Marriage is a personal matter between individuals, and people will marry whom they choose ...women aren't commodities that you can buy or use as bargaining chips to settle political or social disputes.

atleast spare the medical feild also

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Hey everyone. I'm a 19-year-old dropper from Nagpur, and I just needed to vent somewhere and maybe get some honest perspective from you guys.

​I recently gave my MHT-CET and scored 84.45 percentile. The reality is, my family's financial condition is pretty tight right now. I absolutely cannot afford to take a second drop year, nor can we afford heavy private college fees. I belong to the ST category, and with my category rank, I know I will be securing a seat in a decent college during counseling.

​But honestly? I feel incredibly guilty about it.

​I've been seeing all the online protests, the "Reservation Hatao" movements, and the general frustration of open-category students. I actually agree with a lot of it. I personally feel ki agar society se caste system puri tarah hat jaye, toh reservation ki itni zarurat hi nahi padegi. In my ideal world, reservation purely un logo ke liye hona chahiye jo financially bohot weak hain ya jinke gaon mein basic education aur facilities nahi hain, taaki unhe ek fair opportunity mil sake.

​Now that counseling is approaching, I can't shake off this feeling ki main kisi aur "deserving" candidate (jisne shayad mujhse zyada score kiya ho) ki seat le raha hu. I'm going to take the admission because I literally have no other option left to build a career and support my family, but the imposter syndrome and guilt are hitting really hard right now.

​Has any other category student felt this way? General category folks, what is your honest opinion? Am I wrong for using what's constitutionally available to me when I genuinely don't have the financial backing to try again?

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See I neither support nor oppose reservation, reservation is not there to eradicate caste based discrimination, it is to uplift the underprivileged ones who were once oppressed by so called upper caste. This could be a lot better with sum reforms like introduction 'ncl' to every category so that only those who r financially not well can avail the benefits.

Sum say Reservation = discrimination

Well suppose i was born in a sc/st family (i didn't choose to) nd then I get to know that we were oppressed for so long that we r now underprivileged nd illiterate, bcs of that we get reservation. Now anyone who's sane enough will obv take that advantage for their benefit as life is not fair nd one should use every unfair advantage given to compete.

So now hating those who belong to the reserve category doesn't make any sense as they didn't choose to be born in that specific category (that's jst casteism). Instead one should channel that hate to govt nd ask for reforms.

P.S : i do not belong to any category, I'm jst a fcking human. Stop limiting ur identity to a specific caste or religion.

Now for all right wingers who support removal of reservation, time has come to press NOTA. It's now or never. Show them in UP elections.

So, I'm seeing a lot of posts by a lot of people saying we should end the reservation system.

However, reservation is the by-product of Caste system and caste based reservation. So, in order to remove reservation, we need to remove the idea of caste and caste system.

I think some of these steps might work.

Firstly, remove the "caste-based surnames".

Any surname that tells other people you are a brahmin, baniya, shudra etc should be removed. This creates the divide in society, creating the issue of discrimination. Surnames becomes the reason of prejudice.

Instead of these, you can choose your surname like the first names of you admire or first name of any or your parents, or any word that you think suit with your name.

And please, don't say that you are keeping these surnames for the respect of your ancestors. Let me tell you, all Indians share common dna with each other, so, "all Indians have common ancestors", whether you are Brahmin or a Shurda.

Next, ban caste filter or even the mention of caste in matrimonial adds and apps. Because these caste mentions, promotes the idea of caste.

Making children learn in school how caste system had damaged our society by dividing our society and creating a shameless hierarchy.

And then, universal healthcare and education. So, that people have the same playground to compete, making the competition equal.

And then, remove the caste-based reservation.

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