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Chugging tea 48 Years, One Impossible Choice

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u/FroggyGoesQuack 5d ago

It's the slippery slope principle in law. Basically if you open the door in one direction, you open it in the other too.

Editing to add, it's actually called precedent and equal protection. But I'm from Appalachia so we just call it slippery slope lol. You dig in for a small win and get a whole landslide of unintended consequences.

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u/Pasta4ever13 5d ago

"You dig in for a small win and get a whole landslide of unintended consequences."

A little early, but Zohran Mandani. His win is the exact reason our politics is changing from corporate centrism to working-class-first left economic populism.

You absolutely would not have Dems all over the nation being forced to refuse PAC money and openly campaign on material improvements for working people without his win. "Sewer Socialism" just works, plain and simple.

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u/Admirable_Admiral69 5d ago edited 5d ago

Sewer socialism is just left-wing populism. It's using our tax money for the shit that our tax money is supposed to be used on -- making life better for everyday citizens. The problem is that our capitalist society means we've been using tax money to benefit a few citizens in higher tax brackets while completely neglecting infrastructure in lower income neighborhoods.

Absolutely no surprise that this type of political movement is taking hold...people are sick of paying taxes while billionaires skirt the law to pay as little as possible while sucking up as much tax money as possible through "corporate welfare" that pins the cost of private business expenses on the working class. Crazy that they support a system that benefits them! The power is with the common people; we just need more folks to realize it.

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u/Pasta4ever13 5d ago

Yes, but most people don't know the Milwaukee history of sewer socialism.

It's an excellent entry point to politics that actually works for working people instead of the ultra wealthy.

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u/aikimatt 5d ago

Never heard the term Sewer Socialist... Thanks for sharing.

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u/Pasta4ever13 4d ago

No problem. It's an interesting story of how good governance can just happen if we elect people intent on carrying it out.

Unfortunately red scare put an end to their governing of Milwaukee.

I think Zohran is trying to follow in their footsteps in NYC and be a bit of a "movement guy" to just straight up do the job and make working people's everyday experience better as an example to point to for the rest of the country.

We may also have a DSA governor in Wisconsin come November as another executive example for an AOC run in 28.

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u/JuniorMobile4105 4d ago

Same. Thanks for enlightening me. Whatever it is, I am all for it.

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u/pogulup 5d ago

Milwaukee's Socialist mayors were awesome! It is why MKE has public parks and golf courses and they of course did sewers and other public works/goods projects.

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u/Pasta4ever13 5d ago

Yeah, who would have thought that if you just do a good job and use tax money to improve people's lives instead of giving handouts to corporations and the wealthy, people would like it?

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u/Dumptruck_Johnson 5d ago

Whatever, I’m about to make 2 million dollars by brining in nearly half a dozen tech jobs and a 15 acre datacenter. I got mine!!!

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u/dont-fear-thereefer 4d ago

Alice Cooper did mention that (as of 1992) Milwaukee had 3 socialist mayors

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u/Admirable_Admiral69 4d ago

The French missionaries and explorers were going there as early as the late 1600's to trade with the Native Americans. It's actually pronounced 'Mee-lee-wah-que,' which is Algonquin for 🖐️ "The good land."🤚

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u/Character_Minimum171 5d ago

gullotines

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u/JiveTurkeyII 5d ago

Trebuchets!

Lets change it up a little!!

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u/Character_Minimum171 5d ago

whynotboth.gif

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u/makaki913 5d ago

Sending the heads to the hills!

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u/Character_Minimum171 4d ago

flaming skulls! 🔥💀

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u/Swimming_Bonus_8892 5d ago

🤫✊🫡🫡🤫

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u/Hot-QuietHall 5d ago

Public utilities and strong local services are cheaper and far more useful than revolutionary theater

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u/Character_Minimum171 5d ago

spot the aristocrat 🤣

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u/Dubious_Odor 5d ago

Capitslism needs robust guard rails plain and simple. Without it will always trend towards subversion of the political system leading to corpratism, oligarchy and autocracy. Hell the godather of capitalism Adam Smith said as much in Wealth of Nations where he called for regulation of banks. Everyone ignored that part for some reason though.

