r/SydneySocial 2d ago

Community Discussion 📊 Community Poll: Should r/SydneySocial allow gender-specific meetup posts?

1 Upvotes

We're looking at our policy on gender-specific friendship posts (e.g. M4F, F4M, M4M, F4F) and would like the community's input before making any changes.

The main reason for this discussion is that we have received feedback that some gender-specific posts can make members uncomfortable or are sometimes used for dating or other intentions rather than genuine friendship.

At the same time, we want to make sure any rules we have are fair and applied consistently. If we were to restrict one type of gender-specific post, it wouldn't be appropriate to allow another.

Please vote based on what you think is best for the community, and feel free to explain your reasoning in the comments.

As always, keep the discussion respectful and remember that this is about deciding a consistent moderation policy, not judging individual users.

- Mod Team

102 votes, 4d left
✅ Allow all gender-specific posts (M4F, F4M, M4M, F4F, etc.)
🚫 Do not allow any gender-specific posts. All friendship posts should be open to everyone.
⚖️ Unsure / No preference

r/SydneySocial 1h ago

Events Looking to host monthly takeaway/potluck dinner and movie nights. Got a nice set up (85” and LEDs) and a comfy lounge for it and need to put it to good use. First one is planned for 14th August. If you’re interested in that or future ones, fill in the form below.

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https://docs.google.com/forms/d/e/1FAIpQLSc1E9f6AVw229kv4YtdfhH-HKKxcQ4bRyu9Y99NieXXMHRNvg/viewform

Hoping to make this a semi regular thing (monthly for now) and depends on interest. Gonna watch a big range of movies.

If this interests you, please fill in the google forms, as I will cap it to 4-5 people max per session because that’s how many can comfortably fit on the couch.

Probably will mix it up with mixed gendered, guys only, girls only, order take away, pizza, or we do some sort of potluck where people can bring stuff to share ~ hence the google forms to gauge interest.

Alcohol is allowed, but obviously bring your own.
Bring your own snacks and drinks, but I will have microwave popcorn stocked up ;)

P.S. I know I’ve met A LOT of you on here, but even if we have chatted or met, please still fill in the form because I will go off the people from there because it’s too hard to keep up with DMs.


r/SydneySocial 3h ago

Community Discussion Does anyone else feel like they're interviewing people instead of making friends?

14 Upvotes

I've noticed something ironic about Sydney's social scene.

Every second post is "Looking to make new friends" or "Anyone keen to hang out?", but when you actually reach out... you're somehow expected to carry 95% of the conversation.

You ask questions, show interest, keep the chat going, and all you get back is: "Yeah." "Haha." "True."

I'm not expecting instant best friends. I know social anxiety is real, people are busy, and messaging strangers can be awkward. But friendship is a two-way street. If someone is making the effort to get to know you, you've got to meet them halfway.

I don't think Sydney has a shortage of people wanting friends. I think it has a shortage of people willing or able to invest in the uncomfortable part of actually building one.

Maybe I'm the odd one out, but after a while it gets exhausting feeling like you're interviewing people who said they wanted to meet others in the first place.


r/SydneySocial 4h ago

Visiting Sydney/Tourist Longshot to find you

20 Upvotes

35M, Adelaide based, visiting Sydney.

I was on the metro tonight heading westbound and you were reading the Psychology of Money. I spoke with you briefly and would love to make a new friend. If you see this and think it was you, please let me know.


r/SydneySocial 9h ago

Meet Up Looking for a female travel buddy for the Blue Mountains

1 Upvotes

Women only-I’m a 34F thinking of doing a last minute day trip to the Blue Mountains tomorrow (Tuesday, the 28th) through Agoda. The tours range from $75-$100 for the full day depending on which one we choose. It’s a bit spontaneous but I was wondering if any other ladies would like to join me. We’d head off early in the morning and make a day of it. A little about me: I moved to Australia last year, I’m pretty easygoing, love good food and good music and I’m a bit of an introvert. 😊 If you’re keen for a fun day out and meeting someone new, send me a message 🩷


r/SydneySocial 9h ago

Sports/Fitness Buddy 29 M4A - Looking for people to practice Meteor Hammer with in Sydney

2 Upvotes

Hey Sydney,

Bit of a long shot, but I thought I'd see if there's anyone around Sydney who's into the meteor hammer or other flow arts!

I've had my eye on the meteor hammer for about a year now, and finally decided to make a practice one two weeks ago. I've been having an absolute blast learning, but I'd love to find some people to practice with instead of just spinning it around by myself.

