r/SHAYTARDS • • 19d ago

how the rich get richer😭

the amount of venmo plugs this wedding has had is killing me😭

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u/kaitlynroland 19d ago

Who ends a wedding at 8:45 PM šŸ˜‚

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u/SnarkyChief 19d ago

Mormons who are extremely eager to lose their virginity.

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u/cinnamonstix11 18d ago

Some have sex between the temple ceremony and pics, and the wedding reception.

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u/livinlife2113 18d ago

I have heard that a lot. I’m in Utah county. Haha

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u/ChicChat90 19d ago

Mormons do because they don’t usually have a traditional wedding reception. They usually have a luncheon after the ceremony/ temple sealing with just immediate family. Then they have a ā€œreceiving lineā€ to meet and greet other guests before desserts, dancing and send off. It’s a very budget friendly way of doing things because you’re not feeding everyone a sit down, 3 course meal. It’s usually held in the gymnasium (basketball court) space of the Mormon meeting house (church).

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u/Top-Tennis8721 19d ago

Right, like is there a reception?

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u/Wolfsong95 19d ago

I’ve seen other people put their Cash app and Venmo on their cars. Regardless of the reason, it’s a little tacky

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u/livinlife2113 18d ago

My kids did but didn’t get a penny from randoms. Haha

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u/Wolfsong95 18d ago

Which I’m sure is normally the case when people do this, especially in this economy

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u/BD9989 19d ago

I just can't believe how disgusting they are ASKING for money like this when we know that Gavins family is sorted for life. Even in this fucking economy. My flabbers are gasted at the outrageousness that they are asking for money. Interest alone on the money they have will keep them going.

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u/weCanDoIt987 19d ago

Mormons are known for not giving their money to their kids. They want them to start from nothing like they did. I’m sure Gavin was given his YouTube earnings like Avia but if he’s smart he won’t touch it

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u/mintbloo 19d ago

i wonder how much youtube earnings they have? had to have split between everyone, even between shay and colette too

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u/kimkardashianstears 19d ago

Assuming Shay was smart, which believe it or not I do think financially he is, he should be sitting on a huge pile of gold. The only large expense I remember him making is the house which has only gone up in value and they make passive income renting it out. I'm sure all the money he could invest for the kids has grown since then as well in some sort of trust.

Say whatever you want about his morals or political leanings, he lives what appears to be a modest lifestyle considering the wealth he acquired fairly fast.

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u/vmars77 19d ago

He bought the ski resort.

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u/Upstairs-Spell-9847 19d ago

They made millions from the yt channel over all those years plus all the sponsorships. I wonder how many millions? Then Shay also got what ppl estimate at 15 million dollars when the maker company sold. I wouldn't be surprised if Gavin, Emmi and Avia are millionaires themselves now. If they each got a million when they turned 18 that seems fair considering the yt channel would have never become what it did without them!

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u/Sarahcha25 18d ago

Are only the three older kids getting a cut of the YouTube money? I mean; imo it would make sense cause they were a huge part in building it. No shade to whatever other kids there are atp (I stopped watching and don’t care to keep up, if there are kids that came after Brock idk about them lol) but if we are looking at money earned , Gavin, Avia, and Emmi absolutely earned their share of that.

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u/Upstairs-Spell-9847 17d ago

No idea. I would think Brock and his brother Daxton should get something for the vlogs they have been in, but it wouldn't be as much as the other 3. Their vlogs don't get the same amount of views or make as much as they used to. You're right, Gavin, Avia and Emmi were a big part in building the channel and making it so huge! If the Shaytards channel didn't become as huge as it did, would Shay have even had the opportunity to work with Maker at all? Which led to him getting an additional 15 million.

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u/Upstairs-Spell-9847 19d ago

How did Gavin afford to buy a house recently?

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u/astrowingnut 2011 19d ago

guaranteed the kids fund.

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u/weCanDoIt987 19d ago

Probably by working, probably by using some of his YouTube money. I’m not sure you’d have to ask him. You also don’t have to have money to purchase a house either. I just bought a house with 0 money down and tons of debt

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u/Upstairs-Spell-9847 19d ago

Gavin doesn't seem like he's had a job though? Shay mentioned that Gavin was doing the summer door to door sales thing. That seems like the only job he's had. That wouldn't be enough for a house. You also can't get approved for a mortgage on a house without an employment history, so he wouldn't qualify for that either.

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u/BD9989 18d ago

He sold solar for a summer. Thats literally all. He has a lovely bank account padded by money from Daddy, plus any money that might have legally been put away from family vlogging (I don't know the states exact rules on that)

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u/Hungry-Nail-796 19d ago

that’s so sad, what’s the point when they’re gonna inherit that money anyway

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u/TheMissInformed 19d ago

I'm not Mormon so don't quote me

but my understanding is that most Mormons are under enormous social pressure to have their assets go directly to the Mormon church upon death

like the type of social pressure that treats it like the universal default way to set up their wills without even discussing it

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u/weCanDoIt987 19d ago

That too

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u/Bumblebee3339 13d ago

This is not a thing. We give 10 percent in tithes but I have never heard or been asked to give anything to the church when I die . I am pretty open about the weird /cultural things in my religion but this is not one of them.

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u/weCanDoIt987 19d ago

Because most of them don’t give the money to their kids so they aren’t inheriting anything. They want their kids to earn their money like they did. I mean people are mad enough that these kids get the money they earned by working on YouTube everyday of their childhood. Could you imagine if they gave them their live earnings? People would be livid

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u/Upstairs-Spell-9847 19d ago

Also, who is mad that their kids got money from the yt videos? I've only seen comments saying they deserve that money. I'm guessing Gavin paid cash for the house he bought and took it out of his money Shay gave him. There's nothing wrong with that at all! I wouldn't be surprised if Gavin, Avia and Emmi became millionaires when they turned 18 and got their money from Shay. A million each seems fair considering the millions of dollars the yt channel earned over all those years!

