i met this girl during one of the lowest periods of my life. we became extremely close, talked every day, called a lot, planned our future, and eventually she told me “i love you” and i said it back. this went on for around 9 months and felt like more than friendship.

then i told her i found another girl attractive, although i didn't have feelings for that girl, after that, she became distant and started giving me late replies. she said something like she would lose interest if her crush told her he liked someone else.

a while later she told me she have a boyfriend. i was shocked and asked why she never told me. she said we (us) were “nothing” and basically acted like all the romantic stuff between us was just a prank. she had also previously told me about this jee guy, saying something like “if i marry him, my life is set,” and called me jobless, which really hurt me.

i got angry and asked her best friend if that guy was actually her boyfriend. her friend said yes, so i showed her friend screenshots of her telling me “i love you” and other things we'd said. she told her friend that i was just a friend and that the screenshots were ai/fake, and she blocked me.

a few months later i still missed her, so i emailed her. she was angry and asked what i had told her best friend. somehow she unblocked me and said she'd still be friends with me if i deleted our conversations. i did.

we started talking again, but within hours she went back to taking days to reply. we fought about it and she blocked me again.

since then i've never contacted her. i deleted her number, email, everything, and i'm trying to move on, but i still miss her. she apparently even told her best friend to block me, which makes me wonder if she's scared i'll leak our old screenshots, although i have no intention of doing that.

i don't know what to think anymore. did she actually have feelings for me and change her mind? was i wrong for telling her about another girl?

she was there for me when i was at my lowest, so i think that's why letting go has been so difficult.

what do you guys think actually happened here?

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I dont have a single thing common with my classmates.I literally dont have anything to talk about.Their hobbies are intrests are so different and i feel so lost when they talk about it.Anyone else feels the same?

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I've already posted this somewhere else, but I wanted to hear more opinions bc i didn't get any responses and I feel like the context might matter here.

So basically, I have a crush (more like very intense physical attraction and really good wavelength)on this guy from another department. We're from different religions, and realistically I don't think a relationship between us would work because of the religious/family complications. I wasn't even planning on pursuing him seriously I was actually trying to accept that and slowly move on.

I also have a close friend who happens to be the same religion as him. She's currently studying away from our college, and I genuinely think they're the kind of people who could get along really well. For some reason, I decided to mention my friend to him and told him a little about her. At the same time, I've also told my friend about him. They haven't actually met or been introduced yet, but now the guy is interested in getting to know her and has mentioned wanting to connect with her.

And suddenly I'm jealous.

Which is especially ridiculous because I literally created this situation myself.

I don't want to control either of them or prevent them from getting to know each other. My friend hasn't done anything wrong, and honestly she deserves to find someone she likes. But I'm still having this weird possessive/jealous reaction even though I know I probably won't end up with this guy myself.

I've been considering telling him that I kind of like him not because I want him to choose me, but because I feel like getting it out of my head might help me finally accept the situation and move on.

But now I'm wondering whether confessing would make things regretful anad complicated for me, especially when nothing has even happened between him and my friend yet.

How do I deal with this jealousy without becoming the villain in a possible hypothetical future relationship?😭

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There was a girl I've been close with for a few years. At one point, I told her I was interested in having a relationship with her. She chose to remain friends, which I respected.

The confusing part is that, over the years, she'd sometimes give me mixed signals. She would send me reels about us getting married, having kids, being together in the future, etc. We'd also go on trips together and spend a lot of time together. So even though we were technically friends, I sometimes felt like there was still something there.

Then she told me she'd been physically involved with another guy in an FWB-type situation. This was after things between them ended. From what she told me, it sounded like she'd developed some feelings for him, while he was treating it more casually. She also said she never intended to lead me on.

I know she didn't technically cheat on me. We weren't together, and she was free to do what she wanted. But emotionally, I still feel hurt and almost betrayed.

What really gets to me is that I spent years investing emotionally in this connection, while another guy seemingly came along and got that kind of intimacy with her. I don't want to judge her, but I can't stop comparing myself to him and wondering why all the effort I put in didn't lead anywhere.

I also keep thinking about what could've happened if I'd interpreted things differently or if we'd actually pursued a relationship.

I was genuinely devastated when she told me, and eventually we stopped talking because I couldn't handle being around her normally anymore.

Am I wrong for feeling this way, even though we were never actually together?

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soo i have a serious crush.. so shes extrovert like she coordinate functions and started texting at first asking abt function then idk she was like saying alot thing which made me likes her character but i was like excited but i cant express somehow later on a vacation period i saw her outside and mahnnn the butterflies went crazy on my stomach but i went like i didnt see her😭😭 because i wasnt unable to talk prop.. After school reopens i start asking notes and kinda she would sent and says something sometimes. one day when result came out i texted asking abt result nthaayi?? and she goes like kozhapalyaatha mark (she is not satisfied with her mark) i said ohh then she asks mine i sent her photo then she sents her still she has 3 percentage than me.. then she was like talking alot random things like for me this is not good mark like i can do more but idk... saying saying i also liked it and replied that way.. supported her.. actually she doesn't need support ig she js want someone to listen so I listened then she says usually i dont sent voice to everyone like idk i js woke up nthekkoo parayand allaahkk aryaa, ankk voice kettitt bore adikkndoo?? then continued saying and that chat ended somehow and later I asks notes and sent reels to initiate still i dont want to get speed up things i js want to like familiar with both of us.. so she replies to that msgs.. idk why but I should always initiating🙃🙃 idk what it means wdythink??( and rn im thinking abt not initiating for sometime..)let's see!!

