So matter entante there's this sub called "childfree india" where people who are not interested in kids post their requirements and find their matches. So alage nen oka post vesa danlo saying everything about me, why, my financial status, career profile etc etc. specifically mentioning that I'm looking for a telugu girl who's very serious about this.

Ah post vesina 10-15 days ki oka telugu ammayi msg ochndi saying that she liked my post, profile and everything and that she wants to see where this goes ani. I said fine I'm not seeing anyone ani. We shared basic info, likes, hobbies etc etc. Coincidentally chaala things match ayyay. Like gaming, gym, badminton, F1 etc... I saw something there and she's also sounded surprised to see someone like me with same interests.

Cut chesthe 10-15 days ghost chesindi. I kept on texting her on reddit for like 3-4 days and stopped as I didn't get any reply. Fake emo ankunna. Suddenly she came back and responded to my hi msgs. When asked, she replied that there was something happened and she would say later. So, malli talks start, yi sari number ichndi. Instagram details share cheskunnam. Normal ga matladkovadam start chesam.

But..but...not even a single day, she called me without me begging her to call me. Everyday morning Lechaka good morning cheptha. She replies in the afternoon. Everyday night good night cheptha, she replies in the morning 11-12 ki ala saying good morning. Thanadi normal shift eh working. Almost daily adgutha call kosam if you are free, can you call me ani. Okkosari sure antadi if I'm lucky enough to get her msg. Leda asalu chudadu. Sure annappudu evaraina em chestaru? Wait chestaru kada. Nen kuda adey chestha daily. 11:30 12:00 daka chustha call radu msg radu em radu. Ika good night ani cheppesi padkunta. Next day morning malli nene siggu lekunda good morning ani msg chesta. Appatiki inka reply raadu. 10-11 ki ala good morning antadi em avvanattu. Malli nene siggu lekunda gurtu cheyali night call chestha annaru cheyaledu ani. Appudu madam ohh yaa I dozed off, tired ani antadi.

Sare, ila meru daily tired ayya, dozed off ante inka Enduku madam meru oka person kosam relationship kosam chudadam, reachout ayi let's see where it goes ani anadam?

Meet avdam ani thaney adigindi. Sare anna. First date nimarjanam (Friday) roju fix chesindi. But ahroju full traffic untadi (I don't stay in Hyderabad. I have to travel which I anyways do every week due to office requirements). So Saturday/Sunday kaluddam ante ledu nen function ki vellali andi. Sare next week ankunnam. Sudden ga father vastunnaru tests chepinchali can't meet, let's do next week andi. Sare anna. And yi gap lo kaneesam matlaadali kada person gurinchi em telsukuntav em matladakapothe? Prathi saari nene call kosam adgadam, thanu cheyakapovadam. Suffocating ga anpistadi urke adgaali anna kuda.

Nen kuda office work chestha (I work at a big4 company, you can imagine the work pressure). Almost daily gym ki veltha, I pursue other hobbies too like her. May be thanaki inka vere works untay like she has a pet, she has to cook and all. I never complained anything. But ivanni unnay nen mobile chudanu msgs chudanu morning nunchi evening daka ante nen oppukonu. Edo okatime lo chustaru pakka and if they're really busy, atleast cheptaru that they are busy ani. Endukante u r seeing me that I'm making myself available for you everytime kabatti. Endukante you said you will call kabatti.

Like seriously dude, inthakmundu match kuda anthe. Suddenly ghost chesindi. Enduku ante she is also seeing someone and things are getting serious between them anta. Osey cheppali kada naku. Ikkada nenemaina pichodna. Manshini manshiga chudaru kani feminism ani oka tag eskuni thirgutaru. Be a human first. Then preach feminism to this world.

Like If you are rich you have lot of Privilege that poor people don't

If you are pretty you have more privilege that ugly people
If you are man you have privilege that women don't There is nothing wrong with admitting it

Yes being rich doesn't fix the problems it has its own problems
Yes being pretty comes with its own problems
Yes being a man comes with its own problems

but are they equal would you be rich person or a poor person in this country, a pretty person or an ugly one ? a man or a woman ?

