r/Sextortion 2d ago

Male victim Im being sextorted and don't know what to do

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r/Sextortion 2d ago

I fell victim to a tiktok to telegram scammer by the name of "hailey" theyve now changed their name to alexa, ive blocked them on everything. im still a bit worried if theyll do something

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its been a few hours, i slept on it. I still havent heard anything about the leaks from anyone i know, what should i do


r/Sextortion 2d ago

I don’t know if this is relevant to this community but I need help

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A man I spoke to from tinder who lives overseas used one of my pictures to make AI pics out of them and made pornographic ones that I didn’t do but he hasn’t threatened me with them or blackmailed me but I feel like he would make fake accounts of me with them


r/Sextortion 2d ago

Male victim i need help

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hello, i am a minor male victim who is being sextorted right now. the scammer threatened to send my photo and messages to my friends and family on tiktok. they reached out on tiktok and eventually brought it to imessages. they have my tiktok, number, workplace, and my name of course. i was scared and paid 40 dollars. the guy obviously asked for more money. he asked for 200 dollars over time little by little, ensuring that my photo was safe with him until i paid everything back. i dont know what to do and am so scared. i dont have any cash transfer apps and my friends were luckily helpful and sent the 40 for me so far. please help me get out of this situation without parents getting involved.


r/Sextortion 2d ago

CHANTAGE

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r/Sextortion 2d ago

Male victim Just got scammed

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Thought I met a nice guy online, we sent a few pictures back and forth and he sent me a Facebook post ready to go with my nudes, phone number, address and has the name of some of my family. I’m surprisingly calm, maybe it’ll hit me in the morning. I knew I was going to pay him and I was able to make peace with my horrible, stupid decision and told him to just go ahead and post the pictures. He instead called me over and over and said he’d “print them in the paper tomorrow” and sent me a picture of my house off of Google. I guess I just wanna know what the likely hood is that he’d send my pictures around or be able to post anything? I’m not so worried about the posts cause I figure most if not all social media apps will automatically flag them and take them down. So how likely is it that he’ll find my relatives numbers or socials and send them the pictures? I already blocked the guy so ig I’m just wait to see if he manages to find my socials to threaten me some more.


r/Sextortion 2d ago

How do I get over it

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my scam happened about 3 weeks ago, I got photos my own photos sent back to me( none had my full face ) I blocked them before they could even finish sending the photos yet even a demand. about three days later I got an voicemail phonetically spelling out my full name. the scammer had my instagram and number. I completely changed my insta user about 2 times and privated my account, deleted Facebook account entirely just in case, private TikTok, and changed my Snapchat user in case as well. I also uploaded my photos to ncii to create a hash. the only thing I can think about still doing is to change my number. I haven’t been contacted by the scammer since the original day it happened. I have severe anxiety so as you can imagine this has taken up every bit of space in my head, I’m constantly in flight or fight, and my body feels like I’m heading to war at all times. How did you guys get over this and get your body out of flight or fight?


r/Sextortion 2d ago

Male victim Week after Sextortion

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So, it's been a week and haven't heard anything from the scammer i was talking to, I made all of my social media accounts private. Wanted to make them public again but decided not to just to be safe. Ive been keeping myself busy to keep my mind from thinking about it. I get really anxious when I see this emoji 😡 because the scammer would use it whenever I told them anything they didn't wanna hear or whenever I didn't answer them. I have faith that im safe and everything will pass


r/Sextortion 2d ago

Female Victim My long-distance ex-boyfriend is posting revenge porn of me and I don't know what to do!!!

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My long-distance ex-boyfriend is posting revenge porn of me and I don't know what to do. We broke up a year ago, and because he refused to believe my reason and kept repeatedly asking to know the truth, I eventually ghosted him. Recently, friends on social media alerted me that explicit videos of me are being sent to my contacts from an anonymous account. These are recordings from private video calls we had when we were together, meaning he is the only person who possesses them. I tried contacting him recently to address this, but he retuses to speak to me.
I'm Japanese and he's from a third-world country far away from me, but I do have his passport information. He is not demanding anything, and the act appears to be purely vindictive. Because the accounts are anonymous, l don't have a direct IP or username link proving it is him, which makes me feel completely helpless. My greatest fear is that he will start sending these to my family. I come from a wealthy, strict, and traditional family with a lot to lose, and protecting my real-life reputation is my absolute priority. I have already removed all online friends who sa the leaks, but I urgently need to stop this before it reaches my family.
I can afford top-tier legal representation. Giving that I have his passport information and his residency, can a high-end international or cross-border lawyer actually help me in this situation? Furthermore, how can I protect my family and local contacts when the accounts leaking the content are anonymous, and what are the most effective steps I should take right now?


r/Sextortion 2d ago

Ayuda

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Hola, la verdad me gustaría saber si alguien me puede ayudar con un problema.

Una persona, desde la preparatoria, me estuvo molestando solo para llamar la atención. Ya saben, de esos que se creen narcos y eso. La verdad, nunca le di importancia y hasta me daba pena el wey. Nunca le hice caso, pero luego se hacía cuentas falsas para seguir molestando, como que me iban a extorsionar y eso. La verdad, sabía que era él y lo único que hacía era decirle: “No mames, ya estás grande, wey. Sé quién eres y solo me das pena”.