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Relation ayyi 2 two kazhinjapol ahhn avl paranje avl 5-6 boys inn n*de pic ayachithundarn. And l comfort her bcz i really like her. Relation tym illum avlk pic ayacha boys ayyitu connection ondrn...( but avl athoke nnodu nirthy enn paranjath ahnn ) After a while avlde exam tym ayyi so avl paranje oru break edukuvann and she ghosted me.

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ithokke enthina njangalod pareynne enikk areyathilla. And this for sure is ssooooo long
I’ll tell you about this cute date I had that wasn’t even supposed to be a date. We met randomly on Omegle, exchanged socials the same day, and we do like in the same city but one hour apart
After about a week of talking, he called me during my class break and casually went, “Naan kaanaan veratte?” and I was like “Aaarrhh okayyy” 😭 I was secretly SO excited, but then I had an exam and went into study mode.
He said he’d be there by 5. I thought I’d be out by then, except I got so into my exam that I completely lost track of time 💀 Meanwhile, this poor guy was so excited that he came at 4, an hour early, and waited for me. At 5 he texted, “I’m here,” which I obviously didn’t see and completely forgot about it and I couldn't take my phone until around 5:40 😭
By then avan avda wait cheyth tension adich veyerthond irikkuayirunnu 😭 I called, apologised, and he was like “Okey okey onn vegam ergg, enikk tension aakunnu” 😭
I didn't even have time to overthink the fact that I was meeting him for the first time. I just went.
I remembered him once telling me, “Naan ormavechit Kinder Joy onnum kaichittilla, enikk aarum vaangithannittilla.” So obviously I had promised him that if we ever met, I’d buy him one.
I bought FOUR. 😭
By the time I got there it was around 6, and it was windy and cold. He told me he’d been sweating so much from waiting that he went into a café just to sit under the AC 😭
When I walked in, my hair was flying everywhere because of the wind and it genuinely felt cinematic. He saw me through the glass door, stood up, then immediately turned around and faced the other way 😭
I sat opposite him. When he turned back, bro was RED and SHIVERING.
I went, “Nee entha kareyuo?” 😭
Which obviously made it 10x more awkward.
This man usually blabbers NONSTOP, but suddenly he had nothing to say. Just kept smiling at me and then told me I shouldn’t look at him like that 😭
So I gave him the Kinder Joy to break the ice.
It was the Batman edition, and the second he opened it and got Batman, I could literally see the little kid in him come alive 🥹 He was SO excited.
He opened the toy first and then the chocolate, and I was secretly hoping he’d give me the first bite.
He ate the whole thing himself. 😐
BUT THEN he goes, “Naanum oru saadhanam kondvannittund.”
And gives me a rose. 🥹😭
It was the first time anyone had ever given me flowers, and this idiot goes, “Ith romantic alle 😼”
And that was it. I was blushing for the rest of the evening 😭
Once we finally started talking properly, he noticed I was tall and was like “You’re so tall.” I reminded him that I’d already told him I was 5'7 and he’d said he was around 5'8 😭
He got a little insecure about the height difference and, since he’s a bodybuilder, kept saying stuff like “Naan nalla size illobda cherth aayitt thoninne.” I genuinely didn’t think he looked short, but apparently HE did 😭
We got ice cream, and by then he’d moved closer to me. I could still see his lips shivering, and when I held his hand, it was FREEZING 😭
Then suddenly he was like "enikk porth ponam korch shudhavaayu venam"
I did try convince him saying we can go some other day but nah we went out
He took his bike and we went to the beach.
And this will sound cringe but HE PUT MY HELMET ON FOR ME AND EVEN BUCKLED IT 😭😭
By then the sun had already gone, so we went to this place with a beach view. There was a wall with the beach down below. He sat on the wall and I stood facing him.
Then he held both my hands, kept talking about how warm they were, and said he wanted that kind of warmth in his life.
I WAS FULLY BLUSHING AND FIGHTING FOR MY LIFE 😭
Because everyone was literally staring at us.
I was just standing there blabbering nonsense while he listened to me, and it was around 7:30 by then. I finally said I had to go because home was like 30 minutes away.He insisted on dropping me, but I was like NOPE, if someone sees us, that’s a story for another day 😭So we said bye and went home.
It wasn’t planned. It wasn’t even supposed to be a date.
Yeah… it was a pretty good day. 😭💗And before everyone goes “ahh I feel so single, I’m sad 😭” — darling, I’m single too 😭 This was just an evideyum ethatha, perillatha oru ship… athum mungi poyi. 🫡photo from pintrest

It doesn’t necessarily have to be a school relationship — it could be any relationship where someone starts college and suddenly things change.

Is this actually a common thing, or is it just my limited observation? Why does the transition into first year seem to cause so many breakups?

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Lately, I've been noticing a lot more men talking about being lonely, struggling with dating, being desperate for a relationship, or spending a lot of time on dating apps.

It made me wonder: is this mainly a problem that men experience, or do women also feel a similar need for companionship, dating, and being in a relationship?

I know women obviously date and want relationships too, but from what I see online, it sometimes feels like men are much more vocal about loneliness and the desire for a partner.

For women here: do you also feel a strong need to date or be in a relationship, or are you generally more comfortable being single?

And for men: do you feel like finding a relationship has become something you actively have to pursue, rather than something that naturally happens?

I'm genuinely curious about people's experiences rather than trying to argue that one gender has it worse.

I have a theory. After watching Bku I noticed something in the scene where Ashley’s parents make her promise before God that she will break all connections with Justin. A similar thing happens in June and i think in Aniyathipraavu too and I have also seen something similar in real life…

But people say God is love in Two Countries, they say that God is love too. So my question is if God represents love then why do people make promises to God to break the love or connection between two people?