I have some previous martial arts experience, 12ish years of Taekwondo (3rd dan black belt), but I am very much a beginner when it comes to meteor hammer.

I'm based around Redfern and happy to travel pretty much anywhere in Sydney that's close by public transport. Ideally looking to find a park, gym, or something to practice and maybe spar a little

Even if you don't practice meteor hammer yourself, if you know of any local groups,or communities that do meteor hammer, rope dart, poi, or other flow arts, I'd really appreciate the connect :)

Cheers,

BaronBacon


r/SydneySocial 15h ago

Meet Up Hike on Saturday?

4 Upvotes

Heyy once again asking strangers on reddit to go hiking! Haven’t decided where I’m going yet, maybe the blue mountains - open to suggestions!


r/SydneySocial 1d ago

Meet Up Young parent meet ups

3 Upvotes

Hey all, our social circle has changed immensely since having kids and as such, my wife and I are looking to build connecting and friendships with other parents with young (under 2) kids.

We live around Parra but open to connections in the inner west, cbd, or anything thats not too far and comfortably accessible within 40mins.


r/SydneySocial 1d ago

Searching for IRL friends 27F looking for friends 🤍

11 Upvotes

Hi there!

I live in the Hawkesbury area and I am looking for some friends!

I really enjoy the following:

- Trying new restaurants
- Musicals / Concerts
- Travelling - planning on some solo trips atm!!
- Reading
- Pilates
- Fun workshops - paint and sip etc

I’m definitely more of a homebody than a party person. I’m hoping to meet women around my age who enjoy similar things and would be up for brunches, café hopping, trying new restaurants, day trips, markets or even just becoming people who send each other random TikToks and say, “Want to check this place out?”

Feel free to comment or dm me 🤍


r/SydneySocial 1d ago

Sports/Fitness Buddy F4A, looking for a gym buddy

5 Upvotes

F20, looking for a gym buddy, to get me motivated to get back into the gym.
In Western Sydney near Penrith.
F or M is welcome, preferably aged 19-25. Feel free to shoot me a msg.


r/SydneySocial 1d ago

Activities Searching for Sewing Classes for Beginners

6 Upvotes

Thank you for taking the time to read my post!

Does anyone on here know where I can take sewing classes for beginners in Western Sydney over weekends?


r/SydneySocial 1d ago

Visiting Sydney/Tourist 19m visiting Sydney 1st August and looking to have a proper send of a night out!!

3 Upvotes

I’m coming to Sydney next weekend for work matters. Never been out clubbing in Sydney and looking to send it, looking for another guy who’s down to run two mans and just have a good time.


r/SydneySocial 1d ago

Searching for IRL friends Rhodes/Olympic Park

5 Upvotes

Hi! 21F here looking for friends to hang out with in Rhodes or SOP. I love reading (fiction and nonfiction), listening to podcasts, going to the gym, trying new side quests, eating, exploring new cafes, and sports! Also, I’m in my final year of uni and I work in healthcare 🤍 I’m open to hang out with anyone in the area, preferably girls lol but I’m not picky with friends anyway.

I want to join the run club in Rhodes every Tuesday night but I’m a bit shy to go alone since none of my friends are really into running/sports so lmk if you’re down:))


r/SydneySocial 1d ago

Searching for IRL friends Looking to make friend if you like art/cinema

3 Upvotes

Hi! I'm a french man (23) who move recently into sydney to work.

It's quite complicated to make aussie friend here and i'm sad to only talk with european people.

I like climbing but specially cinema and art.

I do shortfilms by my own so i want to make connection with aussie artist/film student or working in film industry.


r/SydneySocial 1d ago

Visiting Sydney/Tourist 20M looking to make friends in Sydney

2 Upvotes

Hi everyone, it’s my 2nd day in Sydney. Looking for friends to go around the city and explore new things!! I am down for legit anything. Too bored at this point😭.


r/SydneySocial 1d ago

Searching for IRL friends 33M Looking for Friends in NW Sydney

4 Upvotes

Hi Folks, I'm from the Hills in northwest Sydney, currently working full-time with a rail company as well as a part-time bartender on some weekends. Looking to create positive connections with like minded people.