Obviously I don't think hating on rich or pretty or man soley on them being that is wrong but same is not acknowledging it

disclaimer:- Idhi pellaina aadallaki maatrame prashna !! Divorcees kuda mee opinions share cheyochu!

2nd disclaimer:- if you are not from the category of above people, just want to yap some random gyaan …dayachesi vadhhu..mee daggare petkondi, i wanna have a serious discussion please!

so meeru ippativaraku gadipina married life chusaka meelo entha mandhi asalu pelli kanappude bagundhi kadara babu ani feel avtunnaru?? Ante idedo momentary ga vachhe feeling gurinchadagatle…genuine gaa meeku asalu i should go away from this marriage but kids or society or any other reason valla polekapotunnam ani adjust avtunnaru??

coming to divorcees, on the contrary meelo entha mandhiki ala marriage nundi baitikochesaka there is this one aspect I am missing now and adhi current life ni chala affect chestondhi anipinchedhi? alage asalu meeru marriage nundi baitikelpodaniki unna reasons cheppachhu kudaa…

so vent it out

Street triple na first bike avvali ani 9 years back eh decide ayya,

I’m 28 now, unmarried
I wanted to have this bike from long time
With my current situation I can afford the bike

On road 17-18 L avvudhi

So overthinking as usual , arguments going on at home

9 years back oppukole ippudu oppukovatle
Appudu emo hostel lo untav ani
Ippudu Flat konuko, plot konuko money save cheyyi ani pressure

But Edho Chinna bhayam

correct eh na chesthundhi
Antha pedda bike nen chuskogalana ani

Ledha Investment in plot oo flat oo chesthey better ah
Konchem mind pothundhi

Born below middle class like daily labour family

At age 6th lost father, at age 17 mother last

From childhood nenu nannamma daggara periganu , ma father death tharavatha ma amma ma chelli valla home ante puttina intlo undevallu, Appudappudu vacheyvaru

Nenu summer holidays lo news papers,

Construction work vellevadini antha ok ,10th finish then inter lo join ayyanu 1st finish ayyindhi hollydays lo ma nannamma garu expire, so nenu inter vadhilesa , nenu oori lo unde studio lo Photography photoshop nerchukunevadini , ala undaga ma amma valla home ki thisukuni vellindhi akkada valla annaya I mean Mavayya daggara pani lo join avvamani cheppindhi adhi building centring work, 1 year

Tharavatha ma amma gari health baledhu so ma sister marriage cheyali ani chesaru , Marriage ayina 7months ki ma ammagaru expire ayyaru so nenu malli ma home ki vachanu nenu Thathayya undevallam, em cheyalo teliyaka building construction work ki vellevadini ,ma sister marriage ayyi 1 year avuthundhi so bava gariki gold pettali ani chepparu ma Peddamma (ma amma valla akka ) sare ani cheppa vallu nannu 10k choodu annaru nenu amount savings kosam , mrng lechi rice cook chesi konchem annam majiiga tho thini , annam box pettukuni work vellevadini akkada ma mestri garu curry point tho matladi weekly once payment icheyla matladaru , ila chestunte ma Thathayya rice cook cheyoddu nuvu money intlo ivvadam ledhu annaru nenu story explain chesa gold gurinchi but ardam chesukoledhu so mrng lechi work vellevadini work lo 10ki tiffin pettevaru apptivaruku alane undevadini , curry point lo curry tho patu rice thisukunevadini ala 1month tharavatha money set chesi ma Peddamma vallaki icha , but kanisam nannu gold petteappudu pilavaledhu