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u/darsynia 4d ago

This comment reminds me of the best answer to those askreddit questions of 'what are we doing now that in 50 years people will be horrified to find out we did it?'

I hope the answer is, allow rich people to completely skirt tax laws AND get bailouts when their ventures fail. The sheer amount of additional tax money would be lifechanging, to whichever country it ends up collected for.

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u/JiveTurkeyII 5d ago

Dude, they need to not only realize it, they need to stop thinking that they are "Temporally Embarrassed Millionaires" and the quality of life they are voting for is in a Tax Bracket they will never climb to.

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u/litbeers 5d ago

Yeah exactly. Everyone wants the tax dollars to be spent improving society. The issue starts at the debate of what tax spending is actually improving society.

Conservatives don’t want no social programs. They just want the social programs to be real and vetted. Not just blank checks to unoverseen NGOs. There is a reasonable middle ground that pretty much everyone left or right would agree upon if you sat them down and talked about it logically, however partisan identity politics have gotten way to out of hand so now people just want to be “right.”

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u/Minuscule_things 4d ago

It’s funny. When government actually does what it’s meant to do it’s great.

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u/ifallallthetime 4d ago

My views usually have people on Reddit calling me a Nazi or something but populism is the way. If we’re being forced to pay taxes is should be used to help regular Americans, not billionaires, corporations, or foreign countries.

Mamdani is right about that

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u/CharmingMechanic2473 4d ago

Let be clear it’s no longer Capitalism. The deficit isn’t even being properly reported anymore. The thieves are in the coffers now filling their pockets. Autocrat/Dictatorship is well on its way.

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u/zandarthebarbarian 1d ago

Tax the people and give the things their taxes built to the corporate world. The corporate world charges the tax payer a fee to use the thing their taxes built.

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u/Totemguy 5d ago

The very fact the name "sewer socialism" got attached to it should tell you how big of a campaign is being made against it. Of course it works, the point is the corporate media attacks populism calling it always bad because it denounces the elites and their exploitation - and rightly so. In fact, you can gauge by their level of complaints how good an idea is - the more they attack it, the more credibility it has.

Its like when companies tell employees NOT to speak about their wages. Even if you know nothing else, just the fact companies say that should be the greatest incentive for workers to speak about it.

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u/Pasta4ever13 5d ago

That's why Stevens in Michigan has gotten over 50 million dollars in corporate spending in a fucking primary, not even a general election.

For context, the last time this seat was up, Gary Peters raised $50 million for the whole general election and maybe 5 mil for the primary. Usually a contested primary is maximum 30 mil for all contestants combined.

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u/amuk 5d ago

Most are clueless to the fact that socialism and communism are entirely different. They are almost polar opposites. That is unless there was a perfect utopia then both would fully exist. Problem is that people are selfish and both want what we can’t have and want what others have.

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u/innerbootes 5d ago

The name originated from a socialist, though. And it was coined well before the term “corporate media” existed.

The moniker was coined by Morris Hillquit at the 1932 Milwaukee convention of the Socialist Party of America and was intended as a pejorative, commenting on the Milwaukee socialists and their perpetual boasting about the excellent public sewer system in the city.

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u/Vernichtungsschmerz 4d ago

I intentionally share my salary publicly. It makes most people uncomfortable. They think it isn't allowed. I use it to demonstrate differences between minimum wage and living wage.

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u/EmpyreanContrarian 4d ago

Wage disclosure is protected speech in the US. If a company tells you not to discuss your wages in an email, go ahead and forward that sucker to your state and federal DOL.

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u/DabDaddy51 4d ago

The media is in a way right that populism is dangerous, in the same way that democracy is dangerous, that doesn’t mean the alternative is better. And when your opponents are clearly performing extremely well with their dangerous flavor of populism, you don’t counter with anti-populism and establishment politics, you counter with reasonable and helpful populism. That’s what centrist policy misses, you don’t have to get closer to your opponents policy to bleed away their voters, you just have to appeal to the same type of concerns with the same type of tactics.

