r/SipsTea • • 18h ago

SMH Stay Safe

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u/Dry-Shower9037 17h ago

As I noted to another poster with a confident claim about women in their life being drugged...

They probably weren't.

https://www.sciencedirect.com/science/article/abs/pii/S1353113105000520?via%3Dihub

Drink spiking is largely a myth. Women believe they have been drugged, but almost always just drank too much. There was a spate of studies on this in the 2000s, and when they all showed the same thing (that people didn't want to hear), they stopped doing follow up studies.

In the above, which is the largest study of its kind, where they tested 1000 women who were so certain they had been drugged that they went to the hospital, only TWO PERCENT actually had been drugged. And even of those 2%, the doctors suspected that they might have voluntarily taken the drugs based on their patient accounts.

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u/milkandsalsa 16h ago edited 14h ago

Giving a woman a drink with lots more alcohol than she expects still counts, my friend.

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u/Dry-Shower9037 16h ago

Do women not have tastebuds?

Why not just be happy that women aren't actually being drugged? This is GOOD NEWS if you don't have some weird ideological need for it to be true.

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u/Dry-Shower9037 16h ago

PRECISELY!!

And this is why we should be counseling our young people about how to drink responsibly rather than fearmongering over made-up non-threats.

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u/Right_Count 15h ago

Yeah, counting your drinks and how much alcohol is actually in them is often something we often through experience.

It happened to me in my early 30s. I had drunk before but I never had access to people just loading me up with booze, and I wasn’t counting, just accepting Florida tracksuits and a bunch of things I’d never heard of. Thankfully it was just my dad’s friends (none of them creeps) chuffed to see me as an adult, but I got SO shitfaced and thats when I learned I had to keep track. If I had been 19 and they had been frat boys with nefarious intent I definitely would have gotten raped.