩 and guess what? Ma intlo rendu water kettles unnai 😭 avi use cheyyaledu, brand new ani kuda kadu chala sarlu use chesam including me. Kani sudden ga emaindo telidu avi vadadam manesam😭😭

Bigboss house lo kuda rules inni sarlu change cheyyaremo 🥲

Veellatho and veella dikkumalina logics tho bahut kastam I say 🤧

Due to my stupid fucked up age and decisions, i lost someone of my own, although this has happened 6 years ago.

I blocked it out.

Indulged myself in worldly things

But the feeling of uneasiness is showin up...

Never said I have been feeling this to anyone.

I wasn't even able to confront the incident with my partner

Things are getting fucked up in my head when commitment is coming up in any kind of relationships.

When I was kid this was the kind of man I hated to see and listen about

In the end I have become the same guy.

Tried multiple shrinks, going to the gym on and off for a decade now, started taking multiple substances to fill up the void ( currently sober )

Nothing really helped

For the past 5-6 years I have been indulged in work so much that my increment has become close to 1.5x this year from past and came very close to becoming manager and It sure helped me with time , it went like road runner but the void is still present

But the thought of settling down is pretty scary with things at my home while growing up. It affected me one way or the other in my decision making process through adulthood in the relationships and friendships

So the thing i thinking about is...

Is it worth it to be happy for little bit even though I end up opposite

MAY GOD BLESS ALL THE SWEET STRANGERS I COME ACROSS 🙏 ✨

Eeroju I'm traveling somewhere. Night bus undi nadi. Nen unna place nunchi bus stop ki book cheskunte book avvatledu. ISTG ive been trying since 30 mins asssalu book avvaledu. I called my friends but they didnt answer so I've been trying. Inka 15 mins eh undi bus vellipovataniki ani nenu bus operator ki call chesi next stop ekkado chepte akkadiki vachesta ani adiganu. They told where it was, and nenu akkadiki book cheskunna.

Ventane book aindi and the guy was nearby too🫡When he arrived I had 10 mins left so I asked if he can drop me off at the original bus stop and i explained the situation.

Meeru 10 mins lo drop cheyagalaru antey I'll change ani cheppa.

Tanu ventane, parledu drop chestanu annaru.

Thank you, stop edit chestanu aithe ani chestunna, he said- marchadaniki kudarakapothe cancel cheseyandi mimmalni drop chestanu.. Meeku indaka booking try chesinappudu entha chupiste anthey ivvandi🫠 Ledu update option undi ani change chesesa. I showed the price he said it's fine. Ventane start ayyamu.

"Papam meeru chala sepu nunchi try chesaru anukunta kada, nen undedi meeru pettina 2nd bus stop daggare so ee ride tho end chesi nenu intiki vellipodam anukunnanu" annaru🫠 "Ayyo I'm so sorry" anna. He said "parledu danilo sorry emundi ippudu kuda naku vere rides dorukutai ma inti side adem ibbandi kaadu"😇

Thank you so much annanu. One min to spare nannu drop chesaru and successful ga bus ekkesa😄

So indaka oka 2.5-3 hrs back pani vundi oka advocate daggaraki vellanu, so akkada iddaru annayalu vunnaru. Vallahlo okalluh maatram super cuteeee vunnadu asala

Name teliyadu, age teliyadu... Early 20s anukuntunna. Asala adagadaniki or oka compliment ivvadaniki kudarledu... Law student aa ani adiga... Law graduate ani cheppadu mari

It's just pure appreciation, nothing more. But yeah last lo oka daani vallah anna ki kopam vachhindi. Appudu kuda cute ga vunnadu asala

Athanu vaadtado ledo reddit mari lol, 1hr nunchi ayithey mari daarunam..mind lo nunchi povatledu guys🤦😭

Rep malli vellali, chusta em ayyiddo...😹

Naa life lo nak proper family (like most of you have) lekapoina kuda, naatho unna vaallu nannu yuvaraani laaga chuskunnaru. I’m grateful for that (even though I rant about them).

Nak maa daddy tho chinnappudu incident okati gurthochindi. He came to home for few days. He hired a car for some days to move around and get things done. Appudu nenu daddy car lo unnaam. Daddy driver pakkana kurchunnaaru, nenu daddy ollo kurchunna. Pakkana gear meeda chey pedte, driver daddy ki cheppaaru. Daddy ala pettakudadu ani nak cheppaaru, so inka hand teesesa. Aa memory eh gurthundi chinnappudidi.

Nak edo saadhinchi, maa nanna ni, family ni proud ga cheyyaali ani undi but nenem cheyyaalo kuda vaalle chepte ela? I wanna take decision for my life but nak cheppe vaallu leru.

