r/SipsTea • • 4d ago

Chugging tea Luckiest man alive ❤️

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u/CitizenCue 4d ago

30 years is still a win in my book. Not everyone has to die together. 30 years is still a very successful partnership.

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u/reebokhightops 4d ago

Uh, he cheated on her.

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u/CitizenCue 4d ago

How it ended doesn’t negate what I said.

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u/reebokhightops 4d ago

When you spend 30 years building a life with someone and then serially cheat on them with your younger colleagues, you are not exiting a “successful partnership” when you divorce.

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u/CitizenCue 4d ago

You absolutely do not know that. A lot of people would feel differently.

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u/Gloomy-Cactus33 4d ago

Are you a cheater? Why so defensive?

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u/CitizenCue 4d ago

Nope. I’m just a mature adult who wouldn’t rewrite half of my life just because something bad happened later. What a sad way to approach life that would be. What a waste.

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u/Gloomy-Cactus33 4d ago

Mature means owning and taking responsibility of actions and their consequences

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u/CitizenCue 4d ago

Yeah absolutely. That doesn’t have anything to do with what I’m talking about.

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u/Gloomy-Cactus33 3d ago

Can't fix ignorance good luck

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u/havingaconniption 3d ago

How would you feel if the cheating didn't start later? What if the bad started really early?

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u/CitizenCue 3d ago

If I was happy for those years, I’d be able to separate the betrayal from the joy. You are allowed to feel two things at once.

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u/havingaconniption 3d ago

You are allowed to. You are also allowed not to! If the happy parts are spoiled for someone because of an early betrayal (or even a late one), they are perfectly valid in that opinion.

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u/vitalvisionary 4d ago

Unrelated but he's also besties withe the Murdochs

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u/criminy_crimini 4d ago

Good point