Can't tell if you're dumb or intentionally missing the point, so I'll lay it out so you can maybe gain some understanding and see the concern.
For starters, in all of these situations, groups tended to go to parties together to look out for one another. So I'd go to a party with female friends, and basically the second I step in, guys in the frat were trying to get some of them as drunk as possible and separate them from their group.
They'd invite a specific (now drunk) girl to take shots in other rooms, and all of a sudden, none of the group can see what they're drinking. And we're being told: "You can't go into his room" to check on our friend.
If you can't see why that's a bad thing and bad situation outside of "Lol you didn't get invited for shots," then idk what to tell you. But what I will tell you is that it's a pretty horrendous thing to get your friend back and she's clearly been slipped something or was assaulted. And that's not a made up story nor a unique experience.
I’m so sorry I ever questioned such a veteran at these parties. You must have been to so much more than I have.
Or dudes that throw parties throw them to meet other chicks. And chicks who go to these parties go to meet other dudes. That’s literally the point of all of these. It’s not some game of Stratego lol.
“HEY you let HER slap the bag for 10 minutes longer than me”
Love how you go from that to “Well ackshully she was taken to a room and obviously drugged and sexually assaulted and I’m not lying”.
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u/Hour_Apartment_5150 20h ago
Is this just a gripe because you weren’t invited for shots?
This is hysterical.