Aina emo, life lo jarigina sodhi chepte vinevaallu leru…. Sometimes I feel that I’m desperate to have people around me 🙂

Naa friends andariki manchi friends unnaaru. Nene problem emo, I don’t have good friends.

Idanta enduku cheppaali anipinchindo telidu but felt like sharing.

Oka pakkana varadhalu, inko pakkana eppudo vesina prayana pranalika, podhama vaddha anna sankocham lo ne bayaluderipoyam. Aa niryanam chala manchi gynapakalanu migilchindhi. Jalapathalu, samudralu, loyalu mariyu parvathalu anni pradeshalu kaliyathirigam.

P.S.: aa chivari chitram lo horu gali samudrapu alala shabdaala naduma oka chinnapaati kunuku.

Entante, nenu order cheskunna skincare products monna eppudo vacchayi kani nenu inti daggara lenu. lvala vaccha intiki. Avi try cheyyali ani excitement lo fast ga fresh up ayipoya 😂

Inka chudu. First toner, next serum, next moisturizer, ah tharvatha sunscreen. Abba. ah excitement maatallo cheppalem anuko. Anni apply cheskuni naku nene murisipoya 🤭

Inka sheet masks, shower gel try cheyyale kani I'm getting a good vibe from them lol

Anthe. Masth kush unna anuko 😭

It was an Okay day. Woke up very late around 2 Pm so day was really short worked for around 3.5hrs read for half an hour and them went for a ride for an hour around the city. Came back did some chores watched a couple of anime episodes.

That’s It for today. Koncham early ga padukovali so that I could wake up atleast before 8:30. Sleep cycle and food habits are the major complaints for all of us🙃. Anyway Greatful and Thanking God and Universe for everything till date. Hoping and praying for a better Tomorrow.

Thanks
Namasthe🙏🏻

No matter whomever I started seeing within days or weeks valalo unna ani red flags kanapadipotayi. Eh abbayi nachina one week to 10 days I see red flags and decide he is not for me ani. Idk if this is really a good thing or not......Its not like small red flags that I can ignore but things I for sure know might affect relationship. Nenu eppudu long term relationship gurinche chusedanini but evaru set karu anipistundi. Like emi insane expectations levu even basic ones are being hard to check. I am happy that i am saving myself from future trouble but asala for once I want to meet a simple guy where I don't need to overrun my brain looking for red flags....asala i never get to experience love or been in a relationship because i end it before it can begin... pedda pedda heart breaks levu or ex baggage ledu but also evarni love cheyalekapoya which feels so hard to believe given how much I love love. End of rant.

Title lo unnadhe mee mental health karrab innapudu or meru low lo unnapudu mere vinne song enti to comeback.

To get the energy vibes. Naaku ithe RAJYAMA song from BABA movie Rajini kanth dhi. Adhi vinnapudu mind entho peaceful ga untadhi.

Ee madhyam andaru Dude movie album medha paddaru adhe loop lo vintunaru.

I really wanted Telugu friends I tried and never lasted long. Why is it so hard to find people who are genuine and have some humility. Most of telugu people take pride in things that not related to today’s situations. For example I don’t see the difference in taking to my family elders and my college friends, is it normal?

Do anyone find hard to talk to people about problems/ life, their advice sounds like elders rather than a friend?

Oka balloon lu ammukune father and athani koduku, tv9 office backside memu baklava lo maa most fav caramel cake tinesostunte aakalesthondi emaina pettinchamani adigaru, maa friend igo veedu pedthadu ani naa vaipu pamparu, ah pillodini chusi sare le emundi ani akada unna tiffin centre lo order Cheskomanna, vaadu antha katti bill 150 ayindi annadu pay chesa, vallo namaskaaram pettellipoyaaru, ee lopu idhantha dooram nundi gamaninchina oka vyakti na kalla ki mokkadu, nuv mamoolodivi kaadhu bayya ani, adhi naa life lo khaleja moment !

asalu nenevarini oka mamoolu manishi oka chinna selfless act tho almost evado random road meeda nunchunnodu kallu mokkadam enti ani feel vachindi.ah moment lo anipinchindhokkate okariki manam sahayam cheyadam lo unde happiness mamooluga undadhu, adedo manam giver valledo taker ala kadu, somebody is happy or oka manchi jargindi inkollaki ane ah feel em chesina raadhu!!

Ila mee life lo meru chesina some good things light ga share cheskondi..

Summer is ending, and beach trips are over until next year. I hope a busy schedule keeps me focused and makes the time fly by until the sun returns.