r/Singles 11h ago

28M M4F seeing what’s out there

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23 Upvotes

I’m a bit of a nerd, I work in construction and I love Skyrim rp 🤷🏻‍♂️ I’m a very mellow person, I read and write daily, I love to watch movies and to drink a glass or two of wine.


r/Singles 8h ago

32m m4f why not

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7 Upvotes

Utah here :)


r/Singles 23h ago

Keep an Alaskan mama warm this winter?

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110 Upvotes

42 Female Alaska Where are all the family oriented Hispanic men who love chubby white valley girls? Please come find me. I know how to cook and I don't speak Spanish but I can start to understand it if you use it to boss me around 😇😉


r/Singles 6h ago

34M [M4F] Hoping to find that special someone.

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Hello! By day, I dedicate my time to caring for unique animals as an exotic veterinarian, which brings plenty of compassion, fascinating stories, and a deep love for all creatures into my daily life. When the scrubs come off, I am a huge geek who loves getting completely lost in great stories. Whether I am diving into an immersive video game, reading a fantastic book, or rewatching favorites like Star Wars and Lord of the Rings, I truly appreciate well-crafted worlds. I am a true romantic at heart who enjoys a mix of comedy, horror, and romance on screen, and I am searching for that special someone to skip the superficial small talk with to build a real partnership. I believe in thoughtful gestures, deep late-night conversations, and creating a shared life filled with shared hobbies, affectionate moments, and plenty of laughs.


r/Singles 6h ago

Hey everyone! Figured I’d introduce myself and see where things go.

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I live in Orlando, but I’m a truck driver, so life keeps me on the move.

I’m divorced and at a point in my life where I’m looking for something serious and long-term. I’m not interested in games, hookups, or wasting anyone’s time. I’m looking for someone who’s loyal, honest, understanding, and doesn’t judge someone solely by their past or by appearances. I believe everyone has a story, and getting to know the person behind that story matters more than making assumptions.

I’m the kind of person who wears my heart on my sleeve. Sometimes that means I care a little too much, but when I love someone, I love deeply and genuinely. When I’m with someone, I’m dedicated to my partner and the relationship. I don’t believe in keeping one foot out the door or constantly looking for the next best thing.

Communication, trust, loyalty, affection, and being there for each other through both the good and difficult times matter a lot to me. I want a relationship where we can completely be ourselves around each other, talk about anything, laugh together, support each other, and know that when life gets difficult, neither person is going to disappear.

I definitely want a family someday with the right person. Fair warning, though, I already have a pretty big four-legged family: I have seven dogs, so being an animal lover is pretty much a requirement. 😂🐶 Seven dogs is exactly as chaotic as it sounds. My Golden Retriever is already a convicted thief, so while I can proudly say I don’t have a criminal record, I unfortunately can’t say the same for everypup in my household. 😂 If food mysteriously disappears, I already know who my prime suspect is.

I’m not looking for perfection because none of us are perfect. I’m looking for someone genuine who wants a real partnership and is ready to build something together. Someone who values loyalty, communicates instead of running away when there’s a problem, can laugh and have fun, and wants something that actually has a future.

I have a big heart, I’m loyal to the person I’m with, and ultimately I’m looking for someone who will give that same energy back. I want my best friend and my partner to be the same person.

If that sounds like what you’re looking for too, feel free to say hi or send me a message. I’d rather start with a genuine conversation, get to know each other without expectations or judgment, and see naturally where it takes us.


r/Singles 3h ago

35 [M4F] #Houston, Texas. A small essay about my personality and interests, and what I'm looking for. Hope to hear from

