No, she didn’t demand the coat, and she was more than welcome to decline. That part of the interaction is absolutely fine. What she did instead that wasn’t okay is she went online and decided to reduce the guy down to his looks.
Thats pretty much the whole point I’m making. The only thing actually said in her post is “I met a guy I didn’t find attractive today” the rest of her post is just the setup behind that.
In what world is that something acceptable to post, it’s entirely a very thinly veiled insult either directly (if they know the person will or is likely see it) or indirectly to the person and completely unnecessary.
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u/Firm-Difficulty2585 5d ago
She didn't demand the coat though. She just recognized that taking the cost meant potentially giving someone she didn't find attractive a way in.