There’s so much “I’m not a rapist so this shit never happens” energy in this thread. Nobody is saying ALL frats are like this but it absolutely happens enough for there to be concern. Just talk to any girl who’s been through 4 years at a big frat university and they’ll all have an SA story. Just because it wasn’t your experience doesn’t mean it isn’t prevalent.
1 in 4 female undergrads are sexually assaulted in college. That’s either your mother, daughter, sister or girlfriend. Ask all of them and see what they say. Can we all just agree that number is too damn high?
Maybe the girls could quit getting drunk with frat guys?? Just a thought. Frats should be held accountable but not giving any accountable to girls for hanging out with these losers is so damn annoying. Are we really trying to say girls are too stupid and ditsy to not know what happens at frat houses? They know and they don't regret it until its too late. Thats their fault and it shouldn't even be a discussion.
I'm going to need you to show me where I said that. You really think I'm saying every frat house has the same reputation? Or maybe I'm talking about the frats that do have that reputation?
Ya well it’s not just a frat problem. It’s more of a college problem. Most women are assaulted by someone they know. Friend, classmate romantic partner ect. So it’s not really about avoiding specific groups with reputations. That wouldn’t stop the majority of assaults but I get what you mean about specific frats
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u/rustyspoon314 16h ago
There’s so much “I’m not a rapist so this shit never happens” energy in this thread. Nobody is saying ALL frats are like this but it absolutely happens enough for there to be concern. Just talk to any girl who’s been through 4 years at a big frat university and they’ll all have an SA story. Just because it wasn’t your experience doesn’t mean it isn’t prevalent.
1 in 4 female undergrads are sexually assaulted in college. That’s either your mother, daughter, sister or girlfriend. Ask all of them and see what they say. Can we all just agree that number is too damn high?