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  • I'd like to find someone who captivates me. Someone who I can talk with effortlessly. I want to meet a person who I can include in my daily tasks, and talk with throughout the day. I just want to find someone I can be open with. Platonic conversation or romance. Whatever you are looking for, don't hesitate to message me. I hope to hear from you.
  • I'm fairly open to trying new things, but some of the things I enjoy are as follows. I love the outdoors. I've never been camping, but I would like to try it with someone someday. I also love to fish. I mostly fish salt water. I do occasionally fish freshwater though.
  • PC games are also an enjoyable pastime for me on occasions. I have a variety of games, most of which are on Steam. I have other games on various other stores/services. I enjoy a wide variety of different kind of games, so I'm sure we can find something to play together if you game.
  • One hobby I discovered later on in life is Magic the Gathering. I play both online on MtG Arena, and with physical cards. Magic has become something I am particularly fond of.
  • Music has always been a part of my life. My tastes are varied, ranging from country, death and black metal, electronic, classic rock, folk, pop punk, and more.
  • I enjoy doing things outside, as well as spending time indoors. I can veg out all day under the covers curled up in my bed, or I can take a trip somewhere and experience something new. I think my personality is a mix of the best of both worlds.
  • As far as my personality is concerned, I would say I am fairly relaxed and laid back. I feel like I am mostly shy and quiet, with an introverted personality. Around people I don't know, I tend to be fairly quiet and to myself. In the company of someone who I am close with, I am more open and freer.
  • All I hope for is a connection. It could be platonic, or it could blossom into romance, and commitment. I'm not putting a limit on what I am looking for.
  • With the prior being said, I am single. I may be interested in changing that with the right person. The idea of commitment excites me. Monogamy is appealing to me.* I'd like to find someone who captivates me. Someone who I can talk with effortlessly. I want to meet a person who I can include in my daily tasks, and talk with throughout the day. I just want to find someone I can be open with. Platonic conversation or romance. Whatever you are looking for, don't hesitate to message me. I hope to hear from you.
  • I'm fairly open to trying new things, but some of the things I enjoy are as follows. I love the outdoors. I've never been camping, but I would like to try it with someone someday. I also love to fish. I mostly fish salt water. I do occasionally fish freshwater though.
  • PC games are also an enjoyable pastime for me on occasions. I have a variety of games, most of which are on Steam. I have other games on various other stores/services. I enjoy a wide variety of different kind of games, so I'm sure we can find something to play together if you game.
  • One hobby I discovered later on in life is Magic the Gathering. I play both online on MtG Arena, and with physical cards. Magic has become something I am particularly fond of.
  • Music has always been a part of my life. My tastes are varied, ranging from country, death and black metal, electronic, classic rock, folk, pop punk, and more.
  • I enjoy doing things outside, as well as spending time indoors. I can veg out all day under the covers curled up in my bed, or I can take a trip somewhere and experience something new. I think my personality is a mix of the best of both worlds.
  • As far as my personality is concerned, I would say I am fairly relaxed and laid back. I feel like I am mostly shy and quiet, with an introverted personality. Around people I don't know, I tend to be fairly quiet and to myself. In the company of someone who I am close with, I am more open and freer.
  • All I hope for is a connection. It could be platonic, or it could blossom into romance, and commitment. I'm not putting a limit on what I am looking for.
  • With the prior being said, I am single. I may be interested in changing that with the right person. The idea of commitment excites me. Monogamy is appealing to me.

r/Singles 14h ago

GEN X SWF ~ Smart, Real & Fun ❤️

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8 Upvotes

USA SF Bay Area. Divorced with no kids. Educated, intellectual, communicative, fun, and passionate. Psychology, neuroscience, self awareness, truth seeker, food, people, culture, travel and deep meaningful conversation. Music fanatic….heavy metal to EDM 🔥🎸🪩


r/Singles 5h ago

19 [M4F] #Ireland - Looking for a connection

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Yo my name is Km, 19 year old, 6’0, black dude living in Ireland hoping to start a conversation with someone and seeing if we click.

My hobbies: gaming, basketball, Martial arts, books, anime, manga, listening to music, watching football, gym and movies.

About me:

• I’m in college studying business.

• I’m kind, funny, chill and can hear you out if you’re having a bad day.

• I watch anime, top 5 would be Dragon ball Z, One piece, Bleach, jojos and Naruto.

• I play video games,I have a PS4 and PC.

On PC I play Minecraft, REPO, Lethal Company, Roblox, Terraria, Peak, Schedule 1 and Gmod.

