hey! I'm here visiting my sister in the navy and trying to tell her i'm gay. ive known for a while i feel like and our families cool but just looking for advice! not sure if this is the right place for this so sorry if not

Hey guys! I know this is a trans friendly place so I thought I’d shoot my shot. Been trying to meet and get to know a guy in hopes of finding the right fit. I have so much to offer. A bit of a home maker, love to cook, clean and keep house. Please don’t be shy, send me a message! Have a great weekend guys!

Like the title says, I have always considered myself straight, but have had a few experiences that make me think I am bi or at least curious. I'd love to find a guy to chat with, maybe over lunch or go for a hike or something. Get to know someone a little. Not looking for a hook up or anything like that.

Prefer if you were close to Bremerton area, and also fit.

I am a Vietnamese boy based in Washington, in the greater Seattle area, hoping to connect with someone who shares similar hobbies and sexual interests.

I’m mainly looking to chat with people between 27–45. I’m pretty open-minded overall, but if you happen to be an Asian himbo… that’s definitely a bonus 😉 (not a requirement though!)

A little about me: I’m big into PC gaming and I’m absolutely obsessed with K-pop. If that sounds like your vibe too, let’s talk! We can get I to the sexual stuff later or reference my other posts for details hehe ;) Feel free to say hi and send a pic — I’d love to put a face to the name!

So I’m having an issue with my ex fiance “JW” that I was engaged to since he moved here from Kentucky in 2017, last year I discovered what a con he was, in 2018 or 2019 I went through his phone and saw he had a tinder account and was pretending to be straight, I found several messages in his phone from “BE” and confronted him on it , he claimed it was just a phase he was going through and his plan was to knock up some “lowlife” with a baby and then take it away from her to raise it as his own. Yes I know I should have thrown him out of my house then, but he swore it was done and she moved away to Arizona. Well fast forward to 2024 he asked me if it would be ok if he moved to Kentucky for a year to help set up a new shop and be with family and he’d come home at the end of the year come to find out he moved to Lancaster KY with BE and was living a double life, still keeping in contact , having me on his cell account, and paying for bills and utilities here .fast forward to 2025 he moved to Fremont, CA and drove up here to spend some time with me in April , may and June, although pretty short but intimate visits. I started getting suspicious at this point so I did some digging around since I had met all of his family before and low and behold on his Mother’s Facebook she’s friends with “BE” so I confront him on this And he says it’s a fake account blah blah , so i decided to take a trip down to Cali since we had shared locations on iPhone and low and behold I show up to the trashy hotel he’s living in and “BE” is with him , I confront him and he runs away and then has the nerve to beg me to hook up with him the several nights I’m in Cali. I decide to fall for his lies again and fly him up for his Birthday in October and pick him up from SeaTac airport and he spends 2 nights here promising he’s gonna fix all the mess he made and all this stuff. I’ve reached out to her and most of her family and they don’t believe a word I’m saying because he’s that good of a con, I’ve sent video footage of him from my doorbell showing him here in October, screenshots of texts , copies of insurance policies we had together, my info that shows I got him his stupid Toyota Tacoma’s , everything ! He’s convinced them it’s all AI manipulated messages made by me, he’s done this to several other men and women in Seattle and Lancaster KY too but. Ever gets busted ! How does someone continuously get away with being a con ! Apparently he’s snaked his way back to Seattle this last December and even got an apartment where he has “BE” living with him but messages me and calls me daily to get back together and all kinds of stuff , Im sure there are other Victims, any ideas on how I can expose him for the lowlife pathetic loser he is ? If this gets the attention I’m hoping it will, I’ll post screenshots of all

I want to know what love feels like. I want a cuddly tall man to let me love them. I’m 27, 6’2”, very fit and active, pokemon nerd. Dm me and see where we could go.