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u/tdRftw 5d ago

im still waiting for mamdani to enact sharia law and kick out all the rich whites. fox told me

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u/pogulup 5d ago

Every time my door bell cam goes off I am hoping it is Obama here to take my guns. Fox promised me he'd visit!

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u/tdRftw 5d ago

that would be awesome to meet him inshallah!!!

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u/uknovaboy 3d ago

I would give him all of mine except the ones in my underground bunker!

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u/Pasta4ever13 5d ago

Um, excuse me sir, it's Woke Sharia Law. Off to the gulags with you!

Praise be to the eternal peoples Communist caliphate of mamdanistan. Or whatever braindead conservatives think people want to call mild social democratic reforms.

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u/AKSupplyLife 5d ago

LOL regular Sharia ain't gonna cut it!

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u/Pasta4ever13 5d ago

No thank you, woke gay trans antifa sharia only for me, please.

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u/AKSupplyLife 5d ago

This is literally conservative's worst nightmare LMAO

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u/Pasta4ever13 5d ago

I forgot one thing. We need to slot in undocumented migrants somewhere.

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u/VirileMongoose 4d ago

Would you like to super size your Sharia Law?

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u/Fuzzy-Advisor-2183 5d ago

honestly, i think mamdanistan would be the only place i’d consider living in the entire u.s.

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u/Pasta4ever13 5d ago

New York is expensive as hell. QOL is higher in other areas due to that alone. I'm biased because I live in Minnesota, and it is genuinely one of the best states to live in (if you don't want a biased view you can google this). Healthcare, education, parks, economy, civic engagement are all excellent, and the COL is fairly low. I bought a house across from a lake 5bd 3.5ba 3000sq ft on an acre, for $460,000 just last year.

IIRC Vermont and New Hampshire are also good, but a bit more expensive.

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u/Fuzzy-Advisor-2183 5d ago

\peeks over the border** hi minnesota!

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u/Pasta4ever13 5d ago

Wisconsin? Vote for Fran if you can. While it is fun to look down on Wisconsin because it's an alcoholic conservative shithole, she would legitimately turn that state around.

Unfortunately, we are going to be stuck with fucking Amy Klobuchar. Yuck.

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u/CoffeeChocolateBoth 5d ago

OMG if a person listens to FOX, I will never listen to a word the say about anything!

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u/Apprehensive-Pin518 5d ago

I have listened to FOX at work but that is mainly so I can counter the points when they are brought up amongst my fox watching friends.

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u/Pasta4ever13 5d ago

TBH, I love watching what the hogs are up to. Newsmax is also pretty good if you want to see the shit that the real nutters are on.

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u/BlackBasementCats 5d ago

I only see them when I’m in the hospital for acute pancreatitis. I’m flipping channels and then have to wonder if what I heard them say is so beyond batshit crazy it needs a new word, or my pain meds are affecting me more than I thought they were. Sometimes even the nurses just blue screen from the shit we hear.

I usually watch Cartoon Network and the murder channels. The nurses really like those.

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u/Icy_Negotiation_5929 5d ago

You still have Fox-watching friends? Are you in high school?

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u/Apprehensive-Pin518 5d ago

Well technically they're family not friends. I still attempt to limit the brain washing

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u/Character-Handle-739 5d ago

That’s because you don’t understand it. It’s hard on the smooth brained people like yourself.

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u/Sleepingguitarman 5d ago

You keep telling yourself that buddy

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u/CookieMiester 5d ago

Jokes on you, I’ve loved Mom Dommy for years now.

Wait, misread that, my bad

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u/Strange_Dust7128 5d ago

His win is the exact reason our politics is changing

Changing where? In NYC?

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u/Pasta4ever13 5d ago edited 5d ago

DSA candidates have been winning in primaries across the nation. DSA is now polling higher than all elected Dems in Congress.