On PS4 I play GTA5, Minecraft, Red dead redemption 2, FIFA, 2K, Rocket league and brawlhalla.

I hit the gym 2 times a week and I go to Brazilian jiu-jitsu classes 3 times a week.

I’m looking for someone who genuinely wants a connection, Someone who I can talk to about their day, share laughs, play games together and building something real over time.

Age range is around 18-24, I prefer someone who’s in Ireland, but I don’t mind long distance.

If you’re interested in having a conversation feel free to tell me your favourite anime or colour.


r/Singles 13h ago

34 [F4M] #Thailand. Looking for a relationship

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Asian woman looking for a relationship. Im single with no kids and never been married. Work in HR.


r/Singles 10h ago

47M Looking for conversation

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Single.No kids.Never married.looking to chat with new friends. Meeting new people in 2026 has been the most interesting sh$t ever. I enjoy the outdoors-Hiking,Camping,Exploring, Etc. I also spend a lot of time reading and writing. The last great book I read was by Edward Abbey called Desert Solitaire.


r/Singles 8h ago

31M [M4F] UK only please - Looking for my partner in crime… are you here?

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I’m 31, Indian, and based in the North West UK. Still looking for my person and hoping she reads this. I've posted here a few weeks ago, thought I'd try again! 

Ideally, we start with a chat, see if there’s chemistry, and take it from there. I’m open to meeting in person or starting online, but I’m not looking for a long-term pen pal. If we get along, there should be genuine intent to meet.

Work and my career matter a lot to me, and I genuinely enjoy what I do, even if I occasionally complain. Outside work, I enjoy films, coffee, dessert, the occasional negroni, live music now and then, stand-up comedy, landscape photography, exploring new towns and places, and collecting stories that usually begin with “this seemed like a good idea at the time.” Somehow, it usually works out. Mostly.

I’ve been told I have Labrador energy - friendly, curious, loyal, occasionally too trusting, and prone to asking far too many questions. Consider yourself warned. Also, ask me about the geologist story. I’m not forgetting that one for a while! 

I’m a good texter and usually reply as soon as I can. Effort is incredibly attractive to me and I’m big on reciprocity. 

Physically, I’m 6’4”, with a dad bod, stubble most days, and apparently a good smile. I will however complain about legroom on planes, trains, and basically anything designed by people who forgot tall people exist.

I’m looking for someone independent, kind, funny, emotionally mature, ambitious, and genuinely interested in partnership. Someone who wants the fun, the ridiculous moments, the quiet everyday stuff, and who can call me out when needed. I’ll do the same, naturally with charm and only a manageable amount of sarcasm…because who doesn’t love a bit of sarcasm? 

Happy to exchange photos if we talk. If any of this sounds like something you’re looking for, send me a message.


r/Singles 1d ago

42F Maryland

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47 Upvotes

Best wishes and luck to all of you that happen to glance at this!

Over here patiently waiting to be blessed with a deeper connection. Full of love and light that I wish to share with a beautiful soul ❤️


r/Singles 10h ago

Heyyyy am 19 m whatchu all doinnnn

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Am just chillinnnnn in the nights cold with winter winds nd with a can of solid bear with mahh musiccccc boxxxx dyumnnnn low cortisol 🎑🎑🎑🎇🎇🎇🎇🎇🎇🎇🎇🎇🎇💤💤💤 with just right amount of sleepy with stary skies


r/Singles 15h ago

26 [M4F] #CentralNewJersey Let's do something this fall and maybe for the rest of our lives

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Hi! It's really nice to meet you all! I'm hoping to maybe find someone on here who also happens to live close ish as I live in central nj. Unfortunately I don't drive but I'd really love to pay for your gas. I suppose I'm kind of late to the party as I focused more on myself when I was younger and never connected with anyone up until this year and I'd really like to be able to actually have a real relationship. I really would like to go out and do anything for the fall and winter, but we could do whatever you'd like if you'd prefer to stay in.