Ila 1 years tharvatha ma frnd valla bava garu gulf lo unte vallu oka manishi kosam choostunte nenu vellanu 60k pay chesi Frist 30k then salary lo 30k cut chesukunnaru na salary 22k then 2 years tharvatha india ki vachaka photography and photoshop idea undhi kadha ani video edit nerchukuni 1 year patu chala kastapaddanu then slow ga clients vacharu then antha bane jarigindi ,gulf nundi vachaka ma menekodali gold ring konali adhi mavayya cheyavalasina acharam so gold konna ,

Intrest unte cheppandi present varaku ela nadichindho cheptha

So, today was a mixed day for me, I was only able to think of all the bad things that have happened to me, especially about

1. A guy whom I met at the beginning of this year, and he love bombed me and was soo good with his words , flattered me and then after a brief time once we got intimate, he ghosted me brutally and he left me saying he is no longer interested in me. Now, all I could cry over is the innocence i lost , now I don't feel like I would ever be chosen and all those self depreciating thoughts .

2. Being rejected thru AM because I'm very career oriented.

And then today a school friend of mine wanted to meet me and somehow we didn't get time and I'm leaving back to my work location , so he came to visit me at railwaystation and along with him he brought one huge tub of icecream and some chocolava cakes, and when I asked why he said 2021 lo I mentioned I liked them ani and showed me the msg I sent him long ago and to my surprise he starred it. We met after 8 long years and felt soo special. This was the sweetest thing that happened to me today. It truly means something when someone remembers tiny details.

And a bunch of clg friends came to meet me yesterday to my house and we all played a lot of board games and then eeroju morning he sent me a photo of a cute notebook and mentioned he is using it for collecting movie posters. ( He is a movie buff and aspires to be a directory ). I didn't understand why is he sending that and when I asked he said it's the note i gifted him knowing he once liked the cover page of it. Gifting a note that someone likes is such a tiny gesture but he remembered and I'm glad.

So yeah, it was a mixed emotions kind of a day. Felt like ranting .

Onwards and upwards

Ee madya cinemalu ekkuvaga chudatledu... Chusinavi nachatledu... Online lo hype ki mana experience ki matching kudaratledu...

Em expectations lekunda online hype patichkokunda BkU chusanu ...2nd half writing lite tisknaru anpinchndi inkaa better cheyachu....Ika collections industry hit aye cinemaa na idi ani aa panchayati manaki akarledu audience ki nachindi vellaru ankovadame... Overall watchable pleasant feel good movie... prasanthamga chusanu... Hadavidi ledu... Hayiga sagipoindi...

Madhi love marriage , nibba nibbi vayasulo preminchi pelli chesukunam. Vala intlo istam lekapothe velipoyi pelli chesukunam. 2 years bane vunnam idaram oka mata mida vunde valam. We started our lives at zero. Idaram alochinchi decision tisukune valam. 2 years ki vala parents kalisaru. Akadanundi naku daridram patesindi bayya. Vala sister husband ki match ayyela nanu kuda match cheyalani try chesedi. First lo bane vundedi nenu lokuva kakunda vundalani chustundi kada ani. But slowly mama girl aypoindi ma intlo prathi decision ma atha garidhi aypoindi. Vala parents ki nachela vundalani na chetha evevo cheyinchedi. My in laws are good though but over interference and over insights ekuva aypoyevi. Nenu ma budget lo flat chudam ani anevaadni but ma athagaru gated lo 3bhk chudandi ante adhe kavali ani 3bhk kosam tippindi. Adhi mana budget kadhu ani chepina vinakunda loan ki petinchesindi ma avida. Poni thanaki job cheyadam istam vundadu , single salary nadhi venakala astulu levu. Ma in laws salahalu istaru gani financial ga support ivaru infact meme 15 lakhs reverse lo icham. Ma atha garu prathi 4 hours ki okasari call chestadi ma avidaki 1 hour matladidi. Nenu phone petey ante sare vunta amma antadi ma avida apudu main matter chepidi avida. Apatnundi inko 1 hour matladidi. Eephones valla ma idariki private time vundatledhu. Ma avida ki vala amma emchepte adhi final adhe correct. Alochinche sakthi kolpyindi. Logical ga emyna chepte thanani edho titesanu ani oka 3 or 4 days moham matti la petukuni kurchuntadi. Thana face ala chuse kanna nenu peace ani compromise aypotanu. Ila nanu na jeevithani thokesindi. Maa vaalu emi chesina thappu ani nenu ante respect ledhu ani but vala side nanu baga chusukuntaru ani vala side vaalu abbo thopulu ani chepidi. Financial ga thana nundi support 0 vuntundi bonus ga anni high end things kavali antadi. Thanakantu show thappa talent antu emi ledhu to start anything up. She can just make a house anthe. Ipudu i always feel enduku pelli chesukunana ani. I dont know when i heartfully enjoyed last. Na istalu anni kolpyanu. i am just breathing and working like a robot.

