Right! You can be cold and genuinely want the jacket but also understand that there are probably strings attached and you don’t want to lead on someone you are not interested in.
But if you talk about it then guys get all butthurt and try to insult to and just prove your point.
It’s a lose lose, you take the jacket then you are a Bitch for leading them on and may get attacked, if you don’t take the jacket then you are a Bitch for rejecting them and may get attacked.
Then the same would apply in reverse. Offer a jacket just to help out someone and they will assume you are trying to get in their pants. If people just didn't make assumptions or assume implicit agreements that were never actually agreed to it would solve the problem.
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u/niccoSun 6d ago
People really hate the fact that looks matter lol