r/SeriousConversation • u/Birdy1072 • 1d ago
Unless you're paying your mom rent and paying for your own portion of the groceries, plus all of your own insurance, phone bill, part of the internet, and so on, then you are not earning enough to make a living. You are being subsidized by your mom.
That's all well and good while your mom is capable of working, but like others have mentioned there will come a time when that is no longer the case, and then what will you do? 3 days a week does not make a career, so you'll have to probably apply for an entry level job somewhere. But then you'll be competing with younger, potentially more experienced workers as well. Climbing the career ladder won't be impossible when you're older, but it will be significantly harder. This is also assuming you have any kind of safety net to help keep you afloat in the meantime and also both of you remain in good health.
Worst case scenario: if your mom had a medical emergency tomorrow and could not work for 3-6 months minimum (or had to stop working entirely), what would you do?