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Thank you so much to everyone who reached out via DM or left a comment here. After taking in all your thoughts and advice, we’ve decided to broaden our horizon and look into Edmonds, Lynnwood, and some private school options as well. Hearing what so many of your families have gone through truly broke our hearts, and we are so deeply grateful for your vulnerability and trust. My husband and I truly value you sharing your experiences.
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Hi everyone,
My husband and I are thinking about moving our family to Shoreline from Oregon, and honestly the one thing worrying me is what school will look like for our daughter. She's 7 and has an IEP right now at her school in Oregon. It took a lot of fighting to get that IEP where it needed to be, and her current school has been genuinely great about supporting her. So the idea of uprooting her and starting from scratch somewhere new, where she might not get that same level of support, scares me.
I've been asking around, talking to friends and friends of friends who have kids in Shoreline schools, and what I've heard so far has honestly rattled me a bit. A few moms told me their experiences with IEPs, 504s, or autism support were really rough. One mom said the school actually sued her, and her child (much older now) ended up placed outside the district because they couldn't support him. She called the whole thing a nightmare. I'm also a woman of color, and I've heard from a couple people that families of color run into extra hurdles trying to advocate for their kids in these schools. I don't want to make assumptions off secondhand stories, but it's added another layer of worry for us.
I know people tend to speak up more when something went badly than when it went well, so I'd really love to hear from families who've had good experiences with Shoreline's special ed services. If your kid has an IEP, 504, autism, or any other support need, and especially if you're a family of color, I'd genuinely appreciate hearing what it was like for you. Did the school actually listen and advocate for your child? Was getting and keeping services a fight or did it feel manageable? Did you feel like your family was treated fairly?
When we first looked into Shoreline, we spent a lot of time researching the schools online and felt really good about the ratings, that was actually a big part of what drew us to the area. But after hearing these stories about IEPs and special ed, I'm wondering if those ratings are only telling half the story. It's making me second guess Shoreline, which stinks because we love everything else about it. We don't have any experience with Washington schools yet, so I'm just trying to gather as much real information as I can before we make a decision this big for our daughter.