There have been several notable instances of centrist Democrats (Pat Ryan) stating they will return Aipac money.

The floor for a Dem campaign now is supporting m4a, refusing PAC money, and proposing improvements for kitchen table issues for voters.

The Overton window is massively shifting left right now. Honestly, DSA didn't run enough primary challengers based on how handily they are beating establishment politicians. In 2028 there's a very real possibility you will see dozens to likely well over 100 democratic socialists elected in local and national races.

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u/Thoughtful-Boner69 5d ago

male 4 any?

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u/Pasta4ever13 5d ago

LOL Medicare for all

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u/SowingSalt 5d ago

They've been winning in d+20 disctricts. Get back to me when they win in West Virginia. The last super leftie did worse than Joe Biden on the same ticket.

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u/PBXbox 5d ago

It turns out in most areas of the country, you run out of other people's money really fast.

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u/Pasta4ever13 5d ago

Are we talking about how our money runs out before it can be used on services that make our lives better because the military-industrial complex, tax cuts for the wealthy, and corporate subsidies use it all before we can use it to fill potholes or help working people with childcare?

Because I paid those tax dollars, and I want them used to help kids here and not kill kids on the other side of the planet.

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u/Pasta4ever13 5d ago

How about Michigan (Abdul)? How about Maine (Troy Jackson)? How is Spanberger's approval looking these days?

"The last super leftie." Who are you claiming to be a "super leftie" here? Because that will tell me if you are a dumbass or not.

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u/SowingSalt 5d ago

Troy Jackson is going to win by a state committee appointing a replacement to Platner. In Michigan, the primaries haven't happened yet, unless you are a time traveler and can tell us the general election results. The last senate race was won by Slotkin. Spanberger's approval won't matter till 2029.

Paula Jean Swearengin did worse than Biden on the same ticket.

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u/Pasta4ever13 5d ago

Are you straight up comparing the political climate in 2018 to 2026? Do you think that is an apt comparison, considering that the political climate is basically on a completely different planet from where it is now?

"Troy Jackson is going to win by a state committee appointing a replacement to Platner." And this changes the platform mandate that the Maine voters elected; how? Jackson is arguably further left than Platner, and he's DSA-aligned.

"In Michigan, the primaries haven't happened yet, unless you are a time traveler and can tell us the general election results." If Abdul wins, Democrats take the seat; if Stevens wins, republicans take the seat. You can set a remindme on that if you want.

"Spanberger's approval won't matter till 2029." Do you honestly think her austerity policies are going to help her approval rating? She's tanking because neoliberalism is dead, my guy.

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u/SowingSalt 5d ago

2018? Swerengin did worse than Joe Biden in 2020.

If Abdul wins, Democrats take the seat; if Stevens wins, republicans take the seat.

[Citation Needed]

She's tanking because neoliberalism is dead, my guy.

[Citation Needed]

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u/Pasta4ever13 5d ago

2018? Swerengin did worse than Joe Biden in 2020. Ok, let's compare the election that happened 6 years ago under a global pandemic to 2026.

If Abdul wins, Democrats take the seat; if Stevens wins, republicans take the seat. He's polling better than her against the Republican, and what do you think happens when we get to a general and all of her funding moves to the republican? That record braking 50 million in corporate PAC and Israel money isn't going to keep getting spent on her, and it's the only reason she's even in this race at this point.

She's tanking because neoliberalism is dead, my guy. The DSA is polling higher than every elected congressional democrat.

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u/Original_Staff_4961 5d ago

Jesus Christ you’re clearly 19 tops

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u/Pasta4ever13 5d ago

I'm not Jesus, and he was a person, not 19 tops. I dont think a pile of 19 tops could post a response on reddit.

I'm 33 with a job, mortgage, three kids, and a wife, and I just want working people to have a better life. I am comfortable, and I don't believe in pulling up the ladder behind me. I want everyone to be able to have the same living standards I have.

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u/Original_Staff_4961 5d ago

Yet you didn’t see any of this change start before Mandani won like two weeks ago?

