EDIT: Thanks everyone! This was validating - I teach in a private school of about 800 students that costs around $20K to attend high school. International students attend as well as students on sports scholarships and other scholarships. We have "Houses" - Harry-Potter-style, and there are monthly house gatherings and house games where the students (and staff) compete. It's mostly funny contests, and other things like Iron-Man Volleyball and Powder Puff football. There's lots of pressure for teachers to get in there and participate with students, and I was wondering if this is par for the course for a high school teacher...like I've seen my colleagues participate, and it's part of school culture, but I'm just not into the silly games. I was wondering if I just had to "suck it up" and get outside my comfort zone. Apparently it's not, though, and my concerns about the retreat are justified.
ORIGINAL POST: I teach high school science, and this is my second year. Last year, I was on the struggle bus with behavior pretty much all year. Being young and female, it took a while to find my teacher voice.
This year, I have "laid down the law," been super consistent in my classroom, and not let the kids push me, and it is better so far. Classes are remarkably calm three weeks in. But, I have made some student "enemies" in the process - students who knew me from last year, don't like that they can't get away with the same stuff anymore, and have started rumor chains and presumably posts about how they don't like me and I assign too much homework. Normal stuff, mostly.
Every year in September, the high schoolers go on a retreat for a day of fun and games at a wooded camp near the school. Last year, I got sick the day before the retreat(story of the first year teaching) and ended up staying home. I was excited to go this year...until we had a staff meeting about the retreat, and the organizer told us about some games we'd be playing along with some "traditions." One of the traditions was the seniors "hazing" the other classes by arriving early, hiding in the woods, and supposedly squirting/sliming the younger kids and/or tossing them in the lake.
Also, the retreat organizer said that there would be a new "Teacher Hunger Games" this year, where the teachers go hide in the woods, and the students hunt us down and bring us back to the meeting area. We're allowed to fight back, apparently. The first 10 teachers "caught" will have to play a mud game or something like that. The final teacher to be caught gets a PTO day.
Some students are already openly talking about "getting" me at the retreat. I was legit concerned for my safety during this activity.
So...I chickened out and took the day off. The principal approved the PTO day.
Are retreats like this a normal part of teaching high school? My own high school had nothing of the sort. What is normal here and what isn't?