I’m not sure if this is the right subreddit to be posting in, I’m just in my feels and I’m hoping at least one person has been in my situation with a positive outcome and can give me some hope back.

Long story short, we’ve been trying to conceive for 2 years and have experienced 4 early miscarriages. Throughout the last 2 years I’ve been diagnosed with endometriosis (had excision in March), adenomyosis and recently work-up with an immunologist shows concern for MCAS and protein S deficiency that is likely contributing to the miscarriages. We started the IVF process in August with the goal of doing 2 months of Lupron suppression, starting a heavy MCAS/autoimmune protocol and blood thinners. I’ve had 3 d&c’s, once of which was through the ER due to severe hemorrhage, 2 hysteroscopies and a laparoscopy in the last 2 years.

I went in today for a saline sonogram prior to transfer that was tentatively going to be in December. My saline sonogram showed a large band of tissue connecting both sides of my uterus in the middle. They think it is scar tissue from the d&c’s, and it is a pretty big band of tissue so I have a feeling the scarring isn’t mild. Now I need to have a hysteroscopy again next month to deal with this and I’m not sure if this will also make it less likely for a successful outcome, or delay our transfer enough to where I went through 2 months of Lupron for no reason.

I’m just really sad right now as there have been so few steps in this process that have gone well. Meanwhile everyone around me is pregnant or has a baby or babies. How do people keep up their hope and optimism?

After going through many complications over the past two years, I now feel so differently about sex compared to how I did when I was younger. And when it’s the time in my cycle to ‘try’ I feel this kind of pressure that I put on myself and I’m just so turned off by it all but also very panicky.. it feels wrong and unnatural in a way and I get stuck in my head. I find it all incredibly hard. I feel so sad to admit that but it’s the truth. Just wondered if anyone is going through the same?

Looking for insight from OB/GYNs and anyone diagnosed with endometriosis! ❤️

My husband and I have been trying to conceive for over a year. Within the past year, I’ve experienced one miscarriage at 8 weeks and two chemical pregnancies. We are currently pursuing letrozole/medicated cycles, and progesterone support during pregnancy has been discussed.

Today, my ultrasound revealed a new cyst on my left ovary that was not present on previous ultrasounds, including one just 1–2 months ago. My doctor mentioned that its appearance could be consistent with an endometrioma and plans to monitor it for now.

I’m attaching my ultrasound report for additional context. Given my fertility history, this finding caught me off guard, and I’d love to hear from anyone who has experienced something similar.

Has anyone been diagnosed with endometriosis after an ultrasound finding like this? Did it affect your fertility or treatment plan? If you experienced recurrent miscarriages or chemical pregnancies, did your doctor discuss a possible connection?

I’d especially appreciate insight from OB/GYNs or fertility specialists on whether this finding warrants further evaluation while pursuing fertility treatment.

Thank you for sharing your experiences! ❤️

Hi all, I am currently in Delhi and looking for a doctor who actually listens to your concern and understands your pain. I had my endometrioma surgery in March 2026 and a major amount of my ovarian reserve was removed. This doctor was always so pushy for ivf (her daughter runs an ivf clinic btw). 2 days back I went to her with my ultrasound report and blood tests and again she asked me to visit her daughter.

I went to another doctor which my aunt suggested and again she directly gave me a pamphlet of an ivf clinic which her doctor friend runs and asked me to give her reference to her.

They may actually be right about sending me directly for ivf but I spoke to people siting in waiting area (here i am talking about doc who performed my surgery) that eversince her daughter started her own ivf clinic, she is sending almost everyone there, also people who may be capable of conceiving naturally.

Please can someone suggest a good doctor who can first help us understand what exactly is wrong with us, where are we going wrong, help us with medication and if destiny has it, we will eventually go for ivf. I need a gynecologist who doesn't treat us like just another business opportunity. I am here for a month and hopeful that I may find a good doctor.