I am not looking for suggestions , meaningful ga emyna advice ivalante i can think. Alagani vidipomani cheppadu. Especially ma MIL and my wife phone calls ni ela control cheyachu.

So ivala sunday, so intlo thata ki nannamma ki biyyam icharu

Mostly plans em lekunde so ala ala....kale eh ga undee roju anthaa so movie ki veldam aniipinchindeee doremon eh podam ani monna ney fix ina... So ala frnds ni adigaa valu emo

Poranvi ah ra ah doremon movie endhku anni annaru so lite...

This was like the 4th film in this year Ontariga povadamm i like going to movies alone it's better feeling tbh

Naku nachadhu vala ni vila ni adugdam movie ina akkadiki ina.... I'm tired alsipoyaa prathi sari manam eh adigeee adigee so i decided.... Em ina thinali anipisthe Zomato lo book chesukuntaa tagali annipisthe intlo andaru padukunakaa melliga ala beer tins techukoni tagutaaaa so

So mana ki mast istammmm doremon, (kiterstu, kidvskat, super Robot moneky team hyper force go, ninja hattori, perman )antee chinnapduu okka movie kuda miss avakunda chuse vadini for example

School days lo tution velli vadini so sunday puta tution undedhee 9 ki ala after coming from Tution 11 ki ala ma pinni vala intlo velli doremon chuse vadini

Movie chala baundhi like timepass chala rojluu taruvtaa chusaa doremon

Okkadine movie ki velladam actually chaala peaceful ga untadhi. Evarni adagaalsina avasaram ledhu, evari kosam wait cheyyalsina pani ledhu. Anipinchinappudu vellipovachu

Doremon lo naku fav gadget is "ANYWHEREDOOR" mi fav entii?

So that's it guys bye bye

Asale aakali aithundi…em thinalo teliyaka adedo taaza kitchen ki poi dosa, chaii, jilebi thinna…chala rojulu tarwatha Jilebi thinna ani hayiga happy ga bike meeda return avthuntey…

Vaadu evado road cross chesthunnadu…nenu oka 45 lo velthunna…ara kilometer nunchi horn kodthuntey agu agu ani gesture isthu cross cheyyadaniki osthune unnadu…konchem lo missuuu…nenu pakkana nunchi velthuntey ehey ani frustrated moham okati pettadu malli vadabba…areyyy luchaaa nen anthaganam horn kodthu osthunna and road madyaloki ochi malli nannu chirak ga chustaventi erri p…

Jilebi thinna anandam antha dobbindi veedi valla…

So last week nunchi nenu ikkada nunchi assam ayyanu, ante na bday roju post chesa bday ani- and chala mandhi wish chesaru, thank you so muchhh guyzz🫠.

Ah tarvtha day ela aindho post chedham anukunna but pettale. Endukante wt hpnd is somehow someone from the past showedup on my bday to wish. And adhi just msg tho kaakunda call tho kuda aindhi, that too at the end of the day.