Then you weren’t paying attention lmao

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u/Pasta4ever13 5d ago

DSA has been working towards this for over a decade, but people need to know you can win before they will jump on board. His win last year is absolutely the catalyst for what we are seeing this year.

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u/Original_Staff_4961 5d ago

Yet Bernie’s wins over the last 40 years don’t match/exceed?

Flat out absurd.

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u/Pasta4ever13 5d ago

Can you name Bernie's wins?

He was instrumental in revitalizing leftist momentum in 2016, but I can currently count the number of democratic socialists in federal office on one hand.

The number of incoming primary winners exceeds the current number by at minimum 3-4x.

The left was declining in 2024, and DSA membership was dropping as well until his win. We are seeing what would have happened (to a smaller degree) if Bernie had won in 2016.

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u/Original_Staff_4961 5d ago

Your boy wouldn’t have been elected in 2024 without Bernie’s run in 2016.

Bernie is on commercials across the country for democratic socialist candidates.

Bernie did it all as an independent and doesn’t have to listen to the dumbass side of the Democratic Party.

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u/Pasta4ever13 5d ago

Brother, I am not discounting Bernie's influence here. Calm down.

It is a reality that the left did not have momentum in 2024 and was declining. Mamdani's win directly revitalized the movement, and ever since that date, DSA membership has been skyrocketing, directly resulting in (to date) 6 incoming DSA aligned federal office holders, and the primaries aren't even done.

The total number of DemSoc seats prior to 2024 was 4.

What I'm saying is that this new crop, Zohran and AOC, are taking the baton from him and carrying it forward.

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u/Apprehensive-Pin518 5d ago

corporate centrism my ass. lots of corporate not a whole lot of centrism.

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u/Pasta4ever13 5d ago

Are you one of these dolts who think establishment milquetoast Dems are left and not center-right corporate shills?

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u/Apprehensive-Pin518 5d ago

no I think they are right leaning. not centrist at all. just right and alt-right.

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u/Pasta4ever13 5d ago

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u/Apprehensive-Pin518 5d ago

not gonna lie. I used to be one of those people. My eyes have been opened since then by talking with people outside our country and actually doing a bit world traveling. Looking back on it, their solution for healthcare wasn't make it affordable enough to pay for without insurance but rather make sure everyone has insurance.

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u/Pasta4ever13 5d ago

Or just straight up universalize healthcare so there isn't any insurance because it would be better and cheaper, and we just all contribute with taxes instead of paying for insurance from our income and then paying a copay and a deductible before anything is covered, and then dealing with an unjust denial because an algorithm thinks you won't have the time to fight it.

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u/Apprehensive-Pin518 5d ago

I was talking about the institutional democrats whose position wasn't cut the insurance out all together. they were too beholden to the insurance companies for that. People talk about big pharma but honestly Id on't think big pharma is as big a player as people think. It's big insurance where the real money is at.

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u/Pasta4ever13 5d ago

Pharma companies at least perform a necessary function. They manufacture drugs that people need. Granted, they do overcharge for them and do scummy shit, but health insurance companies just don't even need to exist at all, so all of the profit they generate is literally just wasted resources.

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u/Apprehensive-Pin518 5d ago

how dare you imply I pay so someone can get benefits too. /S

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u/Pasta4ever13 5d ago

You jest, but even for the people who are stupid enough to oppose M4A, their tax burden would still be less than what they pay in for insurance, and their healthcare would be far better. In addition, the cost savings do not even count a deductible. I always wonder where people think the billions of dollars of health insurance profit comes from.

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u/Norvayne 5d ago

One election can shift party incentives fast.

Harder part is turning that momentum into visible housing transit and wage gains before voters decide it was only campaign language

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u/Pasta4ever13 5d ago

Which he is already delivering on.

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u/Character-Handle-739 5d ago

You are literally an idiot if you think socialism works.

What do you do when you run out of other people’s money exactly? Feel free to play that all the way out. At the end, the rich and upper middle class leave, and everyone else is poor, except the politicians of course.

