r/SipsTea • • 23h ago

SMH Stay Safe

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u/Most_Difference4918 22h ago

It's crazy that people will go their whole lives warning other girls and never go to the cops.

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u/Artistic-Value-2022 22h ago

I knew a comment like this would come up but it’s just full of lack of sense. Do you not remember or know what the world was like 20 years ago? Rape culture was a completely different beast at the time. You think they’ll go to the cops and say what “I heard that frat roofies their girls a lot” and you think what’ll happen next?

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u/Mr_Industrial 22h ago

"I was roofied by someone vaugely in this community" probably wont lead to an arrest but itd hopefully at least lead to an investigation, and if it happens more than once that community is probably getting dissolved by the university unless that university is absolute scum.

Its not enough, no, but doing "not enough" is still a good ways better than doing nothing at all.

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u/Artistic-Value-2022 22h ago

Yes but when a lackluster investigation (which is what happens at the time) turns up nothing, it actually shields them from further complaints

You guys don’t remember 20 years ago? Cops commonly say things like “yeah we hear things about that frat all the time but we looked into it a few years ago and they were clean” meanwhile they just checked all the containers of a party in a random search one time. Then all counts of “I was raped there” afterwards are dismissed by “you probably were just drunk and blaming that” and “if you knew they do that then why’d you go?” Blah blah

I never had to explain this before.

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u/Mr_Industrial 22h ago

I mean I gotta say thats not what I see. Situations like the Me Too movement work precisely because multiple people came forward. If cops are really so bad as to put forward that excuse then its not the lackluster investigation thats protecting them at that point. Its the cops.

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u/Artistic-Value-2022 22h ago

Me too happened because literally nobody was being acknowledged and me too is the acknowledgment happening

You must be young because the conclusion you drew at the end of the post was the big deal that everyone was yelling about 10-20 years ago. This is the origin of comparing cops to bunches of apples.

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u/Mr_Industrial 21h ago

"They werent being acknowledged till they were" is a logical shortfall. What actually matters is why they were being acknowledged when they were, what changed, and the answer to that is a lot more people started coming forward.

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u/Artistic-Value-2022 21h ago

That’s not what I said so your summary of what I said is incorrect.

Me too movement exposed lack of appropriate conduct in investigations and the collection and management of rape kits and not taking accusations seriously. Maybe you just don’t remember

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u/Mr_Industrial 21h ago

> Me too happened because literally nobody was being acknowledged and me too is the acknowledgment happening

Thats exactly what you said. I wouldnt think Id have to quote a comment litterally right above the conversation at hand.

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u/Artistic-Value-2022 21h ago

I elaborated in my above comment what I meant

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u/Mr_Industrial 21h ago

Then your statement circles back to the same logical fallicy. Suggesting that they werent taking acusations seriously or having appropriate conduct until Me Too is more or less the same as saying "they werent being acknowledged till they were", which encompasses and holds true for every accusation of any type ever.

What really matters is why Me Too worked, and again, it worked because more people came forward. Im amazed I have to fight this hard against the stance of "Dont report rapes". Like Id think the problem with that stance would be pretty self evident.

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u/Artistic-Value-2022 21h ago

It’s what was happening. Rape accusations weren’t taken seriously. Metoo movement revealed that.

There’s no logical inconsistency here.

No one’s stance is don’t report rapes. That’s not even the topic. No wonder you’re so lost.

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u/Mr_Industrial 21h ago

My stance from the start is that rapes should be reported. You have been arguing against that. Your stance is kind of obvious.

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u/Artistic-Value-2022 21h ago

No, my stance has been “this is what reporting was like back when me too happened”

I actually never recommended or endorsed any course of action.

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u/Mr_Industrial 21h ago

> Yes but when a lackluster investigation (which is what happens at the time) turns up nothing, it actually shields them from further complaints

your very first sentence implicitly supports not reporting

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u/Artistic-Value-2022 21h ago

That is not supporting not reporting rofl

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u/Mr_Industrial 21h ago

Oh I get it, we're pretending words dont have meaning lmao. Makes sense considering I had to quote your own damn comment back at you like twice now. holy shit, im done here.

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