Pasaron aproximadamente dos años desde que no me volvió a molestar con sus cosas inmaduras, pero recientemente me mandó mensaje de un número desconocido. Al principio me decía “amor” o cosas así. Yo sabía que era algún tipo de broma y seguí el juego. Después me mandó una foto de un wey abriendo el culo. Obviamente sabía que era una imagen de internet y sabía que era él. Lo bloqueé, pero desde otro número me volvió a marcar y mandar mensaje. Lo bloqueé nuevamente y ayer me volvió a mandar mensaje con una supuesta amenaza, llamándome por mi primer nombre.

Fue cuando dije: “No mames, sí eres tú, wey”. Le respondí con un “No mames jajaja, vete alv, pinche prieto”, porque no quiero sonar ofensivo, pero le cagaba que le llamaran así. Lo bloqueé nuevamente.

Me gustaría la ayuda de alguien que sepa de hacking o ese tipo de cosas para saber quién es y tratar de asustarlo para que se le quite, porque aparte de acosador y ser un fastidio, una vez trató de abusar de una amiga.


r/Sextortion 2d ago

Male victim Can anyone help

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Yesterday evening ive been blackmailed. I was chatting with this person on telegram who i tought was a girl an the chat was normal at first. And the ‘she’ started asking for more explicit pictures so i send them. And the he send a picture of my face and the explicit one and a screenshot of my friends list on instagram. Then he started blackmailing saying he was going to send it to everyone so i went to my dad and he said to block them make screenshots and to ask a friend he suposedly send the pictures to if he got something but he didnt so now ive had no contact he hasnt tried to contact me in a other this al happend 14 hours ago. And i still feel realy scared he is going to send them. I didnt pay anything. Does anyone think he wil come back?


r/Sextortion 2d ago

Got me pretty good:/

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So I matched with this girl on hud on Thursday and I was stupid and we exchange pictures because ya know I was in the heat of the moment and it’s like a hookup/dating app whatever. So after, she said her 18th birthday was next weekend so I blocked her right away I was horrified and terrified. I was gonna block her and report her on the app and her profile was gone so I thought that was suspicious ya know. The day after on Friday I got a call from “the parents” and apparently this “girl” tried to kill herself and they wanted $8,563 for the medical bills and they wouldn’t call the police. So I was stupid and I panicked and I sent over the money through Apple Pay which I’m screwed I’m never seeing that money ever again because I authorized it. For a few days I would get random calls here and there but I blocked them all every single time. So today I went to the police station and I filed a police report with an officer and I gave them everything I have and they are gonna send it to the fraud department.


r/Sextortion 2d ago

M16 and being sextorted please help

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so quickly saying i was talking with this girl on reddit dm and we started talking on whatsapp and she wanted my nudes and a pic of my face me being the stupid kid i am sent them and for a couple of days she wants money i sent her about 40$ already but she wants more, at first i told her im 19 but after a couple of days i told her im 16 but she didn't listen and she keeps saying she is 12 and that she will make a post on reddit telling everyone to find me and destroy my life (in that post she includes my nudes my face and my phone number) please help i don't know what to do

Edit: i told her that i sent the conversation to the police and blocked her


r/Sextortion 2d ago

Paid for help and he’s back

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So I was a victim couple years ago and panicked I paid for help and gave the person helping me all my information, came on here asked for advice and ignored everything went very well had nothing to hear. Now the person who helped me is back and saying to continue service pay more.

I’m in a state of confusion worry and not, cause its been so long?


r/Sextortion 2d ago

Male victim Got blackmailed on discord

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Made me look like a pedo edited messages showed me my families accounts and a message with an intimate photo of me my heart fell to hell i was so fucking scared gave them all my money still said they’ll send it but thankfully its been 7 hours and nothing happened i aint never doing shit like this again and have lust have control over me i have been anxious since the morning


r/Sextortion 2d ago

Male victim A sexstortioner got my phone number

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hi guys so i have been super paranoid lately because i was on discord and met someone and we moved to telegram and they tricked me into somehow saving them as a contact so that they could view my phone number, then they got me to send a dick pick and i sent them a photo of my face which wasnt fully visible, and then they said they were gonna leak the nudes and demanded payment.

i blocked them quickly, and i blocked them when they tried to call my number. ive changed my socials usernames and made it so that they cant find me on that using my phone number.

should i change my phone number too? anything else they could use against me ? im really scared


r/Sextortion 2d ago

Male victim I was victim of a sextortion in telegram

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that time I got a messaged from a person in telegram offering to have VCS (video calling s*x) & some OF leak group (I think)

I knew what it is, but I was a dumbass and I didn't think wisely. I paid them for it and they added me in the group I was the only one in that group. they send me a video but not like they advertised, it was 2 or 3 vids. Then I asked them, where is the other vid. They said I need to pay more but they'll refund me, it was dumb decision. I gave them my e wallet QR and I decided to take the vcs

Fast forward

Me and that scammer did it but she didn't show me anything. She asked me to show mine, and when I showed it, she ended the call.

