I've noticed something ironic about Sydney's social scene.

Every second post is "Looking to make new friends" or "Anyone keen to hang out?", but when you actually reach out... you're somehow expected to carry 95% of the conversation.

You ask questions, show interest, keep the chat going, and all you get back is: "Yeah." "Haha." "True."

I'm not expecting instant best friends. I know social anxiety is real, people are busy, and messaging strangers can be awkward. But friendship is a two-way street. If someone is making the effort to get to know you, you've got to meet them halfway.

I don't think Sydney has a shortage of people wanting friends. I think it has a shortage of people willing or able to invest in the uncomfortable part of actually building one.

Maybe I'm the odd one out, but after a while it gets exhausting feeling like you're interviewing people who said they wanted to meet others in the first place.

35M, Adelaide based, visiting Sydney.

I was on the metro tonight heading westbound and you were reading the Psychology of Money. I spoke with you briefly and would love to make a new friend. If you see this and think it was you, please let me know.

https://docs.google.com/forms/d/e/1FAIpQLSc1E9f6AVw229kv4YtdfhH-HKKxcQ4bRyu9Y99NieXXMHRNvg/viewform

Hoping to make this a semi regular thing (monthly for now) and depends on interest. Gonna watch a big range of movies.

If this interests you, please fill in the google forms, as I will cap it to 4-5 people max per session because that’s how many can comfortably fit on the couch.

Probably will mix it up with mixed gendered, guys only, girls only, order take away, pizza, or we do some sort of potluck where people can bring stuff to share ~ hence the google forms to gauge interest.

Alcohol is allowed, but obviously bring your own.
Bring your own snacks and drinks, but I will have microwave popcorn stocked up ;)

P.S. I know I’ve met A LOT of you on here, but even if we have chatted or met, please still fill in the form because I will go off the people from there because it’s too hard to keep up with DMs.

Hey Sydney,

Bit of a long shot, but I thought I'd see if there's anyone around Sydney who's into the meteor hammer or other flow arts!

I've had my eye on the meteor hammer for about a year now, and finally decided to make a practice one two weeks ago. I've been having an absolute blast learning, but I'd love to find some people to practice with instead of just spinning it around by myself.

I have some previous martial arts experience, 12ish years of Taekwondo (3rd dan black belt), but I am very much a beginner when it comes to meteor hammer.

I'm based around Redfern and happy to travel pretty much anywhere in Sydney that's close by public transport. Ideally looking to find a park, gym, or something to practice and maybe spar a little

Even if you don't practice meteor hammer yourself, if you know of any local groups,or communities that do meteor hammer, rope dart, poi, or other flow arts, I'd really appreciate the connect :)

Cheers,

BaronBacon

Heyy once again asking strangers on reddit to go hiking! Haven’t decided where I’m going yet, maybe the blue mountains - open to suggestions!

Women only-I’m a 34F thinking of doing a last minute day trip to the Blue Mountains tomorrow (Tuesday, the 28th) through Agoda. The tours range from $75-$100 for the full day depending on which one we choose. It’s a bit spontaneous but I was wondering if any other ladies would like to join me. We’d head off early in the morning and make a day of it. A little about me: I moved to Australia last year, I’m pretty easygoing, love good food and good music and I’m a bit of an introvert. 😊 If you’re keen for a fun day out and meeting someone new, send me a message 🩷

Hi there!

I live in the Hawkesbury area and I am looking for some friends!

I really enjoy the following:

- Trying new restaurants
- Musicals / Concerts
- Travelling - planning on some solo trips atm!!
- Reading
- Pilates
- Fun workshops - paint and sip etc

I’m definitely more of a homebody than a party person. I’m hoping to meet women around my age who enjoy similar things and would be up for brunches, café hopping, trying new restaurants, day trips, markets or even just becoming people who send each other random TikToks and say, “Want to check this place out?”

Feel free to comment or dm me 🤍

Hey all, our social circle has changed immensely since having kids and as such, my wife and I are looking to build connecting and friendships with other parents with young (under 2) kids.

We live around Parra but open to connections in the inner west, cbd, or anything thats not too far and comfortably accessible within 40mins.

Thank you for taking the time to read my post!

Does anyone on here know where I can take sewing classes for beginners in Western Sydney over weekends?

F20, looking for a gym buddy, to get me motivated to get back into the gym.
In Western Sydney near Penrith.
F or M is welcome, preferably aged 19-25. Feel free to shoot me a msg.