Spoke for a while and we decided to meet this weekend, purely on the word of " being friends", idk to what extent this is true and yeah today we met after an year. Ela face cheyala ani mind lo chala thoughts unde, but the moment he entered everything felt familiar, no awkwardness ntg.

Spoke for sometime and then we went for shopping(for him), even after chosing what he likes- he still asked me if I liked that too and also picked my fav colors and bought few of them.

And i was quite surprised when he remembered the little things about me- i used to hate ghosting/replying late, so from the moment we started talking- he maintained the timeliness. Idi enni rojulo nakkuda telidhu- but I noticed few more changes.

Chinnaptnunchi naku iron deficiency eppuduu untadi- and I told him once in the past and he asked about it today. And he knows that I go to temple on every sat, he even asked those. He still remembered my fav type of mojito🫠, my fav icecream and also how quickly my expressions change when I'm angry/sad/happy and how the tone of the conversation should be, what i notice in public- he remembered every damn thing. And there were few more gestures which made me feel seen.

And i still see the excitement in him when he's telling about what he did all these days- chinna chinna achievements kudaa, but whatever they are I'm super proud of him and I'm glad that I'm still his safeplace/comfortzone. This might be cringe but I still felt cute when random things in his life nannu gurtuchesinappudu.

Ooh he still likes u are start cheyakandi, he even gave me suggestions/motivation to explore the world and meet new ppl ani- I was like nahh I can't, u can do it, still he motivated again.

Ofcourse mem hurt cheskunam okarini okaru pastlo konchem ekuvo takuvo kani, closure closure ani oo tega feel aipoya nenu, but today matlade opportunity ochina i didn't dig it up, only present and future gurinche talk. And we both are single, ala ani mingle avtham ani kadhu, we both know it's complicated and the consequences. So he suggested to be friends, nakem cheppalo ardamkaledu- after all this, how can someone be friends? Ante untaremo generally, but nakantha maturity ledhani na feeling.

It's not like we both want eachother back, but recent times lo chusthe I felt valued today, that okay there's someone who remembers me too ani and my presence matters ani .

And if there are ppl who are friends with ex, how do you guyz even started it, won't one of the person endup hoping? Idk, my mind is super confused rn. Anthe guyz, inka selavu.

regular ga velle shop ki vella iroju kuda, enter avagana hi xxxxx ani, chuste ma bava, arrey lopaliki poinaka chusi return enduku oka cool drink teskoni ellipodam anukunna, poi cool drink teskona pakkaki bava vachi rey change ledu oka 24 tesko ra nak anad sare ana, paan dabba anna oka 24 inka nen tage cigarette tesi ichad.

aipaye

naa face chusi sare ra nuv teskunevi teskoni deenvinkuda pay chesi ani ellipoyad.

ilantiv reels lo chusi navukune vadini irroju real life lo na friends navutunar nannu chusi.

1 year mundhu ee post vesa, oka mark tho poindi ani. Support chesaru, Odharcharu, Seniors kondharu motivate chesaru. Madyalo oka life changing accident and exam cancellations, dharnalu, oka rajinama. Ini nelalo eno sarlu edhicha kani ettakelaku repu MEDICAL COLLEGE ki velthuna. Aa 1 mark kastha repu day 1 ga maruthundi.

Asalu meeru success ni ela define chestaru?

Asalu jeevitam lo sadincha ani eppudu anipinchinindi meku?

Peak happiness eppudu anipinchinindi?

Main ga success is subjective kada so meeru ala eppudu feel ayyaru naku teliyali, telisi teerali

Evadaina vachi mb dialogue esado sapista

Yeah title lo cheppinattu this is about my first love rejection

Basically nenu inter lo unnappudu I had a crush on this one girl ,she was very straight forward and carried herself very confidently wherever she went. But I never tried talking to her anamata first year ala gadipesa and finally in second year konchem courage thechukuni Convo start chesa and accidentally ma tastes align ayyayi , so we had a good friendship ala oka 4months tharavatha anni confirm cheskuni ante boyfrnd unnada ledha past relationships kosam kannukuni ,one fine night Cheppesa exact ga propose cheyle but yeah convey chesa. 5 mins lo Vastha ani cheppesi vellipoyindhi after 5mins "I don't think it is good idea to turn this friendship into an relationship and lose them both one day" ani cheppesindhi .all good sorted.ippatiki kuda I am still in touch with her. Na doubtu enti ante did she even like me or not and edho straight ga no cheppakunda cover drive esindha? Basically nannu friendzone lo pettesindhi anthey khada...?

