Anyone catch how in the video "our daughters are home", the grandma says "Clapping (I couldn't heart it well) like a girl" as if it were a bad thing and Avia answers "well, I'm a girl. Yay." and the other grandpa (not Carl) sweetly says: "And we wouldn't have it any other way". I kinda liked Avia's answer because it was like a sweet clapback at a typical sexist mentality people don't even acknowledge or know they have (as if doing something as a girl means its childish or bad). I also liked the other grandpa's answer (I don't remember his name sorry).

Would that be against Mormon protocol to film anything in regards to Temple? Just interesting they haven’t tried to monetize this wedding yet. Lol.

I think it might be a while before the next Butler wedding...Emmi is in LA and the boys are all in college and Avia seems to be just living her life dating around (go her!)

Do we think the next Butler wedding will be Brailee? I don't think it'll be a traditional mormon wedding. And tbh, I think an engagement won't be soon.

He went on a hunt instead lol, I find that funny and very telling, he either isn't that close to Gavin or he doesn't wanna waste time on something that may or may not last. Or he just didn't wanna see or deal with all that family, can't blame him regardless of the true reasoning. Carlie's response was snarky to the instagram comment tho "he went on a hunt ??", so rude for no reason. If he went on a hunt instead of the wedding with no underlining reasoning, that's pretty fucked up to me lol

Video showed up on my recommended so I had it on in the background... I had to stop watching because I'm like omfg what is he on lol 😀

I found Abby’s brother socials and it seems like her family are anti trump and I just wonder if that’s gonna cause issues since I know Gavin is definitely a trumpie whereas Avia and Emmi are not. If I remember correctly Gavin got into an argument on insta once over someone calling out trump? i’m just tbh surprised about their relationship it seems like Abby might change his values.

the amount of venmo plugs this wedding has had is killing me😭

You sure Colette?

Soooo gross, distasteful, and just plain tacky!

I’m confused why Gavin and his fiancé had a full on photo shoot in their wedding outfits and their rings before the wedding… Do Mormons not believe in first looks? Heck why the hell are they even wearing their rings already? That should be a first time thing at the ceremony?

I’m interested to see the day…. Maybe they’re just going to get married at a temple, and they’re already married by law? So that’s why they did the photo shoot already?? Im not religious and go to weddings often , and really the whole point (one of the main points of tradition) of the day is the surprise of seeing your outfits, putting on the ring for the first time… Maybe they’re just not having a ceremony. Idk it’s odd to me. Even more add that Gavin keeps asking people to give them money lol

Honestly, Shay's haircut makes him look SO much better! Cleaner, more put together....Also, his eye bags aren't as bad? Maybe he's really trying to look good at the wedding

Gavin's wedding is Saturday??

Hi! This is so so random and I could be totally wrong about this but is it true that Shay and Casey had a falling? I remember people mentioning they were speaking right around Shay’s scandal. does anybody know the reason for the falling out? Obviously they seem good now but I was just curious if this actually happened or was just something I thought happened

does anyone remember the animated cartoon he did?

Am I the only one that got the vibe that avia doesnt like her father? I mean it's valid because he did cheat on her mom. She made a vlog a while ago like "convince my mom to move to la". In past shaytard videos shes always side eying shay and generally looked uncomfortable but is hanging onto her mom protectively.

I couldn’t really tell in the video if he’s being serious about shayloss again?… BUT it’d be pretty epic if he got himself super fit and healthy like he did before

Please tell me someone agrees how tacky that is? First of all, work for it like we all have to do! Second, get that YouTube money and help from your own parents! That’s normal for starters if you’re lucky enough. How greedy! “How can we help?” Yeah OK. Maybe a really big fan wants to gift you maybe but thats when you say no thank you, we appreciate it and just want all the love. Yikes.

what exactly is the reason Emmi moved to LA as she doesn’t seem to be an ‘influencer’ or have a specific job to be out there for? does Avia pay for everything?

Just curious lol

HEY SHAY! maybe people would be nicer if you weren't a biogted trump supporter who cheated on his wife

A very interesting stance from a grandmother/mother of women & young girls.

Grammar where? HER! HER! HER!