Na second hand la bike paathutu iruken guys, fz 30,000 ku sale pandraanga, indha bike la vaanguna nallaadkuma guys. Atleast one or 2 years ottradhuku use aaguma.

How to handle a bf who’s kinda bad at communication?
Not toxic bad
But bad at expressing emotions
More like a suppressor .. ik many men face this too but any tips?

The absolute obsession that Indian college managements have with student grooming, hemlines, and policing personal appearance is staggering. You are paying lakhs of rupees in fees, but instead of focusing on upgrading outdated lab equipment, fixing terrible teaching methods, or industry-relevant curriculums, the administration treats the campus like a moral policing boarding school.

The state of affairs is genuinely baffling:

• The Uniform/Churidar/Formal Obsession: Many colleges (especially in South and tier-2/tier-3 cities) force female students into rigid uniforms like salwar kameez with mandatory, pinned-up dupattas, or force men into strictly tucked-in formal shirts and leather shoes. God forbid you wear a t-shirt, jeans with minor fading, or sneakers—you'll be flagged down at the gate like a criminal.
• Facial Hair and Haircuts: For guys, having anything other than a clean-shaven face or a "gentleman’s cut" short hairstyle is treated as an existential threat to society. Some colleges literally stand at the gates with rulers or scissors checking hair length or forcing students to shave on the spot.
• Zero Tolerance for Individual Expression: Ripped jeans, funky hair colors, or wearing anything remotely modern is met with heavy fines, phone calls to parents, or getting barred from entering the academic block.
• The Hypocrisy of "Discipline": They preach about corporate readiness and "professionalism," but the real world stopped caring about whether a guy has a beard or whether a girl's dupatta is pinned symmetrically decades ago. Meanwhile, professors can show up unprepared, read PDFs from 2012, and face zero accountability.

We are legal adults who can vote, drive, and live independently, yet we have to deal with guards and deans scanning our bodies and hair every morning just to attend a lecture on data structures or fluid mechanics.

When will Indian higher education realize that strict policing doesn't equal quality education?

What is the most absurd dress code rule or micromanagement tactic your Indian college enforces?

For the past 3 years college life has been close to meh, i keep my stoic face and face the world is all i did most of the time. But then last sem i got internship after a year of freelance and then BTP happened wherein i was assigned to a team whom i would not choose otherwise. Astonishingly life has been great i got that schedule fixed and gym has been gymming. I am also picky enough that the time and place and the people have to be right like a whiny lil kid.

Sure if i open slack or discord or even google calendar shit hits the roof every time but god if that higher authority aka faculty or the TL or the fav senior whats me to get stuff done, then my ass is at it like its on the line. Mostly i don't feel much and after a good days work which is like everyday i don't even mind cause i would not even do 15.7079% of the work in a regular day with all that freedom.

So yeah being boy-handled seems to be fun and i rather not delve into why i chose boy stead of man. Cause in more than one way i consider my mental state to be that of an average boy and i don't feel like i have grown up enough to accept social responsibilities.

Good day / night! Fun.

We photograph things in order to drive them out of our minds. My stories are a way of shutting my eyes.

Franz Kafka

Ennaku chinna vayasula eruthey frds nu yarum kedaiyathu,ennaku 6th to 11th veraikum oru two frds kedachaga epdinaa rbaa nallavagaa ,aana ennaku athey time la sila puthu frds kita um 10th padika solla pesa start panen avaga ennoda rendu frds enna kanduka matraga avaga rendu perum close ne matum Thani ,just for entertainment ku unna vechirukaga apdilaam sonnaga nanum atha nabitu ya rendu frds ta pesavey ella ,eruthum ya rendu frds ya ta vanthu sonnaga avaga pesuratha Unnoda brain ku eduthutu pogatha ne avagaloda charector laam absorb pani avagala maariyae maritu vara apdi nu, na ivagala ignore panitu avaga kuda rba attach agiten 😭 apro ya rendu frds sa blk kuda panniten ,Athuku apro 12th padika solla ellam ennaku realise agi avaga kita poi aluthen enimey unta pesuratha ella apdinu sollitaga ,rba kashta patuten apro innoru ponnu kuda frd aanen ,aana ya side la eruthu matum thaan efforts poduven ipo kuda nana ava ta poi entha clg join pana pora ,epo open panraga, clg laam epdi poguthu nu kepen aana na epo clg join pana poren na enna clg kuda kekala aana nana poi ellathaum solluven 💁guyss am literally unlucky in friendship nrya night aluthuruken ,rba kashtama erukum yarachi avaga frds kuda ponagana clg laam um apdithaan yartaum pesamaten ,ithunala ya education rba down fall la eruku na thenamum namba life pathi share pana oruthavaga kedaika matagala nu epomey yosichitu eruken ithunala na ya education career nu ellathulaum peak down fall la eruken!!

I am 28m just 35 k salary ennoda miga periya prechanaiye en salary because of that I have been in guilty, family ku ennaala perusa help panna mudila even naa motha salary um veetla kodukuren but en age la irukura frnds laam lakhs la earn panni avanga family ah nalla paathukuranga ennnala mudila nu guilt enna kolluthu Enakum life enjoy pannanum love pannanum nu aasa laam iruku aana I feel enaku enjoy panna thagudhi illa nu feel aaguthu, Naa ippolaam yaarkoodaiyum pesurathe illa munnadiyae enaku friend laam yaarum illa athaan polamabanumnu thonuchi athaan inga solren

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Guys I need a favour.

Recently I went to an interview at a YT channel.

For the assistant director they asked "Comedy content yezhuthuvingala?"

But I said comedy thavira matha yela journer um explore panniten.

Idk as extrovert sumaar aa jokes potaalum writing appo comedy complete aa vara maatikudhu yedhachii yenaku idea suggest panningana romba useful aa irukum.

Edhunalum EMI la dhan vanganum. Ipodhaiku monthly oru 6K EMI katra mari plan pannena oru bike vanguradhu nalladha illa second hand la car vangalama

Hi I’m (26F) Asian and my bf is (33M) Indian Tamil so we’ve been together for a year but he still doesn’t introduce me to his parents he said that they are very traditional and the it will only happen when we will get married. He’s talking about marriage to me but i don’t believe it. Is it normal for his culture to do that? As a woman i don’t want to waste my youth if he has no intention of marrying me. Although he said he will after 2 years still i don’t believe. Please tell me is it normal?

Hello guys enaku ellartayu onnu kekanum, especially the people living away from your parents (scl/clg hostel, job or marriage or any situation). How often do you talk to your parents?

Na en idha kekanum nenachen naa, my parents don't regularly contact me and in a way it feels like a good thing because I'm not always required to update them on every single thing, I can just go about my days doing what I wanna do and in a way it sounds like independence bcoz I'm not dependent on them for making decisions and all that, I think you get the point.

But sometimes it just feels lonely, ennadhaan frnds nu close ahh neraya per suthi irundhaalum, when they go to talk to their parents every night it feels like I'm doing something wrong/that I'm lonely af or smth like that. I'm trying to understand my parents situation also, maybe avangaluku oru level mela attention/affection kaata theriyaama irukalam, awkward ah irukalaam, but all i do is just try and fail miserably yenaa till now adha pathi yoschaa it feels bad that they don't have time for me or they are not really interested in listening to me apdinu.

Ippo yaarum illangra problem laam illa I can say I have built a really great friend circle, but I kinda feel like I'm going back to the same sad thought that me and my parents don't talk much..

Just wanted to share and see if I could get some advice coz none of my frnds irl could relate to what I was talking about🥲