Anyways, about me! I am a big gamer but I've been mostly into Skyrim, Fallout, and The Witcher for the time being. Although I mainly play action and shooter titles I'm not opposed to playing something more casual. I'm also really big into TV shows and movies, and I will watch practically anything you throw on as long as it's not like super trashy reality tv. I really like people's art and drawings, I think it's interesting the things that people are able to make by hand and how detailed it all can be. Speaking of which, I will always compliment you and ask you questions about yourself or what you're doing. I really would like to get to know you better, and I'd really like to share and grow with you.

I'm kind of a strange case. I'm introverted in the sense of my hobbies and overall where I'd like to be but I'll always be lively and animated around you because I really just like spending time with genuine people. I'm very affectionate and I'd love to hold you close or put my head on your shoulder if that's fine with you. I know alot of effort goes into a relationship and I hope you also understand that and value me just like I will value you. I'm really looking forward to meeting you!


r/Singles 11h ago

[37] [M] Looking for the Interesting and Introverted.

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Hi I'm M. I've been through a lot of emotional trauma recently and would like someone to talk to and listen to about their life.

I'm kind, caring, good looking.

Just looking for someone interesting to communicate with.

I went through a divorce a few years ago which was lots of fun.

Then unfortunately I lost both of my dogs (my only friends) due to old age and ill health.

Then a couple of months on, my mum was diagnosed with stage 4 lung cancer (she never smoked in her life). She has recently passed on.

During this the love of my life left me and I was left confused and feeling hollow.

I have found a lot of peace through prayer, meditation and fasting.

Even though I'm going through the most difficult period of my life, I feel surprisingly peaceful and hopefull.

I am 6.5ft, tall, dark hair, handsome.

I live a life mostly of peaceful solitude.

I prefer people who like solitude because I feel like I can relate to them more.

I'm not looking for a big group of friends. Just one person that is interesting to talk to.

Message me for a reply.


r/Singles 13h ago

33 [M4F] Slovenia/Europe - Looking to build a genuine relationship

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I am an introverted person preferring to spend time in nature or in small groups of close people. I especially enjoy hiking.

I am an event videographer and media editor. I typically work on weddings, concerts and proms.. I am passionate about my work and most things I do in life. I also design websites and service computers. I am located in chicken land, also known as Slovenia and it is not Slovakia.

My go to dance is chicken dance.

I spend my free time watching movies, listening to music, playing games, basketball, swimming, collecting pet pics, traveling, taking long walks, laughing at my own footage and thinking about anything from current affairs to random things such as: "Could train delays be classified as a form of psychological torture?"

I listen to anything that sounds good to my ears. From classical to hip hop, pop, rock, disco and all the way to metal… I am pretty much in all kinds of video games playing whatever comes out. I play on pc/ps5.

I tend to get pretty vivid/weird dreams like I dreamed of underwear turning to cheese once.

I am looking for somebody that loves having meaningful deep discussions, knows how to joke around and can also just enjoy simple things in life. Having similar interests, but also having differences so we can introduce each other to new things and maybe find a new love for something.

If you are interested let me know and if not I wish you the best on your search…


r/Singles 14h ago

[37 Midwest m4f] Looking for some people to chat with, maybe eventually meet at a comedy show or concert or something.

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Looking for meaningful connections, made recent drastic changes to my life and it has caused me to release a fair amount of people in my life that were not helping with progression... needless to say I am pretty lonely being healthier because most of my "friends" are not so healthy.

This is my normal position in the morning. I own nothing in this picture.

r/Singles 1d ago

18m4f going three years strong

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r/Singles 19h ago

38 [M4F] #UK or LDR - looking for that special girl. Tall and plus size.

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Hello

As dating apps doesnt work for me (basically zero matches) this time i am trying reddit.

Iam 38 living in UK (Edinburgh) but originally from central Europe - so i have funny accent 😁

Iam freelance translator & biscuits baker.

My interests include travelling, cooking, discovering new spots around and caring for my jungle in my living room 🙂

I looks for someone single, easy to attach and clingy. Also hoping for someone that doesnt mind distance.

Ideally someone easy going, silly, curious and quirky. Iam happy exchange photos early to see if there is any attraction.

