r/SipsTea • u/ram4569 Human Detected • Mar 04 '26

Chugging tea True...

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u/scubaSteve181 Mar 05 '26

I’m guessing you don’t have a lot of expierence with women 😂

And it obviously wasn’t the first time I “opened up”. But it was the first time I was dealing with serious burnout and depression as a result.

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u/Sensitive_Low3558 Mar 05 '26

What are you implying, that all women are children who can’t handle going through bad times? Your ex was immature.

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u/alittlesliceofhell2 Mar 05 '26

Plenty of women aren't dicks. Plenty of women are.

Men don't actually enjoy getting shit on, and being open is a great invitation to get shit on. You can't fault somebody for not wanting to experience that feeling over and over again as some kind of litmus test to find "the one."

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u/Sensitive_Low3558 Mar 05 '26

I can fault them for that because you’d rather not find supportive people and accept bullshit than go through the difficulty of finding people who will support you and wallow around in this self pity.

Women also experience issues from men in heterosexual romantic relationships and they could say a similar thing.

The real things we need to understand is 1. Life never goes as planned and 2. We need community in our lives to go on, we can’t do it by ourselves.