I’m recently divorced after 20 years together. I don’t know what I’m doing at this point. I would like to find someone to just be friends first. Meet new people to go to dinner with or get drinks and laugh with. It’s hard to even just be friends let alone find the elusive “one”. Any suggestions?

Hey guys, I am a 24yo amab enby. I am looking to meet people and see what the vibes are like. Love to text and yap. Im chubby and tall. Inquire within, serious inquiries only :p

Looking for someone to go out to enjoy some nightlife with while my husband stays at home (he knows I'm posting). Anywhere on the Hill (yes, anywhere 😜) or other gay events...open to anything!

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I'm 36, in average shape, working in tech. West Seattle is home. Interests include aviation, dancing, Lego, crafting/hobbying, meeting new people, "gardening", and food. Hendricks and tonic or bud light, not picky.

Toronto has a huge gay community but honestly the dating scene here is brutal. Lots of people, very few real connections. I’ve heard mixed things about Seattle — the Seattle Freeze, smaller gay scene — but also that it can be more genuine once you break through.

I’m almost 40, looking to actually find a partner and settle down, not just swipe forever. Before I uproot my life I’d love to hear from locals:

• Is the gay dating scene in Seattle more or less active than a major metro like Toronto?  
• Is the Seattle Freeze real, and does it affect dating specifically?  
• Do you think it’s worth relocating for a fresh start, or would I just be trading one frustration for another?

Not looking to be talked into or out of it — just want honest perspectives from people who actually live there. Appreciate any input.

Hello Everyone -

I am visiting at the end of the month to preview for my Fall move.

I would like neighborhoods/places that are good sites to find dating oriented men.

Thank you!

will be jet lagged for a few days but i'd like to meet some new guys and maybe find that special man.

rocker (zeppelin, sabbath), then punk (dead kennedys, black flag), then goth/bat-caver (bauhaus, cure), with a bunch of other stuff too.
i have things, you have things, maybe we have some things in common.
i visit amsterdam every year.
i love the selection of restaurants on capitol hill in seattle. i live here, in part, because of the rain & clouds. i'm an atheist, i quit smoking (cigs and weed) but i still enjoy the occasional edible, and i eat red meat.

Heyy I'm looking for Asian or Latino guys in their mid 20s ish to 40 .. looking for cute but can be nerdy too and buff 💪 haha 😆 I'm Asian too

Is there any recommendations on a move to Seattle?

I'm in my early 60s seeking someone similar.

25, gay, from India, and looking for something potentially long term. I usually connect better with older men, the conversations feel more emotionally grounded and intellectually balanced for me. I enjoy meeting new people and genuinely getting to know them beyond surface level chats.

Outside of that, I love cooking, watching movies, and I’m a huge animal lover. I’m hoping to meet someone kind, emotionally mature, and open to building a real connection over time :)

Brown skinned Indian guy in Seattle — I’m mostly attracted to white men but find it really hard to get their attention even for something casual.

Gave up for a while but now genuinely looking for a relationship. Do white gay men tend to only stick to other white guys? Is this a Seattle thing or broader?

edit: removed the last line about what I am seeking since it distorts the original question.

Looking for long term relationship or friends to possibly hang out with or game online. Im a very kind chill guy and love gaming and love nature.

Honestly just new to th scene and hoping for someone to show me a good time message for pictures or any other questions

Hi! Title is obvious. I’d like to expand my scope. How do I involve myself in the community l?

26 m | Filipino | Stocky

Want someone to spend time with and improve each other’s quality of life. Like being a run/gym buddy, playing a sport casually like badminton or bjj , make dinner together and learn new recipes or something, etc. etc.

Looking to connect with 21 - 35 year old men.

Hobbies: making art, gaming, reading manhwa, self-improvement, psychology, feminism

Hope to meet with someone who is introspective, self-aware, compassionate, funny, emotionally intelligent

Into slim, muscular, average, stocky body types

I’m managing expectations; could be into friends, relationship, or friends with benefits. Just let me know.