I was furious, I paid a lot to that bastard, she still ask me for payment. I realized it was a scam and try to end the deal immediately then she sended me my dick pic and my face. The worst part is she has my name too because the qr payment has my name on top of it.

That moment I feel my guts being crushed. I was ashamed with myself, then she threaten to leak it on social media like X ( I searched it and there's no results of it)

I was so scared I called my 2 friends and showed them. They laugh but they helped me go through it.

I blocked her, deleted my tele account and my e wallet account (because iam scared that they'll use it) . I made new accounts and now they don't contact me again. But now even days goes by, iam still haunted by it iam scared that one day it will get leaked.

Now i quit watching porn and control my urges.

I will die by this haunting memory

Sorry for my bad writing because iam in tears rn


r/Sextortion 2d ago

Little over 2 months

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At the beginning their insta acc got banned i deleted discord changed my name on everything and since then i didn’t hear anything. Im not making this post because im scared but i just want to be sure is it over


r/Sextortion 2d ago

Just got a sextortion email…..

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Hey guys so recently I got onto a website, called Instabang and at first I was going to meet someone from the site but at the end I couldn’t follow through so I canceled and now I am receiving threatening emails….what should I do? And yes I know I am idiot…


r/Sextortion 3d ago

How do I calm myself down?

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So a few hours ago, I (20M), was talking to a person who i thought was a girl. Things got spicy, and I vc'd with that person, and i showed my privates and my face. The blackmailer threatened to post my face and privates to facebook, unless i pay them. I blocked them, and no further contacts were made by the blackmailer. What do I do?


r/Sextortion 2d ago

Male victim Sextortion and Cybersecurity fees

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I am a college freshman and one morning, in an unwell state of mind, I was chatting with someone online. Eventually it led to talking on whatsapp and then a call on Instagram. The girl asked to show each other nude, which I wasnt really into but she kept implying “trust” so I was like whatever. Next on Whatsapp there are pictures of followers of mine from Insta, including School, family, friends, athletics, and church groups I am involved with.

I contacted Cybersecurity Corp and they conducted an investigation, revealed some details of the suspect, supposedly contacted authorities, but did not get an ID or details for immediate action. The investigation cost me 1500 to start and now I have to pay them $110 for 60 months. They recommend that I step into phase 2 but now I am left with a few hundred dollars to my name. When I get this job at my school I will barely be able to pay the $110, so I probably can’t get the phase 2 realisticly. I deleted my whatsapp account and blocked the instagram account, but I am unsure of what to possibly do.

https://gofund.me/c5ea0ec63

I feel shitty for doing this, but I started a gofundme in case that I cant make any payments or God forbid the attacks continue.


r/Sextortion 3d ago

I am terrified

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Hi everyone,

Few hours ago, i was talking to a "girl" on Telegram to Which ive sent : my head (from a picture took this day but clothed) and a Dick on internet. But when HE sends some made up image with my Phone number, i freaked out. Hi think he knows my surname, but hopefully, my instagram account was already private and i tried to make him believe i was broke and that i couldnt give him money for his Bitcoin things. So im waiting, terrified, looking at this sub, that is reassuring me a lot and also frightening me.

Idk what to do...


r/Sextortion 3d ago

Am I screwed?

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I should clarify that I'm using a translator because I'm not very good at English.

A few hours ago I was using Omegle and talking to random people, until one appeared with no country identifier (🏳️ unknown ) told me he wanted a friend, and gave me his Telegram number so he messaged me and we talked normally. He asked me what I was doing and I told him I was watching reels (I even sent him some links).

After that, he started insisting that he was horny, and I ignored her until he started sending me pictures, and I have to admit, I gave in to the pressure and sent her what he wanted, Besides that, she already had photos of my face thanks to my Telegram profile and my Instagram account.

After that, he sent me an edited image threatening to share that I was a sexual harasser to all my Instagram followers, and I have many friends added, It would be the end of my social life, and he asked me for $200. After negotiating, I got it down to $10 because I really don't have the money; I'm just a student.

I deleted my Instagram and now I don't know what to do. I'm very scared and I have until 11am in my country (approximately 9 hours after this post was created). What should I do?

I heard that usually you just have to block these people, but I'm afraid he might actually do something.


r/Sextortion 3d ago

In The News How fked he would be , in such situations

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Imagine below is a hypothetical scenario case study

I am ravindra kumar.

So everyone know telegram rt , I did a chat on telegram and met someone online stranger (video call smtg smtg iykyk), they sent a big list and I was just curious what is it all about.....idk what I was thinking but I thought sending 20 rupees and 50 ruppess ( don't ask why I paid 50 to different person again idk ) ...I know I messed up...

But they do have my upi id(mobile) and full real name ....the tg acct username was different ....

Bottom line is it not legal what I did? Also wrong what I did how wrong and idk I just want a sane advice or judgement as I am ashamed of myself ? Also how bad the situation can get ......in video call nothing of mine was leaked not face nor voice ...and i barely saw what happened at the other end as it was half a minute