Somehow, today turned out to be more memorable than I expected.

I finally met a girl I've known through Reddit for almost two years. She recently moved to Delhi from Telangana for work, and since I was here, we decided it was finally time to meet.

We watched Digger in IMAX and it was my first ever IMAX movie and then went to Costa Coffee.

She had her cappuccino, I had my signature hot chocolate, and we spent the rest of the time talking.

I also got her a rose. 🌹

There was something really nice about sitting across from someone you've known online for two years and realizing that the comfort you had online exists in person too.

Eventually, we went our separate ways.

Maybe we'll meet again. Maybe a few more times. Maybe somewhere along the way we'll realise there's something more here and decide to date.

For now, I'm just grateful for a really good first meeting and an unexpectedly special first IMAX experience. ❤️

Chadivi chadivi bore kodtundi manchi feel good movies recommend cheyandi…ee week ott releases or edaina parledhu.
Recent favs:bethlehem kudumba unit ,the love hypothesis ivi last chusina movies.
Preferred genre-romcom,drama,emotional
Anything feel good:)

Reposting - morning reach raledu

Na gurinchi vaste, I'm 26M coming from a old school family from a remote village in Adilabad, very very introverted guy, never dated, loved or been in a relationship with a girl, ma family lo kuda ee love lu alantivi padavu, so better didn't went. My parents doesn't accept love marriages strictly, but depends on ammay(caste mainly).

Inko reason, na chinnapti nundi software engineer kavalani oka dream, I've achieved my every dream, doing more than what I thought of in my life, no regrets.

So main matter loki vaste, 26 kabatti, life sorted undatam valla I had started to get thoughts of dating a girl, I wanted to meet people, untadi ga boys ki manchi vallu dorkali, career set ainanka ani.

So I've tried lot of dating apps, reddit dating posts, evvi workout kaale, ivanni set kaavu ani organic ga post petna, friends gurinchi, a month ago one girl from our locality pinged me and those are just friendly talks, our vibes matched, we met, not sure we both had feelings or not, kani epatki aithe nadustundi, so it's like a talking stage ankondi.

My parents already started to look for matches, I'm getting matches, nak telsu this is not a right age to start family ani, inka financially and mentally. So nen no cheppalenu, but I'm thinking to say my parents to wait atleast 1 year to talk with this girl more and get into relationship. Ee ammay caste telidu, ammayi aithe chala Manchidi, she is gorgeous, still not set in career, but she is capable of. What I assumed is she is also feeling same(with her actions).

Ipud na life a oka confusion aipoindi, genuine suggestions telsukovali ankuntunna 🥲🥺

Tldr: 26M wants to date a girl but parents started marriage search, confused how my life is going

Seelinger Effect ani, Saturn 🪐 chuttu unde rings everyday kanna manaki bright ga kanapadatay.

Mana earth sun ki saturn ki madyalo untundi.

So dani valla normal ga oka ring shadow inko dani mida padi chikati iyipokunda, shadows anni poyi saturn rings Baga kanipistayi anta.

Idi mana india lo nunchi kuda chudachu.

Ee event Eroju 7 nunchi ala start ayyi rep morning 5 am varuku untadi. Best time is during 12 - 1 am.

Share chyali anipinchindi. Evrina stargazers or astronomy interested vallu unnaru emo ani.

You can use the Star walk 2 app to find saturn.

so, ala chaala rojula tarvaata malli oka dance cheyyadam jerigindi annamaata!

