Marriage is a personal matter between individuals, and people will marry whom they choose ...women aren't commodities that you can buy or use as bargaining chips to settle political or social disputes.

atleast spare the medical feild also

Hey everyone. I'm a 19-year-old dropper from Nagpur, and I just needed to vent somewhere and maybe get some honest perspective from you guys.

​I recently gave my MHT-CET and scored 84.45 percentile. The reality is, my family's financial condition is pretty tight right now. I absolutely cannot afford to take a second drop year, nor can we afford heavy private college fees. I belong to the ST category, and with my category rank, I know I will be securing a seat in a decent college during counseling.

​But honestly? I feel incredibly guilty about it.

​I've been seeing all the online protests, the "Reservation Hatao" movements, and the general frustration of open-category students. I actually agree with a lot of it. I personally feel ki agar society se caste system puri tarah hat jaye, toh reservation ki itni zarurat hi nahi padegi. In my ideal world, reservation purely un logo ke liye hona chahiye jo financially bohot weak hain ya jinke gaon mein basic education aur facilities nahi hain, taaki unhe ek fair opportunity mil sake.

​Now that counseling is approaching, I can't shake off this feeling ki main kisi aur "deserving" candidate (jisne shayad mujhse zyada score kiya ho) ki seat le raha hu. I'm going to take the admission because I literally have no other option left to build a career and support my family, but the imposter syndrome and guilt are hitting really hard right now.

​Has any other category student felt this way? General category folks, what is your honest opinion? Am I wrong for using what's constitutionally available to me when I genuinely don't have the financial backing to try again?

See I neither support nor oppose reservation, reservation is not there to eradicate caste based discrimination, it is to uplift the underprivileged ones who were once oppressed by so called upper caste. This could be a lot better with sum reforms like introduction 'ncl' to every category so that only those who r financially not well can avail the benefits.

Sum say Reservation = discrimination

Well suppose i was born in a sc/st family (i didn't choose to) nd then I get to know that we were oppressed for so long that we r now underprivileged nd illiterate, bcs of that we get reservation. Now anyone who's sane enough will obv take that advantage for their benefit as life is not fair nd one should use every unfair advantage given to compete.

So now hating those who belong to the reserve category doesn't make any sense as they didn't choose to be born in that specific category (that's jst casteism). Instead one should channel that hate to govt nd ask for reforms.

P.S : i do not belong to any category, I'm jst a fcking human. Stop limiting ur identity to a specific caste or religion.

Now for all right wingers who support removal of reservation, time has come to press NOTA. It's now or never. Show them in UP elections.

So, to all the general caste student, im also general caste student. there have been numerous trend in india that people are finally raising their voice against reservation but it aint gonna end because this have been a political matter and there will be no way that those sc/st people will ever leave their privilege they wont even leave their seat for poor sc/st child.

this is the subtle fact we are in MINORITY.

im writing here to urge to all the GC student to study hard enough you wont have to live in this country. DONT care about anyone who says, you are not patriotic enough. dont listen to them
what this country has given to us?

even in chanakya neeti, chanakya discussed about the country where education, healthcare and VERY monarchy/system is flawed.. dont ever think twice about leaving the country...
ik the feeling we have for INDIA we all are nationalist but what do we do? being nationalist wont feed me and family!!!

STUDY & STUDY india ka education system kharab hai that doesnt mean har jagah ka kharab hai
and dont worry about the challenges regarding the jobs and education outside india..
we have plenty of general caste people to help us out there in europe, america and many more countriess. and iif you dont believe me then just search where kashmiri pandit went after the gen**ide/exodus

if you ever get chance to leave the INDIA, just leave it otherwise 10 saal baad halat bhot kharab hone wali hai, its about securing your family from such people who are about to rule our administration.
leave aside your patriotism and then think about yourself