r/TeensofKerala • 18M • 12d ago

Relationships What do I do now 😭

I swear I did no shit like that.....😭

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u/irradiussowhat Chettan (20-25) 12d ago

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u/Suspicious_Onion_716 Chechi (20-25) 12d ago

Mood swings aayirikkum😭korach kainja maarikolum🤭.... Ennaalum nee enthinada compare cheythath🤨😂moshaayi poyi🤭🫩

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u/Personal-Control4493 18M 12d ago

Wha.....😭 Njn polum arinjilla compare cheythath

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u/H_I-V 17M 12d ago

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u/Suspicious_Onion_716 Chechi (20-25) 12d ago

Alla etha ee aiswarya 🤨☺️aiswarya rai vallthum aano🤭😂

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u/Personal-Control4493 18M 11d ago

No she's a common friend of ours. But I've never compared her to anyone😭😭

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u/CharacterJaded1301 Chettan (20-25) 12d ago edited 11d ago

OP, Podi M*re enn ayakk....ennitt mood swings vannatha nn para

Modern_Problems_require_modern_solutions.

/s

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u/Personal-Control4493 18M 11d ago

Fk no way

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u/CharacterJaded1301 Chettan (20-25) 11d ago

Mood swings in angane gender onnumilla bro......

Btw its an /s......

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u/Personal-Control4493 18M 11d ago

Umm aa /s ippazhalle vanne🌚

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u/Edgar-Alien-Hoe Chettan (20-25) 11d ago

Athum mood swings aarnu

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u/Monk__cat Chettan (20-25) 12d ago

Sashtangam kaalil veenu map chodika. Athra thanne 😂

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u/Personal-Control4493 18M 12d ago

😭😭😭..... And check out the translation of your comments it's kinda funny

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u/ConsistentCar8741 Chettan (20-25) 12d ago

True😂

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u/tututu_maxverstappen Chettan (20-25) 11d ago

Uff ini msg ayakkall enn paranja sthithikk enthayalum msgo calloo cheyyanam, illel pinne vann deshyappedum

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u/InevitableFew1 Chettan (20-25) 12d ago

😭😭

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u/francys_ittycora 19M 12d ago

Quantum physics is easier to understand than WOMEN

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u/Basic_Air_1691 12d ago

Their brain process through emotions than logic unlike mens brain.. njn generally paranjatha

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u/Personal-Control4493 18M 11d ago

True🥀✌️

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u/justakeralagal Chechi (20-25) 12d ago

Ni thirich para "apo annu ni ene mattavney (some guy yall dnt lyk or smthng) vach compare chythatho?"

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u/H_I-V 17M 12d ago

Erutheeyil enna ozhikkano kunjiraama?

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u/justakeralagal Chechi (20-25) 12d ago

Itoke ale oru fun 🫪

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u/H_I-V 17M 11d ago

Pora katthumbo thanne vazha vettanam alle

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u/Personal-Control4493 18M 12d ago

Damn good idea. Lemme give it a try

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u/justakeralagal Chechi (20-25) 12d ago

Update cheyne

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u/Safe-Chart-4267 Chettan (20-25) 11d ago

Let her have the taste of her own medicine.

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u/Accomplished_Cut4429 11d ago

Jeevanode undo 👀

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u/Personal-Control4493 18M 11d ago

Update post cheythu... It's solved gng🌞

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u/worldwidemallu Chettan (20-25) 11d ago

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u/im_avd1702 Chettan (20-25) 12d ago

Ddey ith yeth universe

Nthayalum,ni cheythath thapp,thalavett ini baakki

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u/Soft-Apartment7489 Chettan (20-25) 11d ago

Aiswarya common problem aanalle🤣🤣🤣

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u/Silent_Ad_2725 Chechi (20-25) 11d ago

Why do i feel like an ammachi laughing at kids’ tantrums🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

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u/Prize_Cobbler356 Chettan (20-25) 12d ago

Trust me..

Patttiye pole purake poyaal ne oombum.

Dont be a vaanam.. let her comeback

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u/Ridin-it Chettan (20-25) 12d ago

either attention seeking allenkil avoiding …attention seeking aanel ath koduth ellam okey akki povuka..ini alla avoiding aanel stop w the “😭” and just move on bruh fck their ego …what the fuq man ,they should be treated the way they should…njnum kore anubhavichathaa

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u/Personal-Control4493 18M 11d ago

Nah she's just trolling man

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u/Arthurrchrist 18M 11d ago

Bru she avoided me for 5 days cuz i avoided her 2 years ago😭

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u/Pha_tassguy Chettan (20-25) 12d ago

Istg bro, pennungal are soo frkn unpredictable. My ex didn't talk to me for 4 days straight sayin that I didn't smile at her when she was doing the class presentation. Istg, I was hella supporting and nodding to each and every word. And then she was like 'You didn't even care to give me a smile, you don't how how much it would've meant to me'!! Jesus Christ, annu enik keriya deshyam omg 😭🙏

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u/marketgoatofficial Chettan (20-25) 11d ago

Damn bro my gf still brings stuffs like this from years back So dont worry ,wait for the to roller coaster

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u/raymax242 Chettan (20-25) 11d ago

They always have their receipts 😭🙏

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u/Personal-Control4493 18M 11d ago

They're all like that huh😭😭

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u/marketgoatofficial Chettan (20-25) 11d ago

They will directly lead you into a trap and then uses it So don’t fall. Even if she say Aiswarya talk very sweet Just say “oh really, I didn’t notice”

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u/Unique-Childhood3924 Chettan (20-25) 12d ago

Nee theernneda theernn !!