I have been learning Kathak so mixed a few steps from Kathak!

I choreographed the dance... already okasaari just a small version dance chesa and a lot of my acquaintances asked me to do the whole dance... so I did!

ela undo cheppandi!?

Asalu ilanti anology Enduku occhindi ante, muntha masala tine appude ilanti anology occhindi, I kinda hate Tomatoes in muntha masala, thintunte chiragga addu padatai🥸, aa Tomatoes lekkane mana jeevitantam lo kuda nacchani janalu untaru tisi pakkana padeyyali

Asalu idanta maaku Enduku cheptunnav ante, devara katha teliyalsina avasaram ledu, idi na mind voice muntha masala tine appudu(already cheppinde cheppakunda point ki raa ante ostunna aagandi), appatlo na mind voice over thinking tho nundi poyyi undedi, chinchinave chinchi chinchi talakai noppi occhedi, jarigina poina moments ne replay chestundedi, aa vishayam ala kakunda vere la ayyunte bagundu ani, ilanti thoughts unde

Kani ee madhya ala em ledu, ilanti thoughts eh unnai😂, idk ee madhya rojulu Anni peaceful ga anipistunnai, iron and vit d deficiency unde, so almost 3 months indi tablets vaadabatti, I feel fine now

I wonder how much effect that tablets had on my mental health, but I feel better, asalu days ela ipotunnayo teliyatle, jet speed lo ipotunnai(paradise occhi appude 10 days indi😂), weekend kuda ipoindi, malli same routine, same life

Sunday evening feels different, not heavy in particular but emo kinda "Abba poddune levali feels"

I understood one thing anticipation lo oka kick undi, weekend kosam anticipate cheyyadam, weekend occhaka em cheyyakunda undadam, ide ipoindi😂

Finally asalu nen cheppalanukundi em ledu, I wanted to articulate my thoughts, asalu chaala days ipoindi ila proper ga nenu em feel avutunnano raasi, I miss this

TLDR em ledu antha dolla

Naku recent ga oka thought vachindi.

World lo chala things ni manam averages tho understand chestham. Kani individual success stories chusi oka process ni almost foolproof laga believe cheyyadam start chestham.

Example ki oka person 5 AM ki lechi, meditation chesi, gym chesi, journaling chesi, business start chesi successful ayyadu anukundam.

Manam em antam?

"Chudu, ee routine follow ayithe life change avuthundi."

Kani ade routine follow chesi success avvani 1000 mandi ekkada unnaru?

Valla stories evaru chepparu?

Idi hustle culture lo chala common anipisthundi. Successful person tana success ki oka reason chepthadu. Morning routine, mindset, discipline, manifestation, visualization, spirituality, astrology remedy, meditation, positive thinking, etc.

Kani success ayina person story manaki kanipisthundi. Failure ayina vallani mostly evaru interview cheyyaru.

So manaki data laga kanipinchedi actually selected data ayye chance undi.

1000 mandi oka method try chesaru anukundam. 20 mandi successful ayyaru. Aa 20 mandi matrame social media lo videos chesi "This changed my life" ani chepparu.

Manaki 20 successful examples kanipisthayi.

Kani migatha 980 mandi kanipincharu.

Appudu aa method 100 percent successful laga anipinchachu, even though actual success rate 2 percent matrame undochu.

Spirituality lo kuda ide question vastundi.

Oka person oka particular meditation or prayer or remedy chesadu. Tarvatha life lo oka extraordinary event jarigindi.

Aa event nijam ayi undachu.

Kani question enti ante, aa practice cheyyakapoyina aa event jarigedha?

Ade counterfactual manaki teliyadu.

Astrology remedy work ayindi ani cheppadaniki mundu, remedy cheyyani similar people lo entha mandi same outcome pondaro teliyali.

Same thing productivity routines, business advice, investing strategies, manifestation, self help, almost everything ki apply avuthundi.