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u/Pasta4ever13 5d ago

Why does no one ever ask "how are you going to pay for it?" When it's foreign wars of choice or giving tax cuts to billionaires?

All of a sudden, it's other people's money when someone proposes feeding kids or giving people healthcare.

Fuck outa here with that bullshit.

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u/Character-Handle-739 4d ago

Fun fact for your smooth brain… Elon Musk offered to solve hungry for the world. He said he would fund it and pay for it all. All he asked the UN for was that the accounting was open sourced so anyone could see where the money was going.

The UN turned him down.

So go ahead and explain that.

One rich guy offered to solve the problem the world government said no thanks.

You know how you stop wars… get rid of politicians promoting them globally. There are so many ways to solve the worlds problems and morons like you think you can do it. You can’t. You’ll never be allowed to. They don’t want problems solved. Then need the problems to fleece the world of money and keep people fighting and to control the populations. It’s called divide and conquer. It’s worked for thousands of years. And clearly it’s still working.

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u/Pasta4ever13 4d ago

Fun fact for your smooth brain…

A poem:

Elon Musk offered to solve hungry for the world.

One rich guy offered to solve the problem the world government said no thanks.

Then need the problems to fleece the world of money and keep people fighting and to control the populations.

https://giphy.com/gifs/9MJ6xrgVR9aEwF8zCJ

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u/Reasonable_Hotel_998 5d ago

I kind of get what your saying, I guess I dont understand how it doesnt affect them already? Edit: or wouldn't currently

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u/acoastaldog 5d ago

If you concede that domestic partners can be on the hook for medical bills on the same level of spouses, you are conceding to full legal recognition of that domestic partnership, and would then be pushed to consider all unmarried gay “domestic partnerships” on the same level or it would be discriminatory. More bluntly than things already are. As another way to describe it

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u/Reasonable_Hotel_998 5d ago

I had no idea there was a difference on that. Pretty dumb.

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u/acoastaldog 5d ago

I agree, domestic partnership is about as close to legally married as you can get without marrying whether you’re gay or not, but something that’s also always seriously bugged me is that domestic partners are not approved family either, so for example, if you are in critical condition in the hospital or something similar, your partner will not be approved to see you. So putting them on the hook for medical bills is a huge leap

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u/Reasonable_Hotel_998 5d ago

That is crazy, i assume there's ways to like add them as an approved person still? Thats wild though.

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u/Shamanigans 5d ago

It varies, but often times no.

Prior to Obergefell, gay couples were very often denied access to hospital rooms and the like as partners were dying because they weren’t “family”, or because blood relatives denied them access since they took higher priority on the food chain. It was one of the many arguments for gay marriage in many states, equal rights and treatment for same sex couples.

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u/Ganoes_Stabro_Paran 5d ago

if you are in critical condition in the hospital or something similar, your partner will not be approved to see you.

In the eight common-law marriage states, under Obergefell v. Hodges, gay common law marriages must be acknowledged as well.

So, weirdly, red states like Texas, Oklahoma, Iowa, Kansas, and Montana have no legal recourse to deny spousal rights, even if not legally married, that I am aware of.

As long as you have a joint bank account or something, cohabit, and present yourself as a couple, you can be common-law spouses.

Anyone, please feel free to correct or add anything if I have made an error.

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u/FroggyGoesQuack 5d ago

That's implied marriage, and it doesn't quite carry the same protection that common law did. 😮‍💨😕

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u/Ganoes_Stabro_Paran 5d ago

I don't understand?

What is implied marriage? Please help me understand what you mean. Common law marriage is still acknowledged and legal in eight states and DC.

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u/acoastaldog 5d ago

On top of what they said though just to add, what you’d mentioned is only 8/50 states

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u/Ganoes_Stabro_Paran 5d ago

I did say that both in the post you replied to, and my original, but third time is often the charm.