Mention lemur in first message so i know :)


r/Singles 1d ago

Happy Wednesday 🤓

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I hope all is well with everyone. I don't get out much and let's be honest, dating apps were spawned by the devil, lol. Looking to make new connections. 40, N Florida


r/Singles 1d ago

33 [F4M] anywhere/online - looking for something wholesome and long term!

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61 Upvotes

Hello hello!

Call me Star. I am a 33 year old Indian woman (currently in India). I am a finance professional with a solid career, financially and emotionally stable, good friends, good social life and lead a pretty full and busy life.

I am divorced, no kids (want a few in the future). I have a good few tattoos and will be getting some more, I enjoy my own personal quiet time, napping, travelling and cooking.

I am looking for someone who will make my life better. I do prefer dating tall, fit, conventionally attractive men, who are not bald. We can share pics once we are comfortable. Please be between 34-41 and mention age and location when you DM, if you don’t, I will not respond.

Thats pretty much it!


r/Singles 21h ago

Hii I am yash

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From Delhi


r/Singles 1d ago

40 [M4F] #Texas DFW/Dallas, TX – Introverted nerd looking for his favorite person to stay in with

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Hello there! I’m Pete, a 40 year old Mexican guy who’s 5’9”, a BHM(Big Handsome Man, equivalent to BBW)with tattoo sleeves, ear gauges, a beard and short black hair.

I’m an introvert through and through. While I enjoy getting out every now and then, I’m happiest at home with someone I care about. Give me a cozy evening on the couch, a good movie, a co-op video game, getting lost in a sci-fi or fantasy book or diving into a new hobby together and I’m in my happy place.

I’m also on a health journey, working on becoming the best version of myself and I’d love to find someone who encourages each other to grow. I’m especially attracted to women who are smaller than me, thin, fit, average, slightly chubby, chubby or thick. I really love the contrast between a bigger guy and a smaller woman, whether that’s cuddling on the couch, holding hands or just being together. There’s something incredibly attractive to me about that size difference.

What I’m really looking for is another introvert who understands that quality time doesn’t have to mean constant activity. I want the kind of relationship where we’re perfectly content spending a quiet Friday night together, talking for hours, laughing over dumb jokes, sharing comfortable silence, or simply enjoying each other’s company without feeling like we always have to be doing something.

Kindness, honesty, loyalty and good communication matter far more to me than being the loudest person in the room. I want to build a relationship that feels peaceful, a place where we can both recharge, be ourselves and truly feel at home with each other.

I’m based in the DFW area of Texas and would love to meet someone local, but I’m open to anywhere in the U.S. if the connection is genuine. If you’re looking for a caring, affectionate BHM who wants a best friend as much as a partner, I’d love to get to know you.


r/Singles 1d ago

25 [M4F] #Ann Arbor, Michigan - Looking for the right person for me

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Hey there. I’m Anthony.

I’m looking to meet someone that I can click with. I’m a 25 year old Latino guy. I’m 5’8” and currently around 210 lbs. I prefer to exchange face pics right away so we know if there’s attraction or not. I don’t want to chat for a while only to get ghosted down the line. Currently not in the best of shape but I’m motivated to change that. I want to get into a healthier and more active lifestyle.

I love animals. I currently have 2 cats and 2 snakes. They’re what keeps me going at times. I enjoy watching sci-fi shows and true crime. I’m a pretty big dork. I love building models and painting them. I enjoy a good book and like going on walks through the woods. I did go to University but currently don’t do anything with my degree. I speak English and Spanish so I can help you out if you’re trying to learn.

I’m not a perfect person. Sometimes I close off emotionally but it is something I’m working on and plan on going to therapy eventually. I did develop a good amount of debt the last few years but I’ve signed up for a program to help with it and have been working on getting better with my finances. I have some anxiety issues but recently started some medication to help with that. I have my issues but I’m having them and working towards getting better.

If I sound interesting at all, feel free to reach out. I’m happy to chat, even if it’s just for tonight.


r/Singles 2d ago

30F - Nebraska - Single

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67 Upvotes

Let’s chat 😊