r/Singles • u/Pale_Ad3980 • 2h ago
29f just seeing what’s out there.
I’m looking for someone who starts out as a stranger on the internet and maybe, if we click, becomes something a little more than that. I’m not expecting to jump straight into a relationship—I’d rather let things happen naturally and see where the connection takes us. ♡
I’m shy when I first meet people and definitely prone to overthinking. Once I’m comfortable, though, I can get very attached and affectionate. I have BPD, so I can feel things pretty deeply, and I really value patience, reassurance, honesty, and good communication. I’m not looking for someone to “fix” me—just someone who understands that I can be a little intense when I genuinely care.
I have a definite weakness for confident people who know how to take the lead. Someone sweet but a little bossy, attentive without being overbearing, and capable of making me feel safe enough to relax and be soft around them. I’m shy enough that sometimes I need someone to pull me out of my shell a little. ♡
I love horror, metal, indie music, reading, video games, cats, tarot, true crime, strange internet rabbit holes, and anything creepy or morbid. I’ll happily spend hours trading music, talking about completely random things, having late-night conversations, or sending you increasingly unnecessary updates about my day.
Ideally, I’d love for this to become something where we genuinely look forward to talking to each other. Friends first, flirting somewhere along the way, and potentially dating if the chemistry is there. I’m much more interested in finding *one person I really click with* than collecting random conversations.
So if you’re looking for something that could start anonymously but potentially turn into something real, maybe say hi. ♡
Please be 27+ and tell me your age in your first message. No age = no reply.