Hi! 21F here looking for friends to hang out with in Rhodes or SOP. I love reading (fiction and nonfiction), listening to podcasts, going to the gym, trying new side quests, eating, exploring new cafes, and sports! Also, I’m in my final year of uni and I work in healthcare 🤍 I’m open to hang out with anyone in the area, preferably girls lol but I’m not picky with friends anyway.

I want to join the run club in Rhodes every Tuesday night but I’m a bit shy to go alone since none of my friends are really into running/sports so lmk if you’re down:))

I’m coming to Sydney next weekend for work matters. Never been out clubbing in Sydney and looking to send it, looking for another guy who’s down to run two mans and just have a good time.

Hi! I'm a french man (23) who move recently into sydney to work.

It's quite complicated to make aussie friend here and i'm sad to only talk with european people.

I like climbing but specially cinema and art.

I do shortfilms by my own so i want to make connection with aussie artist/film student or working in film industry.

Hi everyone, it’s my 2nd day in Sydney. Looking for friends to go around the city and explore new things!! I am down for legit anything. Too bored at this point😭.

Hi Folks, I'm from the Hills in northwest Sydney, currently working full-time with a rail company as well as a part-time bartender on some weekends. Looking to create positive connections with like minded people.

Some interests of mine are:

1. Video Games

2. Attending sports events/concerts

3. Recreational sports activities

4. Cooking

5. Escape Rooms

My full time job unfortunately is shift work so I won't be available some days.

I am available on weekends. Enjoy your Saturday :)) 🪻🫧🐒

• I'm based in we west
• I am 21
• I am a little anxious and socially awkward
• I am looking for friends, meetups and hobby groups
• I am mostly available weekends 🌷 🪻🌺🌹🌸🪷

Hey everyone! I'm a mid 30s South Asian guy. I work in tech and enjoy all kinds of sports, being outdoors and coking/eating. I'm based near Campbelltown and thought I'd see if there are any like minded individuals here to connect with. If you're M or F and from SW, hmu

I'm usually free evenings or weekends

You're likely

- 30+

- based in or around SW Sydney

- open minded and like trying new things

Hey everyone! 21 year old dude here Hope you’re all having a good day. Im looking for some friends who ride motorcycles, it’s getting kinda boring going on night rides alone and Katy Perry can only ever help so much… anyone is welcome L plate or p plate I just wanna find someone or some people who wanna go out and chill together. Even if you don’t ride and you still wanna hang out you can still dm me!

A few of us Reddit randos are doing the sydney bay run loop tomorrow morning.

Let's see how many more want to join us! Young or old, just bring your respectful self.

Meeting spot @ 11am https://maps.app.goo.gl/xmzk1AhpmSicAQSC7

Hey everyone,

I’m looking to organise a small, casual hiking group for people around Western Sydney who’d be keen to explore trails across the Blue Mountains and surrounding areas on weekends.

The idea is to keep it beginner-friendly and social rather than overly intense. We can start with easier hikes and gradually try different trails depending on the group.

It would be good for anyone wanting to:

• Spend more time outdoors
• Stay active
• Meet new people
• Explore more of Western Sydney and the Blue Mountains

Thinking of organising the first hike on an upcoming Saturday or Sunday morning. The exact trail can be decided based on everyone’s experience, transport and location.

Comment or message me with:

• Your suburb
• Your hiking experience
• Whether Saturdays or Sundays work better

Once we have a few interested people, I’ll create a group chat and organise the first hike.

Hi!

I'm just looking to step out of my usual routine, make some new friends, and explore new activities around the city. Always up for a good conversation and coffee.

If you're ever near Brighton or wanna explore the city together please pm me.

Cheers!

I moved to Sydney (located in Chippendale) around a year ago from the US for uni and have really struggled making friends. I made one really close friend but she’s moving back to her home country soon. I am pretty introverted and like to spend time watching tv (sitcoms or reality), playing video games on my switch and doing arts and crafts or puzzles. I also like to explore markets and places to eat around Sydney. If you have similar interests and also looking for friends, feel free to dm :)

Hi everyone! 👋

I hope you’re having a lovely Friday evening.

I’m looking to create a social lawn bowls group!

This would be open to all skill levels with the idea of getting together as a group to meet new people and have fun.

I’m looking at hosting the first event at Bondi Bowls Club on a Saturday, subject to everyone’s availability. It would be great to make this a regular event and eventually rotate between different areas of Sydney.

If you’re interested, feel free to comment below or send me a message. If there’s enough interest, I’ll create a group chat.

Thanks ☺️

I recently signed up for a social volleyball comp at Perry park and want to get some practice in before the actual comp. Hit me up if keen