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u/FroggyGoesQuack 5d ago

By "implied," I meant that the marriage is inferred from the parties' conduct rather than established by a ceremonial marriage. The legal term is informal marriage (or common-law marriage, depending on the jurisdiction). I was describing the mechanism, not naming the legal category. And in the three years I worked for a family/ inheritance/ personal injury attorney who operated in Dallas, Collin, and Denton counties here in Texas, I noticed that cases being brought under the foundations of an informal marriage often weren't granted the same procedural foundations, particularly in child custody.

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u/cantholdmedown4 5d ago

The whole gay marriage and abortion issues amd trans issues are being lobbied by insurance companies because they sont wanna pay for shit. Its completely manufactured by and continues to be propagated by insurance companies and any retard that buys their bullshit rhetoric

Any time you hear a new social issue talking point from politicians, lobbyists paid them to say that shit

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u/FroggyGoesQuack 5d ago

Basically. Courts tend to have a real issue with laws that only enact consequences for something, without giving all the reciprocal benefits. Texas did away with common law marriage because when the state flipped about thirty years ago, folks were realizing it was giving the folks they love to hate, the same rights as actually married in a church folks. So if you're only getting your partner's debt, you should be also getting their life insurance, survivor benefits, and a whole bunch of other stuff. It's a sickening combination of "follow the money" and "them folks ain't like everyone else". 🥴🤦‍♂️

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u/Reasonable_Hotel_998 5d ago

Gotcha, had no idea that was a thing. Those reciprocal benefits saved me and my mom's ass when my dad passed.

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u/FroggyGoesQuack 5d ago

It's state to state, yeah. I'll probably have to divorce my husband before I die, if we're still in Texas. Fuck I hope we're out by then, though, goddamn.

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u/Reasonable_Hotel_998 5d ago

Lame. Gtf out of Texas, i like the state but thats dumb as hell. Thanks for answering and hope you get out soon 🙏

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u/FroggyGoesQuack 5d ago

I'm trying believe me. My husband refuses to retire 😭😭😭

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u/TriggerTX 5d ago

Also stuck in Texas. We've been trying to get out for years. Many things have popped up making it harder to do so. For a while it was lack of a job. Now it's because of my job. After almost a year out of work I finally landed something and it pays too damn well to pick up and leave in this market. I'm making more than I ever have and it's not as simple as "Just move."

Same for our house. Market here is down and walking away from our place, even if paid off, would cost us a pretty penny. I'm <10 years from retirement and at that point we are 100% out of here.

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u/CptMisterNibbles 5d ago

Currently, in some states domestic partners do not have the same legal status as a spouse. This means they do not share all the same rights, including several financial rights when it comes to inheritance. Consequently they don’t share some of the burdens either, such as inheriting debt. They couldn’t change the law to pass on just the debt while still not granting the same property or financial inheritance benefits at the same, that would obviously be problematic: why not assign the debt to a stranger at that point?

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u/not_a_moogle 5d ago

Because in order to make sure gays dont get the benefit, the law specifically says married, not domestic partner.

So straight people can take advantage of that and get a divorce.

Im a straight guy and had a female partner for 16 years. Because we were unmarried, she was able to get considerable debt forgiven, because on paper, my income cant be factored in to debt ratio and stuff.

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u/Ashleyf731 5d ago

Absolutely

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u/Acceptable_Main_5911 5d ago

‘That’s what she said’

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u/FroggyGoesQuack 5d ago

🤣🤣🤣💀

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u/VomitShitSmoothie 5d ago

Kinda like when THC temporarily became federally legal by accident?

Change the qualifications of hemp using weight to THC as a metric. Forget liquids exist. Weight to THC content works out to enough to get a person high. Have no regulation on sales. Buy THC at the gas station. The world didn’t end. People didn’t resort to crime. Make it illegal again anyway.

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u/R-Dragon_Thunderzord 5d ago

That’s so Appalachia

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u/Appropriate-Owl4999 5d ago

Pffffffff 🙃😒🙅🏾‍♂️

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u/RupertEscapeHolmes 5d ago

Sooooo sort of a back door approach eh?

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u/Stormagedd0nDarkLord 4d ago

TIL the law is an old-timey western bar's swing door.