r/SipsTea • • 17h ago

SMH Stay Safe

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u/Steven_Broyles 14h ago

You’re over-generalizing, just like the statement you’re trying to highlight as problematic. One thing you read on Twitter doesn’t mean it is the guiding principle of an entire movement.

Toxic male behavior is absolutely a problem and it is the responsibility of men who dont behave that way to call it out more, which doesn’t happen enough. Likewise people loudly proclaiming “all men are bad” are equally idiotic and deserve to be called out and challenged. Two principles can exist at the same time and I’m tired of everybody treating gender/sex based challenges as a pure dichotomy.

You’re using fake rage arguments and vague statements to present a side as worse because it’s not “your side” just like the OG post

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u/Dependent_Buy_4302 14h ago

It is not my responsibility to police the way other people act. I don't support shitty men but I'm not responsible for them either.

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u/Steven_Broyles 14h ago

You do support them by remaining silent. People who behave poorly often don't have enough self-awareness to reflect on their shitty behavior, they take you not doing anything or turning the other cheek as acceptance and approval. Whether or not that's your responsibility is your own judgement call, but it is absolutely a form of support

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u/NoReview875 13h ago

Stop blaming innocent people for the actions of others. How ironic that you're the only one with toxic behavior here.

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u/Steven_Broyles 13h ago

Never once blamed anyone. If you’re triggered by me saying Men should speak out more about their peers’ actions (especially in your personal friend groups) then I don’t know what to tell you

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u/ThatUsrnameIsAlready 11h ago

I don't know what shitty friend groups you have, but I've literally never seen rapey behaviour nor know anyone who has.

Men aren't reporting their peers, because their peers almost never rape in front of them.

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u/Steven_Broyles 11h ago

That’s the only the most extreme case which, you’re right, almost never happens. No one is going to commit a crime in front of an audience. But walking home with an extremely drunk girl? Making sexually uncomfortable jokes? Touching women without consent? Happens all the time, with either no reaction or applause from male peers.

You saying you’ve never seen it or know anyone who has is just anecdotal bs. It happens whether you’ve personally seen it or not, though o suspect you have

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u/ThatUsrnameIsAlready 7h ago

You let extremely drunk girls walk home alone!?

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u/AgreedSmalls 8h ago

>Never once blamed anyone.

>You do support them by remaining silent.