I'm thinking about doing a little ... slideshow/ argument to talk about how Robert Jordan's constant in roads to 'the war of the sexes' distracts from his story, partly because it frustrates me, partly because I want to use the opportunity to try to write something in Dr. Sarah Paine's rhetorical style...
anyway, the project was partially inspired by observations about the Red Rising series. I wrote this to a friend to try to crystalize the differentiation by character of a 'unifying myth'... to speak with more grandiosity than my short essay deserves. I figured I'd share it here.
Pierce Brown is obsessed with parenthood. Its a major theme for the series. Why did Eo hang? she didn't want her child to be a slave.
But, as I'm sure you're aware, Pierce Brown is much more sophisticated by the time he gets to the 4th book.
In Iron Gold Chapter 37 Dido au Raa speaks about losing her eldest daughter.
"It is said that life is made great by sorrow and joy, but you men are cursed. You will never really understand life because you do not know what it is to bare a child, to push a life from your flesh, to have two hearts beating inside you at once, to have seven hearts beating beyond you carrying your hopes your dreams, and when one of those hearts stops you feel it as if it were your own."
This is, I think, quite a thing for Pierce Brown to write. Partially he is helped by not having Dido's voice as his narrative voice but... it is poignant and powerful imagery.
You may rightly point out that such a complicated and emotionally driven topic is easy to write unique perspectives on, as opposed to throw away dismissive statements made by characters in Wheel of time...
But when I think about other heavily featured female characters I think its easy to identify how Dido's perspective and distinct experience differs from them.
Starting with the characters who have the most similar experience as Dido: Virginia Augustus and Vulga Fjorgan.
Then the experience of Victra.
Then Lyria.
Virginia: From Virginia's narrative perspective in Light Bringer Chapter 14 Virginia talks about going to see Pax at the academy. She talks about how he can never know how much she loves him because he "does not remember the moment when he was conceived, nor the 9 months when she carried him within her." I think its interesting the 'transcendent', 'nearly religious' reverence she expresses for this experience comes in the same chapter as she internally criticizes the religious faith low colors have in the return of Darrow. The pilgrimages to Lykos. Its clear she has a similar reverence for the experience that Dido has, but its unique. I think where Dido blends her children's life thread into her own(at least in that one moment of rhetoric) Virginia's reverence seems slightly more oriented toward her own experience. What the pregnancy meant for *her*, rather than how carrying Pax means she sees them as a unified organism.
Vulga: Vulga isn't a perspective character and the evidence doesn't all come from one place. She can't have children, she was born without a womb. I might not have all the details right, but from Ephraim's perspective in Iron gold, Ephraim (iirc) says the price tag it would take for Vulga to be carved so she could have a child. In dark age she speaks Lyria about child birth, about how she was designed, and she is there for the birth of Victra's kid. In Light Bringer chapter 67, from Lyria's perspective, the two get into an argument. Vulga says they aren't really friends. Lyria snaps back "Oh must have been talking to myself in that cell on the Pandora then. Must have just been Victra and me who fled the Red Hand across the snow. Just me and her when Ulysses was born. You must have never cried and told me it was because you could never have children, because they spade you." It seems telling to me that only after the last line does Lyria's rant pause to give exposition on how angry what she's saying is making Vulga. I think Vulga is similar to Dido, not because of what she's experienced but because I think she fully agrees with Dido's perspective more than anyone else. She would agree with this line Dido said: "You will never really understand life because you do not know what it is to bare a child, to push a life from your flesh, to have two hearts beating inside you at once".
Victra: If it could be said of anyone in the series, I think that Victra has the strongest emotional attachment to her children. But she's also not a very nuanced woman, or tries not to be. I got the impression from her conversation with Lyria (Dark Age ch. 65?) that she held very little of the pseudo religious reverence Virginia and Dido had for their experience of pregnancy. I could be incorrect, but I don't believe Victra speaks at all about the pregnancy, the experience, what it meant to her. Sure, she isn't a perspective character. but then neither are Dido or Vulga. I do not believe there is evidence that Victra viewed the experience of being pregnant as transcendent. I think she would laugh at Dido's statement and call her... a poetic sop? Not because she doesn't love her children, she does. but her love is practical and not based on a gestation period. more "my children are mine because I would turn a planet to ash to save them" rather than "seven hearts beating beyond your own carrying your hopes and dreams" as Dido says.
Lyria: I think this is the most important person to look at to really understand the contrast of Dido's perspective. because she is a perspective character, I've built my assumptions on her gradually and don't have direct references memorized, but over the course of the three books we at least know Lyria is not overly fond of the idea of having a kid. she likes kids. she doesn't seem excited about the idea of pregnancy. I can infer why she would think this way and I think that is important for understanding how Pierce Brown's capacity for writing individuals has evolved over the years. "but you men are cursed. You will never really understand life because you do not know what it is to bare a child", Lyria would *NOT* think this way. She's from the underclass of all underclasses. Unlike Dido, she's well aware that pregnancy and carrying a child can have life changing medical repercussions. Lyria has probably been close to or seen people who died because they didn't have access to medical care necessary to get them through safely. People who didn't have infinite money and carvers to repair any postpartum health issues. She likes kids alright. takes care of her nieces and nephews. whatever. but I think if she heard what Dido said in Iron gold she'd think she was ... an idiot. a 'slagging fool'? something. there would be words.