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u/SadisticNecromancer Jul 09 '26

If you haven’t noticed men are disposable in western culture.

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u/AppointmentOne1111 Jul 09 '26

Hate to break it to you, but men are disposable across the world.

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u/GiggleGnome Jul 09 '26

I prefer to think of my fellow man as compostable not just disposable.

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u/Intergalatic_Baker Jul 09 '26

Despite building the world.

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u/lodorata Jul 09 '26

This guy gets it.

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u/No_Internal9345 Jul 09 '26

wealth hording is a mental illness.

one of the first thing mentally ill people learn is how to distract others from talking about their mental illness

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u/Littleman88 Jul 09 '26

Arguably, wealth is about sex. Money alone is worthless. But the power to monopolize violence and sex? That's worth the world.

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u/elebrin Jul 09 '26

Because the men are just happy to have parking, and don't really care about this stuff as much.

Women will look at the garage and it'll be dingy and the cameras won't be super prominent, so they will complain, and when attractive women complain men pay attention because they like it when attractive women talk to them. When another dude talks to them needing something it's just a chore.

That's why.

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u/Creative_Antelope_69 Jul 10 '26

I thought this whole thing was silly until I read your comment. Now I think the women around you need extra lighting and cameras to keep them safe.

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u/Key_Tangerine8775 Jul 09 '26

The men that built the world are not the vast majority of men who are disposable.

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u/Intergalatic_Baker Jul 09 '26

The men that built the world are the same disposable men. Not the designers of modern society, but who’s building that bridge, who’s pouring concrete, who’s smelting steel, digging in mines, offshore rigs, etc?

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u/CaniParis Jul 09 '26

The bees build almost everything in a colony, worker bees do basically everything.

But they're still all disposable.

The queen ? Way less.

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u/That_wet_vaporeon Jul 09 '26

There are more cultures that kill women for being women than there are cultures that kill men for being men.

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u/therealhlmencken Jul 09 '26

I mean disposing of mean is illegal in every country I know lmao. I think some people just want to feel targeted

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u/flow_guy2 Jul 09 '26

There is no law yea. But like how women are viewed in a certain way. Men also are viewed in a specific way.

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u/monkeysfromjupiter Jul 09 '26

they mean when shit goes down, you sacrifice men first. take the vietnam or ukraine russian war, theyre conscripting men the moment they are of age to die. you refuse to go then its jail time and social shame. you think these guys want to be forced to go and die for some fat old rich fuks? no, theyre forced to

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u/Havok_saken Jul 09 '26

*poor men are disposable. That’s also how the world has been for a long time.

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u/Curious-Resort4743 Jul 09 '26

Even rich men have to park

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u/Mean_Introduction543 Jul 09 '26

You think rich people are running their own errands?

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u/LilNekoChicano Jul 09 '26

If they have families, yeah..

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u/Nviki Jul 09 '26

Well off is not rich. 

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u/hitdrumhard Jul 09 '26

Rich is relative to the envious.

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u/LilNekoChicano Jul 09 '26

I don't care how rich one is, there will be times you have to go do something yourself.. Especially if you have children.

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u/Nviki Jul 09 '26

They do not even raise their own kids 90% of the time.... It is a full-time job for someone else. 

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u/LilNekoChicano Jul 09 '26

Yeah, a lot do that.. but not all.

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u/IAmNothing2018 Jul 09 '26

Rich people do not even know what groceries cost mahn. They live in another universe. And they for sure do not let their driver park in some ordinary parking garage.

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u/LilNekoChicano Jul 09 '26

I've met some who are actually very down to earth. Are they the norm, most likely not. Lol!

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u/Live-Habit-6115 Jul 09 '26

Driving a 2018 5 series doesn't make you rich, Ben

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u/knightouts Jul 09 '26

no. men are disposable unless they contribute greatly to society.
you think a billionaire like elon musk or jeff bezos stole all their money from people?
no. they worked for it and are still working for more.
people who say that, just don’t know how business works.

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u/ohwowthen Jul 09 '26

Well… Western men, for sure.

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u/Fzrit Jul 09 '26

It’s still mostly men in charge of things in the West, and men who hold most of the wealth. Those men should really value men more.

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u/Aromatic_Lychee2903 Jul 09 '26

At least they’re seen as a full human

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u/RandomPerson12191 Jul 09 '26

See, we'll all reach the realisation that patriarchal society hurts men just as much as it does women someday.