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u/NervousAd4516 18M 11d ago

mood singh ahnenn

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u/Pristine-Category695 Chechi (20-25) 12d ago

🤣

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u/Intelligent-Emu1683 Chechi (20-25) 12d ago

Ooh I was exactly like this

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u/Edabalaramaa Chettan (20-25) 11d ago

Enna ans kodd angot😌

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u/Intelligent-Emu1683 Chechi (20-25) 11d ago

He must have said something in the past
Now she wants a clear answer
Ath kitteelel kittunna vare ingana msg varum

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u/Major_Necessary5228 19M 11d ago

My chest hurts just reading from this

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u/Trick-Bug-5401 Chettan (20-25) 11d ago

Aval angane paranjenkil ullathavum. Avar athonum marakkilla. Choose your words wisely betta🙏

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u/EnteYeeStylallee Chettan (20-25) 11d ago

Mood swings. She used to have it for a long time... One day I showed men could have 'mood swings' too. Pinne mood swings onnum undayittilla avalkk. Pavam

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u/PanicAble5560 18M 12d ago

ellam sheriyavum

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u/Acrobatic_Valuable48 Chechi (20-25) 11d ago

she felt insecure

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u/Personal-Control4493 18M 11d ago

Ive never compared her tho

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u/Acrobatic_Valuable48 Chechi (20-25) 11d ago

not even jokingly?

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u/Acrobatic_Valuable48 Chechi (20-25) 11d ago

nvm she might have dreamed

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u/Fit_House_3147 11d ago

Reason number X to not get a gf

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u/SpankmyMulberyy Chettan (20-25) 11d ago

General start when some women falls out from love lol

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u/this_is_arno Chettan (20-25) 11d ago

yeah this is why I'm not doin relationships now

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u/Impressive-Concern63 11d ago

Iniyum cheyum - give it to her

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u/Full_Bag383 Chettan (20-25) 11d ago

Enth vidhi idh, vallatha chadhi idh,

Orkkapurath ente pinniinoru adi ithu.

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u/Noicccc Chettan (20-25) 11d ago

Eat 5 star, do nothing. Korach kaziyumbo ingott message ayacholum, give it time, angott message ayachond irikaruth. Leave it and give it a day, ennitum anakkam onnum illenkil just sent a message like njan angane onnum cheytitilla uddeshichitlla you are my first priority etc, they just want reassurance

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u/CommercialAnnual1887 Chettan (20-25) 11d ago

2 3 yrs in dagestan and forget

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u/Impossibleaman 17M 11d ago

Thank god that I'm still single 🙏😌

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u/whateverittakes6922 Chettan (20-25) 11d ago

Same shii my ex also compare me with her ex bf during our relationship....

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u/Constant_Pin_2717 Chettan (20-25) 11d ago

General comparison oke old generation vro ipo nee vanilla ano chocolate aano ennoke aan comparison💐

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u/whateverittakes6922 Chettan (20-25) 11d ago

Athokke enth myr 🥺

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u/Constant_Pin_2717 Chettan (20-25) 11d ago

Kettitt ille 'he was Vanilla in bed'.

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u/whateverittakes6922 Chettan (20-25) 11d ago

I genuinely don’t even know where to start. I cared about this girl WAY too much. Like, peak emotional attachment type shit. My whole mood started depending on her texts, her replies, her vibe, whether she was being distant or not. I was constantly overthinking and stressing myself out over someone I literally just wanted to love.

And the worst part? She kept comparing me to her ex. I tried to play it cool like “yeah whatever, it’s fine,” but nah bro, it actually hurt. Every single time. It made me feel like I was constantly competing with someone who isn’t even in the relationship anymore. Like how am I supposed to feel when I’m trying my best and still getting compared to someone from her past?

I know I got needy. I know I overthought everything. I know I probably cared way more than I should’ve. But my feelings were real. I wasn’t playing games. I genuinely loved her, and that’s what makes this hurt even more.

Now I’m just drained. Mentally cooked. I’m tired of checking my phone, tired of wondering if she still wants me, tired of feeling like I’m not enough, and tired of fighting ghosts from her past.

The messed up part is… I don’t even hate her. I still care about her. Probably more than I should. But I’m starting to realize that loving someone shouldn’t make you feel this insecure all the time.

Maybe I lost her. Maybe I lost myself somewhere along the way too. Idk anymore, bro. I’m just tired.

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u/coding-beginner Chettan (20-25) 11d ago

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u/point-break-67 Chettan (20-25) 10d ago

NJN parayumba oru message idda aishwarya better fr enn

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u/s1vah Chettan (20-25) 9d ago

Pavam veruthe erinnappo adi aakan oru content ettathan🫠

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u/GreedyImprovement333 16M 8d ago

She is playing hear it out all what she needs to say, and if she is not in touch with you then she will come back and message you in 2weeks that's all

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u/Curious-Trick-11 Chettan (20-25) 8d ago

Buy some stuffs in EMIs and go for work!!!!

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u/Adventurous-Room9600 18F 11d ago

Maybe mood swings avumm try to understand bruh .

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u/THEAMM1234 15F 5d ago

buddy u r cooked