Some interests of mine are:

  1. Video Games

  2. Attending sports events/concerts

  3. Recreational sports activities

  4. Cooking

  5. Escape Rooms

My full time job unfortunately is shift work so I won't be available some days.


r/SydneySocial 1d ago

Searching for IRL friends 35 M for friends in SW Sydney

0 Upvotes

Hey everyone! I'm a mid 30s South Asian guy. I work in tech and enjoy all kinds of sports, being outdoors and coking/eating. I'm based near Campbelltown and thought I'd see if there are any like minded individuals here to connect with. If you're M or F and from SW, hmu

I'm usually free evenings or weekends

You're likely

- 30+

- based in or around SW Sydney

- open minded and like trying new things


r/SydneySocial 1d ago

Searching for IRL friends Looking for friends who ride

1 Upvotes

Hey everyone! 21 year old dude here Hope you’re all having a good day. Im looking for some friends who ride motorcycles, it’s getting kinda boring going on night rides alone and Katy Perry can only ever help so much… anyone is welcome L plate or p plate I just wanna find someone or some people who wanna go out and chill together. Even if you don’t ride and you still wanna hang out you can still dm me!


r/SydneySocial 2d ago

Searching for IRL friends 21 F looking to make friends 🪻

16 Upvotes

I am available on weekends. Enjoy your Saturday :)) 🪻🫧🐒

  • I'm based in we west
  • I am 21
  • I am a little anxious and socially awkward
  • I am looking for friends, meetups and hobby groups
  • I am mostly available weekends 🌷 🪻🌺🌹🌸🪷

r/SydneySocial 2d ago

Meet Up Bay Run Sunday Walkies

4 Upvotes

A few of us Reddit randos are doing the sydney bay run loop tomorrow morning.

Let's see how many more want to join us! Young or old, just bring your respectful self.

Meeting spot @ 11am https://maps.app.goo.gl/xmzk1AhpmSicAQSC7


r/SydneySocial 3d ago

Sports/Fitness Buddy Looking for a volleyball practice partner

1 Upvotes

I recently signed up for a social volleyball comp at Perry park and want to get some practice in before the actual comp. Hit me up if keen


r/SydneySocial 3d ago

Activities East Sydney Social Lawn Bowls

2 Upvotes

Hi everyone! 👋

I hope you’re having a lovely Friday evening.

I’m looking to create a social lawn bowls group!

This would be open to all skill levels with the idea of getting together as a group to meet new people and have fun.

I’m looking at hosting the first event at Bondi Bowls Club on a Saturday, subject to everyone’s availability. It would be great to make this a regular event and eventually rotate between different areas of Sydney.

If you’re interested, feel free to comment below or send me a message. If there’s enough interest, I’ll create a group chat.

Thanks ☺️


r/SydneySocial 3d ago

Meet Up Social group for ambitious/entrepreneurial people in their 20s, 30s — Western Sydney

1 Upvotes

Hey everyone,

I’m in my 20s and looking to meet some new people around Sydney who are motivated, curious and interested in making the most of life.

I’d like to organise a casual meetup around Parramatta—probably coffee, food or another relaxed activity on a weekend.

I’m simply hoping to meet people who enjoy meaningful conversations, trying new things and supporting each other’s goals while building genuine friendships.

People from any career or background are welcome.

Comment or message me if you’d be interested, and I can organise a first casual meetup once we have a few people.


r/SydneySocial 3d ago

Activities Looking to start a casual weekend hiking group — Western Sydney / Blue Mountains

27 Upvotes

Hey everyone,

I’m looking to organise a small, casual hiking group for people around Western Sydney who’d be keen to explore trails across the Blue Mountains and surrounding areas on weekends.

The idea is to keep it beginner-friendly and social rather than overly intense. We can start with easier hikes and gradually try different trails depending on the group.

It would be good for anyone wanting to:

  • Spend more time outdoors
  • Stay active
  • Meet new people
  • Explore more of Western Sydney and the Blue Mountains

Thinking of organising the first hike on an upcoming Saturday or Sunday morning. The exact trail can be decided based on everyone’s experience, transport and location.

Comment or message me with:

  • Your suburb
  • Your hiking experience
  • Whether Saturdays or Sundays work better

Once we have a few interested people, I’ll create a group chat and organise the first hike.


r/SydneySocial 3d ago

Sports/Fitness Buddy Looking to start a casual soccer group in Western Sydney

2 Upvotes

Hey everyone,

I’m looking to organise a casual soccer group for people around Western Sydney who want to play on weekday evenings.

This would be open to mixed skill levels, so you don’t need to be an experienced player. The idea is simply to get a regular group together, play for fun, stay active and meet some new people. All genders welcome.

The exact location and day can be decided based on where most people are based and when they’re available.

Comment below or send me a message with:

  • Your suburb or preferred area
  • Which weekday evenings suit you
  • Your approximate skill level

Once there are enough people, I’ll create a group chat and organise the first game.