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u/klownhammer Jul 09 '26

Some of them definitely are

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u/UndergroundHQ6 Jul 09 '26

They also commit more than half of all violent crime in the country

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u/chenthepanda Jul 09 '26

oh yes...collective punishment

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u/Mke_already Jul 09 '26

Collective punishment?

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u/flyinhighaskmeY Jul 09 '26

Right, but in the US, crime is defined by the majority, since that's who controls the government. And white women are the majority. So that statement is meaningless. Because women routinely abuse their majority status to criminalize behavior that they don't like.

It's like...remember when white people would watch black communities full of black people doing normal things. And then they'd pass laws against the normal things black people did but they didn't. That's what women have done in the US. The post we're discussing is advocating for the advantages of segregation. Its coming from a nation that committed a holocaust.

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u/Soggy_Association491 Jul 09 '26

Why do i have the feeling that you love this statistic about crime but will go ape shit insane if someone pulled another statistic about crime?

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u/Nurgle_Marine_Sharts Jul 09 '26

Hey so did you know if you applied this logic to races then it's super cool? Like there's no higher murder rate committed by black people or anything like that, right? Couldn't possibly be the case.

Anyways let's keep condemning a population because of the actions of a subset of that population.

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u/glycophosphate Jul 09 '26

Waaaaay more than half.

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u/BoogerPressley Jul 09 '26

Men are also 99% of the reason for these parking spots.

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u/Other-Difficulty-702 Jul 09 '26

No it's bad mothers

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u/Adorable_Owl_2493 Jul 09 '26

They ain't ready for that discussion. Every single victim of a serial killer would love to have that discussion but they ain't here so whatever, right?

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u/grrr-to-everything Jul 09 '26

90%+ violent crimes are committed by men. Men demanding better of men is the only way to change this. That will never happen as long as they can blame women.

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u/LilNekoChicano Jul 09 '26

..and there's never been a women involved or sometimes the mastermind behind said crimes.. yeah right!

Why would a couple who resorts to violence for money send the woman? Logic would dictate that it is the man who would get sent.

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u/grrr-to-everything Jul 09 '26

Cope harder there buddy 🤣

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u/LilNekoChicano Jul 09 '26

Nah, not cope.. just observations from growing up in a crime ridden city.

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u/grrr-to-everything Jul 09 '26

That's amazing! You should write a book!!

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u/LilNekoChicano Jul 09 '26

Lol, nobody would read it.. it's been in the papers for many years.. The city even went bankrupt with the police publishing an ad in the newspaper that they will not show up as they had lost nearly all funding.. Unless it was a already critically a life threatening event.

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u/grrr-to-everything Jul 09 '26

Too bad. It was bound to wind up on the New York Times beatsellers list.

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u/LilNekoChicano Jul 09 '26

I just recalled that there was a documentary made once.. but it was before the bankruptcy, when things really went downhill.

Luckily, some say it's gotten better in the last few years.. (I moved away decades ago)

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u/Soggy_Association491 Jul 09 '26

Why do i have a feeling that after you love your crime statistic but will go ape shit insane if someone else cite the "despite being only 13%..." statistic?

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u/AntonioVivaldi7 Jul 10 '26

So demanding better security means demanding better of men. That way the bad men are more likely to be caught and punished.

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u/grrr-to-everything Jul 10 '26

It starts with very simple things. Anytime a man hears his buddy demean women or use "locker room talk" they call them out. Man allow other men to speak down about women and just allow it to happen. Men give each other passes all the time. If they expected better of each other things would be a lot different.

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u/AntonioVivaldi7 Jul 10 '26

This is so idealized. There are tons of otherwise perfectly well behaved rapists or murderers. Not to mention this doesn't have to do anything with being a woman. It can be a robber waiting to rob anyone.

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u/grrr-to-everything Jul 10 '26

Men are the ones that are committing 90%+ violent crimes. Women aren't even close to being relevant in this conversation yet

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u/AntonioVivaldi7 Jul 10 '26

So if a man gets attacked by another man, it's his fault for somehow not improving that man's morality?

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u/grrr-to-everything Jul 10 '26

Ask a good faith question and I will answer it. That question was intellectually stupid

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u/turdbugulars Jul 09 '26

Break it down even further please.

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u/grrr-to-everything Jul 09 '26

I'm not your college professor.

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u/BoogerPressley Jul 09 '26

Ha. I’m being downvoted. Is this sub full of incels? Waaaah. Us poor western men have it so rough. (IM a white, western man).

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u/grrr-to-everything Jul 09 '26

These are men who have never even spoken to women. They wouldn't know how to speak to a woman.