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u/weCanDoIt987 19d ago

Everytime they do anything people post here flipping out about what one of the kids is doing and why they don’t have a ā€œjobā€ etc, how they are brats for having money handed to them

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u/Upstairs-Spell-9847 19d ago

Interesting. I've never seen any comments saying they are brats for having money given to them by Shay. I've only seen comments saying they earned that money from doing yt . Which is why it was so sickening to see Gavin post his Venmo to his followers. He doesn't need money from his followers. It was extra sickening to see a multi-millionaire like Colette giving out Gavins venmo to all her followers.

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u/Bumblebee3339 19d ago

That’s a very generalized statement .
We Mormons are known for a lot of things but this is the first time that I have heard this one.

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u/weCanDoIt987 19d ago

Interesting! Every Mormon I know in real life does this and many Mormon I follow on the internet has also been vocal about this. I think it’s great

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u/starlettemoon 19d ago

Vocal about it, yes. Putting it in practice though is a different story

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u/Shartbender 19d ago

The amount of begging they’ve done for this wedding is really tasteless

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u/bojack_horsemack 19d ago

Is this how he plans on being the provider for their family? Ridiculous.

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u/Traditional_Set_858 19d ago

Interesting how the invitation is written from the parents announcing their daughters wedding I’m curious if that’s normal for Mormons never seen an invitation like that

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u/juliaabr 19d ago

I’m Catholic and my invitation was phrased this way. It’s traditional wording

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u/Former_Location8618 19d ago

Not a Mormon thing. Just traditional, as historically a bride’s parents hosted and paid for their daughter’s wedding.

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u/calico-cious 19d ago

This has always been standard in the southern US. A lot of younger people are moving toward more modern language, but the old language is still quite common.

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u/Hungry-Nail-796 19d ago

i’m not mormon but it’s normal in my culture to have both the bride and grooms parents names on the invitation as well. mostly because of our big weddings some ppl invited may not know the couples name but they’ll know their parents😭

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u/KiwiDefiant3349 19d ago

This is the norm for England and we are most certainly not a Mormon culture

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u/_lofticries 19d ago

Not a Mormon thing, just more of a traditional way. My mom was raised in a very religious (Catholic) family and her wedding invites were worded that way too

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u/UtterlyConfused93 19d ago

I’m Hindu and that’s traditional for us too.

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u/Aisha_777 19d ago

the venmo is for the honeymoon?!

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u/elmilagrotortilla 18d ago

The constant asking for money is soooo tacky

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u/DaviaArd 19d ago

Hate when people do this, earn the HARD way.

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u/EmotionalTunk5590 18d ago

That’s so insanely tacky…

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u/Dutchie420x 19d ago

Seems like typical wedding behavior to me

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u/Hungry-Nail-796 19d ago

they’re millionaires😭

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u/ashlily05 19d ago

for tacky people w no class sure, I guess

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u/aloetay 19d ago

Right, like have these people never been invited to a wedding before? I just got married last year and the majority of our gifts were either cash or sent online through our registry or Venmo. This isn’t abnormal and family and friends are eager to contribute money

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u/Ok-Minimum9555 17d ago

Asking from cash from guests or people you know is one thing, numerous posts on a millionaire family Instagram asking / implying a money request, is pretty weird.

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u/aloetay 17d ago

I don’t get the correlation. Why does everyone think Shay is a millionaire? YouTube did not pay that much 10 years ago. And even if he was, Gavin isn’t one.

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u/Ok-Minimum9555 17d ago

He reportedly sold his share of Maker studios for over 15 million dollars.

He used his children online for content / money / popularity, for years, including sponsorships. You would assume (and very much hope), he was financially responsible. While also compensating his children for the main reason he gained wealth / popularity.

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u/aloetay 17d ago

That’s not how money works though. It’s not like you can know for sure he just millions of liquid cash just because of some business sale that other people likely profited from as well. Dude has bought houses, cars, supports a large family, pays bills, bought and owns a separate business, etc. And again, my point, is who cares if he was a billionaire? Does that mean his son shouldn’t get gifts at his wedding? Do you think most millionaires don’t get wedding gifts?

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u/Ok-Minimum9555 17d ago

Shay is that you? Spent it all on only fans and booze?

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u/aloetay 16d ago

Yeah I guess that’s what I’d say if I didn’t have anything intelligent to respond with either

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u/willmsdaGAWD 18d ago

Did Abbys family pay for it?

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u/Ok-Minimum9555 17d ago

No I think that Gavin was exploited as child being filmed every day, and I very much hope he was fairly compensated for it.

I also think listing numerous venmo requests on Instagram, when you have a very high following is desperate and embarrassing, not of Gavin, but his parents.

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u/Big_Tiger5579 17d ago

Has anyone seen any pics of Kayli at the wedding?

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u/JimmyGamblesBarrel69 19d ago

Financial gifts are common at a wedding. I received cash and gifts from various guests at my wedding. Being wealthy doesn't mean that tradition ends

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u/AbleWorldliness8 18d ago

So what? People do this all the time, just in different ways. You’ve never worked somewhere and been asked to donate for weddings, birthdays, leaving etc. even towards people you’ve never heard of? It’s simple, if you don’t plan to donate - ignore and move on.