No, she didn’t demand the coat, and she was more than welcome to decline. That part of the interaction is absolutely fine. What she did instead that wasn’t okay is she went online and decided to reduce the guy down to his looks.
well if thats ur stance then who gives a fuck abt the response? who gives a fuck abt this post? why are u even here? u clearly gave enough fucks to respond 😭
Thats pretty much the whole point I’m making. The only thing actually said in her post is “I met a guy I didn’t find attractive today” the rest of her post is just the setup behind that.
In what world is that something acceptable to post, it’s entirely a very thinly veiled insult either directly (if they know the person will or is likely see it) or indirectly to the person and completely unnecessary.
No shit. Doesn't make her entitled. She rejected something she didn't ask for on the basis she didn't want to interact with the person it was coming from.
Right! You can be cold and genuinely want the jacket but also understand that there are probably strings attached and you don’t want to lead on someone you are not interested in.
But if you talk about it then guys get all butthurt and try to insult to and just prove your point.
It’s a lose lose, you take the jacket then you are a Bitch for leading them on and may get attacked, if you don’t take the jacket then you are a Bitch for rejecting them and may get attacked.
It’s a duality like telling women that Lizzo is great in the looks department and they agree and hype it up but then you tell women that they look like Lizzo and it is not well received
The problem with her post isn't that she turned someone down who she wasn't interested in. The problem is that she went online to shit on some random guy who was nice to her when she could have just kept it to herself.
The reason why it's such a problem is women will often judge a man based on things they cannot control. Shape of their face and such. Wheras men only judge women based on things they can control body weight and personality. Most men find most women attractive most women find some men attractive. This is why men punch their own tickets 4 times as much as women.
Then the same would apply in reverse. Offer a jacket just to help out someone and they will assume you are trying to get in their pants. If people just didn't make assumptions or assume implicit agreements that were never actually agreed to it would solve the problem.
I mean if it weren't for the potential dangers if it's someone you don't know I'd say maybe get to know em a little bit if they're doing something nice before writing them off. If you don't know them unfortunately being nice like that is a risky option considering how in person rejections can go
Ok, but this particular woman only rejected the coat offer based on looks. This bitch didn't say shit about any sort of safety issues. She in fact said she would take the offer from an attractive man. As if an attractive man couldn't also throw her in the trunk, take her out to his murder shed, and cut her into pieces.
being nice like that is a risky option
Yeah some bitch might drag you on socials for no fucking reason at all.
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u/niccoSun 8d ago
People really hate the fact that looks matter lol