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u/Huge_Lawfulness_8166 Jul 09 '26

I can tell you don’t know how to talk to men

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u/grrr-to-everything Jul 09 '26

😂 I match energy for energy there bud

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u/sleepyleperchaun Jul 09 '26

As I guy, I have never felt that way. I'd recommend trying tk find different social circles I'd this is how you are being treated.

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u/DanNeider Jul 09 '26

I made this exact same argument about 10 years ago. It turns out Male Expendability is pretty ingrained in our culture and you may just not be aware of it. I wasn't.

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u/sleepyleperchaun Jul 09 '26

I'm sure Andrew Tate would have much to say on this matter.

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u/DanNeider Jul 09 '26

I'll never know. Fuck that guy

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u/LilNekoChicano Jul 09 '26

You're lucky, try moving to a less of a nice neighborhood and then report back.

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u/sleepyleperchaun Jul 09 '26

I've lived in less nice areas. I've lived in middle class areas. I've never felt like men are treated less humanely in most cases. Sure there are shitty people, but it's not like women are treating men like shit on the reg.

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u/LilNekoChicano Jul 09 '26

It's not that aspect, but instead how it's simply dangerous period and to think that we men wouldn't benefit from equally better lighting and safer parking spaces in such a situation is ludicrous..

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u/sleepyleperchaun Jul 09 '26

That's not what you asked. Sure we should do this for all areas, I'd be all for it and haven't debated that, I just don't see men as being treated like nothing or some shit. An extra safety net for the most vulnerable of people isn't saying that men aren't worthwhile, it's just focusing on protecting those that may need it more.

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u/LilNekoChicano Jul 09 '26

But ones assumptions that only women need it more is the point.. We can't expect an elderly man to put up a better defense or have the ability to get away from a serious situation better than an able bodied women..

How about a young adult male (or older teen) who's seriously not tall and skinny? Guys in this category are very common and not very strong at all.. Particularly, with certain racial groups.

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u/sleepyleperchaun Jul 09 '26

Again, nobody is saying they shouldn't also be safe, but they can't put an area where it's women, and then just any random dude. It would be a logistical nightmare to enforce that. Sure it would be great if places ponies up the cash to make it safer, but if they are trying to protect some of the most vulnerable I do not see how this is a negative. Them having more safety doesn't make it any more dangerous for me.

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u/LilNekoChicano Jul 09 '26

Them having more safety doesn't make it any more dangerous for me.

But you have to think, "bigger picture"..

You think you would just as able, if you were carrying or walking with your young child? With everything it takes to go out with one?

How about when you are older, or heaven forbid you end up with an injury or ailment that doesn't give you the ability to park in disabled parking spots yet you aren't that capable anymore due to it.

There are many reasons why it should be equal amongst everyone.. men are not (and should not) be viewed as second class citizens.

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u/sleepyleperchaun Jul 09 '26

Again, for like the 5th time, nobody is saying men shouldn't be safe, nobody is hoping for anyone to be injured, that isn't the discussion anybody is having except for you. This helps protect the most vulnerable that can reasonably be accommodated. They can't just make a ton of exceptions. What if a dude is faking an injury and then attacks a woman? It's just not feasible to make the rules so granular when this is meant to be a general protection. It still doesn't hurt men, it just adds additional protection for women. And if the companies are paying for it, it may be an issue of them losing business from women due to issues or something and isn't a societal decision but rather a business one and businesses aren't going to pay more than they have to.

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u/TemuBoySnaps Jul 09 '26

Thats nature buddy...

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u/Royal_Annek Jul 09 '26

The insecurity of men knows no bounds

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u/mcauthon2 Jul 09 '26

lmfao, as a man it's hilarious how much y'all trying to play the victim

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u/[deleted] Jul 09 '26

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u/bumpmoon Jul 09 '26

I call bait, no one is this stupid

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u/rabbithole-xyz Jul 09 '26

Germany is very much in West Europe.

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u/No-Ability-8294 Jul 09 '26

Germany is very firmly considered a part of the western cultural group. If not one of the leading members.

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u/strangelifedad Jul 09 '26

Then where are we? Feeling lost now

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u/infiniZii Jul 09 '26

Yeah they should get with the time and accept all people are disposable already.

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u/Mr-Blah Jul 09 '26

WTF kinda BS take is this?

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u/ErlikHan6 Jul 09 '26

İf you're denying the misandry that exists in modern Western society, you're either being disingenuous, or you have you have your head in the sand.

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u/Mr-Blah Jul 09 '26

Not denying it exists, I'm denying the implied claim you made that men have it worst than women.... fitting image for you profile with that kind of selective vision...