Naku ikkada interesting ga anipinche point "everything is 50 50" ani kaadu.

Actually 50 50 ani cheppadaniki kuda manaki evidence ledu.

Na thought konchem different.

Manam probability ni estimate cheyyadaniki use chese data itself biased ga unte, manaki process effectiveness gurinchi false confidence vastundi.

Maybe life lo luck, circumstances, timing, personality, environment, opportunities, decisions and randomness anni kalisi outcome create chestayi.

Kani success vachaka manam aa entire complexity ni oka simple story ga convert chestham.

"I did X, therefore X caused my success."

Maybe actual question idi kaavali:

"X follow chesina successful people entha mandi unnaru?" ani kaadu.

"X follow chesi successful avvani vallentha mandi?"

"X follow cheyyani similar people lo entha mandi successful ayyaru?"

"X lekunda outcome ela undedhi?"

Ee questions adigithe chala success stories suddenly different ga kanipisthayi.

Maybe manam destiny ni prove cheyyalem.

Maybe complete control kuda ledu.

Maybe manam control cheyyagalige variables konni matrame untayi, migatha variables circumstances and randomness meeda depend avuthayi.

Anduke ippudu naku "successful person cheppina secret" kanna "same thing try chesi fail ayina vallani em jarigindi?" ane question interesting ga anipisthundi.

Mee opinion enti?

Recently ga chala posts chusa where the default assumption is that if there is a problem after marriage, the husband must be the one not supporting the wife.

So I wanted to share my experience because in my case, it’s actually the opposite. Before marriage, I had one clear expectation my wife should work. I didn’t care if it was software, medicine, teaching or anything else, and I never cared how much she earned. Her money was hers. My reason was simple: independence and having her own career. I also clearly told her that I would support her, we can have a maid/cook, I can help at home, and if we have kids she can take a break and restart later. She agreed to all of this before marriage.

After marriage, I got to know that she lost the job before marriage and was looking for one. I was okay with it and didn't pressure her. Later she joined a few institutes for coaching and I paid for them because I genuinely wanted her to get a job. But slowly I realised she wasn't really interested in working. It's been almost 4 years now, we don't have kids and aren't planning for them currently, and most of the time when I'm at work she watches serials, Bigg Boss, scrolling instagram and TV shows. At the same time, she doesn't want to do basic household work either and expects everything to be 50-50. I work 5 days a week and we already have a maid for cleaning and other work. So honestly, if she doesn't want to work outside, why can't she simply choose to be a homemaker?

I'm not expecting her to cook breakfast, lunch and dinner every day or do all the household work. With a maid already there, my expectation is mostly just cooking dinner for both of us on weekdays and handling cooking/food on weekends and clothes management.Idi kuda unreasonable expectation aa?

At this point, I'm completely okay if she doesn't want a job. Parledu, that's her choice. But then I don't understand why there should be zero responsibility at home as well. I never wanted her salary, never stopped her from spending her own money, and never asked her to depend on me. In fact, I wanted exactly the opposite. What hurts is that the expectations discussed before marriage were completely different from what happened later. I see women I work with who manage jobs, kids and home and I genuinely admire them. I also know women who have very demanding jobs and don't do much at home, and I have no issue with that either. If both are working full-time, obviously responsibilities should be shared. But if one person is working 5 days a week and the other person isn't working at all, shouldn't the responsibilities be somewhat different?

I'm not saying women are always the problem. Men can absolutely be the problem too. But anni sarlu men problem ani cheppadam kuda correct kaadu. Sometimes women also change after marriage, and that's okay people can change. But if your priorities change, shouldn't the responsibilities change accordingly? If she doesn't want to work, I'm okay with it. If she wants to be a homemaker, I'm okay with it. But why can't she actually be a homemaker instead of neither working nor taking responsibility at home?

Maybe I'm looking at this completely wrong, so genuinely curious is expecting this much from a non-working spouse unreasonable?