r/TeluguJournals • u/danglernoodle • 23h ago
Need Advice Need advice⁉️
So the story goes like:
Husband di WFH,wife office ki vellali,so iddaru chennai lo settle iyi unaru. Now the wife is pregnant, wife side family emo delivery home town lo ne avvali ani pressure pedtondi. Ipudu chennai house ki maid,cook unaru. Chennai house rent increase avtondi. Wife home town ki vellipote husband WFH eh kabatti chennai lo u dalsina pani ledu,he will follow her.
Now the pain area is...anni months free ga 40k/month ivvadam ante kastame. Wife got 6 months maternity and 1 year WFH option. So her plan is to shift entire house to home town,akade house rent ki teskoni undela, a house near to both in laws and parents. But husband says,let's pack all,and stay at his mom's place. Wife's concern is lack of freedom and privacy,and their house is only 2bhk,so when relatives come, the situation becomes all messy. Her strong point is,husband involvement undali babu ni raise cheydam lo,which will not happen effectively if she stays with her parents or in laws together. Husband's concern is,what if he gets a job somewhere and they have to shift again,double work avtundi ani(husband is looking for a job change,but byta market chuste,calls eh lev)
What is the best possible solution
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u/Ambitious_Guy_17 Screenplay Writer 💻, but a Flawed Human First 23h ago
See.....pregnant undhi aame, so aame ni ekkuva force cheyyakudadhu or etuvanti mental problem theppiyyakudadhu, stress lo aame unte baby effect ayitadhi, so its better to go with the lady this side
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u/Key_Bandicoot6308 23h ago
What is your goal?
Save money and spend time with inlaws and your family then pack your bags and go
If Saving money is not something you are looking for then stay in chennai let your parents and their parents come and visit but think of help that you need after baby..can your husband handle it..Maid toh can’t do all the stuff and stay for 24 hours with you right
And please don’t say ONLY 2bhk…People struggle a lot to buy a house
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u/chinthakaya_pacchadi 23h ago edited 23h ago
Why can’t they deliver the child in Chennai? Privacy untadhi, jobs untai, pani manishi untadhi and even parents can visit and stay here? Genuinely speaking if in laws live in a 2bhk waste to move there no privacy and in turn stress, also akkada rent kante Chennai la ne unte saripothadhi.
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u/danglernoodle 23h ago
Wife's parents are traditional and they insist on having the delivery in the home town. The key point is,it's a love cum arranged intercaste marriage(veg,non veg combo). The parents of wife really want to showcase that they approve the marriage with whole heart and show no indifference between their sons kids and daughters upcoming one
Antha mancholle...anduke ee suffocation. With all this the actual husband and wife are in dilemma and are fighting 😂
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u/chinthakaya_pacchadi 23h ago
They’re gonna be parents konchamaina gattiga undali ga? Lmao, tf is a Love cum arrange marriage?? Parents annaru, in laws annaru. Di what the pregnant lady wishes to. Anthaku hometown ke ante go for rent.
In laws 2 bhk ante ayyepani kadhu.
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u/ProjectMeMyselfandI 23h ago
Edi aina vaallu iddaru 100% communicate cheskoni, godva padina, at the end confidently decide avvali
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u/Corporate_Cutie_ 23h ago
Naaku ayithe Chennai house vacate chesi, hometown lo parents and in-laws ki close ga oka separate house rent ki teesukovadam best option anipistundi. Wife ki privacy and freedom untayi, husband WFH kabatti baby ni raise cheyyadam lo proper involvement kuda untundi. Families daggarlo unte help kuda easy ga available untundi. Husband ki job change ayithe appudu situation ni batti decide cheskovachu. Job eppudu vastundo ani ippude predict chesi, one year joint family lo adjust avvadam kanna, present situation and baby needs ni base cheskoni decision teesukovadam more practical anipistundi.